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Friend Requests
March 24 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's probably one way to get in touch with you even if the guy is a guest and so he can not contact you. One way is the flirt the other it's ask for a friendship. I sent you a flirt LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
I only have people on mine that I've met. I have men send requests and they don't even match my criteria. I just reject them. You can remove them, it's in your settings somewhere :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have it written in my profile that I do not accept random friend requests, yet they still keep coming. It baffles me. My friends are people that I have actually met in person. I used to have more than I do now, but every now and then I clean up my profile and go back to basics. You are not obligated to accept anyone as a friend Mickelle, so don't be shy in rejecting any unwanted requests!
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RHP User
11 years ago
If we haven't met them or atleast swapped pics and had a lot of interaction then we reject them. We don't consider it rude to do so. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If a stranger came up to you in a public place and asked to be your friend, would you think it's bad form to say no? I agree, the people on my friends list are all RHP-ers I've met (bar one, but will be meeting her in a few days) and like to hang out with. I think 61819kermy holds the record for most friends, he's about to hit 1300. Respect, Kermy!
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's your page, who you choose to friend for one reason or another is entirely your choice, why should you be worried about what others think ? My friend's list has a variety of people on it, 90% of them I've chatted to, or do chat to or know one way or another. There is no right or wrong answer here I think, check their profile, go from there. X
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RHP User
11 years ago
All the people on my friends list i have met had a drink with and a laugh with.People think because someone is on your friends list you have slept with them.I don't think real life is like that and i know what a friend is ,thus my friends are just that!
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kizza1973' All the people on my friends list i have met had a drink with and a laugh with.People think because someone is on your friends list you have slept with them.I don't think real life is like that and i know what a friend is ,thus my friends are just that! Some people think this is like facebook I'm sure of it....I don't accept random friend requests there either.....
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madotara69
11 years ago
Pretty much through the banter with others in the forums, not necessarily to that we have met them and maybe we never will, though it is still communication with others and that means they are people just part with things. Friendship in a digital world, may become analogue may just be ones and zero's, the friend thing means we welcome the thoughts of others to share with ours, not even all about fucking, but fucking is a nice thought and the next best thing to having one. Considering the nature of this sexy site, friends would be considered to have sex on the mind, or open to the expression, then does it mean fucking has to be physical, or as friends it can be simply of the mind. To keep it in house, I think about fucking Tara all the time and when we actually do fuck it's a pleasure to express those thoughts, but when we are not actually fucking, she knows I am fucking her in my mind, and she has her thoughts to reason why those duo balls have their place, while she walks with a skip, or even stands a little figgity while doing her thing. smiling Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
but have never requested to be someone's friend. I figure they have their reasons for asking and sometimes I just accept random strangers just to help their profile along. I could care less if they contact me or not. For some it is like a popularity contest, good luck to them.
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just_Adam
11 years ago
Being a guy I guess I dont get nearly as many as women, but as someone mentioned this isnt facebook (not that Im big into that site). I certainly dont think its rude to reject ANY request, its YOUR account and profile, its YOUR life, do as you please. If soemones going to get offended by something like having a RANDOM friend request rejected, you have the right to be offended they tried to befreind you without so much as a howdy do first. Use your friends list the way you want, actual friends, list of conquests if you must, or just an easy way to stay in touch with those that you want to.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
I've received requests from members on the other side of the country..... Never met, never messages, one was 18 according to the profile (which was full of professional photos..... I decline all offers from people I don't know, but my friends list is not a reflection of trophies I've collected..... Which is, I suspect.... the impression many guys want to give in here as a way of advertising their merits. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
need to have met people on my friends list,but I do need to have had some interaction with them either on the phone,exchanging messages or through the forums....xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Who I have been chatting with for around 6 months (long distance). All my friends I have met...... OP, you can go to the menu called my lists and you can go through your friends and delete who you want to.... You can even prioritise them lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Morning all, thanks for the feedback... confirmed what I was thinking :). @ Bigmamma - found the list & did a clean up :) @ Meander - had to check out kermy's profile after I read your post. Now tempted to send him a friend request just to help get him to 1300 lol. Much love, Mickelle
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well the people on my friends list are my friends. I have heard of some that wont accept friends at all because they think it will appear to be a fuck list of sorts. Either way who cares I liked to add people that I trust and admire. Agree its more common for people to send friend requests because hey are a guest.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We're talking about clicks of mouse or taps of finger on a screen. All I'm seeing on my end is a message on my monitor. Two buttons: yes and no. The consequences of me clicking my mouse on either of those are absolutely the same, i.e. NOTHING is going to change in my life either way. Who cares if they talked to me or not? What difference does it make if my monitor is showing me that my "friend list" is empty or has 999 names in it? How is this affecting my life? The answer is: it doesn't. If you have to spend any noticeable amount of your time thinking about your "policy of dealing with friend requests"... one may wonder if you might be overcommitted to the virtual (i.e. non real) life. - Posted from rhpmobile
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usnow
11 years ago
Don't they do it in the hope you will accept them they have another piece of advertising on the site .Just hedging their bets I think . Swingnew .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for the reality check lol. Much love, Mickelle.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Same as others have mentioned. Only people we have met are on our friends list. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
When I knew no better' I'd accept anyone I fancied. These days I politely decline... and cleaned out all except the few I know are real....
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RHP User
11 years ago
sooo, what's the protocol ? Send a flirt first? a message? I'm unsure whats available as a guest, as a paid member. Love some feedback. cheers
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RHP User
11 years ago
We get a lot of requests from people overseas or just to far away that you would never meet them and also lots from guys that obviously just look at pics instead of reading the profile as they are nowhere near what we are looking for. We see no point having people on a friends list if there is no chance of meeting,and if the site had a normal chat room instead of just cam chat it would make it easier to get to know others .
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