RHP

RHP User

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Friend requests

July 06 2019

What’s is it with people? They view your profile & then send a friend request? No message, nothing I just ignore them What do others do ?

Comments

  • Phoenix_Rising

    Phoenix_Rising

    5 years ago

    Same, I just ignore/delete & move on. It doesn’t bother me at all.

  • sweetnsensual

    sweetnsensual

    5 years ago

    We get that a lot as well. Think they are looking to build their profile perhaps! Just sent you a friend request lol

  • usnow

    usnow

    5 years ago

    Isn't it people trying to get some free exposure ?

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    5 years ago

    It’s entirely some peoples logic that the more friends that they are perceived to have, the more appealing they must be...let’s be honest social status is an important thing as it demonstrates their independence and attractiveness...

  • couple6270

    couple6270

    5 years ago

    A profile that has 50 friends and no validations is an alarm bell for us.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Doesn't bother me much on the scale of things to give a fuck about. Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Because I have no idea, I try not to base too much on anything because everyone is different though people keep being shoved into boxes as far as their motives go. Labelling is a favourite thing to do here. Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I blame Facebook for that one. Lot of people don’t fully realize what “friend request” really is about. There are poly/kinky apps where sending someone friend request can get you banned from app forever if they don’t know you. It’s also very different demographic here. Lot of desperate horny single males who has never been exposed to open and healthy (behavior wise) sexual environment, so they contact as many as possible hoping one will say yes.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    5 years ago

    Often do that. Not used to the site and use it like Facebook and think maybe it's an 'in' I just ignore. If they are hot, I might send a message explaining l don't accept unless I've met them. Hot is hot after all.......

  • honkytonk

    honkytonk

    5 years ago

    no person is an island. please!!!!!!!!!!!! be my fwend. someone, anyone oh the humanity bahahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    is they're fake profiles and one way to cover the stench of fake is to have a few 'friends'. Seriously, if you have never met them, don't accept a friend request. Consider it an act of community service.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    There’s a lot of fake profiles out there, on every site and app. It’s a joke. That’s why I send my friend requests cause I think it shows more real then fake. Sometimes my first question can be u real or fake lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Got a flirt from a guy with 615 friends. I feel so special 😄 Haven't checked friend requests, i never think to look, but guaranteed he wants to add me. No.616 friend 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Forgot to say from another state so no hope of meeting. Does make you wonder doesn't it

  • myshchief

    myshchief

    5 years ago

    I've had similar experience when attempting to return or start a conversation with other single females, and have possibly done the same to others. My excuse is .... I want to reply properly and I've been so inundated with messages from couples and men (and need to remove this from my profile for this reason), that is off putting and leaves me no time to consider and think about what I will reply to those I am interested in (mainly women as my profile states), just trawling through the flirts and message looking for female or couple takes so much time.... It is rude - but I've never used any dating app so it's all new to me and daunting having to reject so many people that it some ways it seems nicer not to reply than to send endless "thanks but no thanks" messages

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Never happened 😰😥😓😪😭😩