M41
Friendly advice about my profile
February 02 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
there's nothing in your profile that really demonstrates what to bring to a prospective "playmate or two" lol... Unless your dick is all ya got??? Of course it's not..... So put some personality to it....that's all I bothered to read at this point...and let's face it....if you don't write a profile with some personality, they ain't going to check out your sexual interests and the like are they??? Good luck I'm sure there'll be others to add to what I've suggested soon enough.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
You don't need to mention it. You say you may be open to regular or even more so that negates the statement. Lots of women are turned off by the term. Even if that is their own ideology. Makes it sound a bit clinical. If you click, you click. No connection then it can end there. No strings then but it can remain unsaid. Hope that makes sense
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RHP User
9 years ago
as a guest - which many single women are i believe? I cannot see any pics as you only have restricted pics.. you don't have any fetish interests listed (or maybe you don't have any) only one general interest listed. I also dislike NSA.. why mention the need to be discreet? I've never understood that unless you are attached - which you aren't . If you mean being discreet because they are attached then that could be mentioned in chat. I over all felt like the profile was very much based around what you want.. and not who you are .
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RHP User
9 years ago
Great written part, few things i'd probably change, the combination of no unrestricted pictures and mentioning discretion would raise red flags for a lot of women, suggesting you might in fact be attached. Where it doesn't bother some, many would be put off by that, if that's what they were reading into it. Why don't you have any pictures up. Even body shots not showing your face. Guests can't see you at all which will severely restrict your chances. Otherwise, stats are great, I personally love the bi curious, athletic and endowment is a bonus 👍 Also leave out any reference to nsa and no strings, does turn me off, not necessary to state that on this website, either goes without saying or is clear in other parts of the profile or can be clarified in early messaging. But no harsh criticism, I think your profile is really good, just some more vision 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
Without actually looking at your profile, I noticed your pic is very dark and grainy. I can work out that you have a nice bod, so maybe take a clearer pic. We shop with our eyes first. 😎
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Your pic. Oh dear. Hmm. Pants down around your ankles, surrounded by packing boxes. Looks like it's shot in a garage or storage shed.......on the sly. And that may mean you may not be as single as you claim. How do I reach that assumption? If you are single, you can take pics anywhere you like and not in a dark storage area; that just doesn't make sense to me. So some better pics, and some interesting pics would be in order. Pop the cock away in a private album and reveal it when the time is right - which usually is when people ask to see it, not when you think they may like to see it. Lots of good comments already made about changes to the wording on your profile.... I'd implement some of those :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
As a male on this site, I'm pretty sure you need to be the one initiating messages. As was mentioned above, most females are guests. This means they can't see your 'R' rated profile pic nor can they message you. From other forum posts I have read, some females might see telling them to message you as arrogant...even though that's what they mostly say/do. In short, send the messages, don't wait for them to come to you.... Good luck!
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RHP User
9 years ago
You have to do all the work, all of it. Attract, entertain, seduce, all of it, they will resist and put up barriers all the way just to inflate their own sense of worth so be prepared. Don't talk about yourself unless it somehow relates to them, talk about how incredible their lives will be in your company.
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Crackatini
9 years ago
G'day John Yes a better pic without dick is always better. The ladies on here very often say so. Watch your spelling and punctuation. There are a couple of errors in your profile. Expecting discretion from potential meets may be a turn off too. Also do not rely on your profile. If you do it will be bloody hard going. My suggestion would be to get out to the meets and greets, get involved in the forums and chat room etc etc to show people that you are good company. Regards CT
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RHP User
9 years ago
Really? Wow, that attitude speaks volumes 👎
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inspirit
9 years ago
Thats what I read.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' You don't need to mention it. You say you may be open to regular or even more so that negates the statement. Lots of women are turned off by the term. Even if that is their own ideology. Makes it sound a bit clinical. If you click, you click. No connection then it can end there. No strings then but it can remain unsaid. Hope that makes sense __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Love what you wrote, Whateverway! Very eloquent! Different strokes for different folks. I suppose NSA does work for some folks, mainly men, but it's not everyone's cuppa tea. I'm still rather conservative and romantic to a fault and NSA simply doesn't appeal to me at all. Any guy who msgs me will be rejected if they just want NSA and I've even stated "not into NSA" on my profile. Strangely enough, I've had five to six guys claim that they either have to update their profile and remove the NSA or they actually meant FWB and not NSA, after I told them thanks but no thanks. I wasn't born yesterday! Hehe! Keep your NSA in your profile though. If that's what you want, that's what you want! You are simply being true to yourself.
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PurePeony
9 years ago
Quoting 'GenGuy73' As a male on this site, I'm pretty sure you need to be the one initiating messages. As was mentioned above, most females are guests. This means they can't see your 'R' rated profile pic nor can they message you. From other forum posts I have read, some females might see telling them to message you as arrogant...even though that's what they mostly say/do. In short, send the messages, don't wait for them to come to you.... Good luck! ____________________________________________________________________________________________________ Like your comment, mate! It's simple economics, really. If I have unsolicited messages from interested guys in my mailbox all the time (ie. supply is higher than demand), why should I bother to initiate messages? Not unless the person has some trait that outshines the rest, hence increasing his value and rendering him "rare". Or not unless the situation suddenly changes to the extent that there is a scarcity of men. Barring those exceptional circumstances, the bargaining power isn't truly in your favour. There... basic economics principles applied to RHP! LOL!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
And a picture of man with his dacks around his ankles is not likely something a woman or anyone else wants to see..I don't mean to be disparaging when I say that. It's just that I know I (we) have asked guys for pics in the past and it seems to be the thing they think they're supposed to do. .BUT if a guy is going to take time to take a picture of his pride and glory, I honestly think he should show some pride n how it's displayed. Don't ya think? ;-).I wish you well with getting to know women. Peachy :-)
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Mistaken. I think its on the middle finger.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks heaps for your efforts in replying to my post. I made some changes and will see how it goes. Have a great day everyone - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
To be on any site is hard, it's competitive and can be soul destroying (at the best of times). Writing a suitable profile does require thought and effort. If you put that in, your fishing rate will be successful. It's a competitive world out there. Sell yourself, your qualities, self worth to ooze self confidence (without cocky attitude). In other words, think like a woman. Ask yourself- if a woman read this, would it be enough to follow up meeting me? Women like the effort and are attracted to that, as well as smiling pics. At the end of the day it's your choice what you put in it and what pics you want to display. Good Luck Ms Foxy
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Seachange
9 years ago
My thoughts exactly. and on references to NSA. Reading your profile just now, I suppose you have changed it after reading the comments above and there are no references to NSA. Good on you. Firstly, reading your profile, you are in Bendigo, country Vic. Maybe your location also limits your chances of meeting people. I know that I will not be attracted to a man who is anymore than 45 mins drive from me as I am looking for ease of meeting up. No complications. Unless he wants to do the travelling and it gets hard and tiring after a while for both of us. If you are willing to travel, make that clear in your profile because Melb gals will just rule you out in an instant, And also say if you can host. Now if you are married or attached, be honest, of course you can not host if your presence here is not known to her. Women can get a whiff if you are lying or not. Definitely not a very attractive profile pic. Get the Dick Pic out into your private gallery and put a facial pic (or partial pic if you need to keep your presence here discreet) and body pic in your public gallery. May do you good. As others said, go to the Meet and Greets. A fun place to network and meet people There will be no play at the meet venue itself but what happens before or after the meet outside the venue is up to you and your playmates, if you decide to do something about it. I know that I met my 3 fwbs via M&G. If I have to depend on their profile here alone, I will not be interested in them. Best of luck in the future. there is always someone for anyone here. Just be patient and keep the respectful fun messages going.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' Unless I'm very much mistaken, that band is on your left ring finger? I would think that makes him more attractive (from the Mrs)
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Put my glassss on. Was getting confused with the reversal. For some reason thought the top one was the little finger. Time for a wine........ And time the Op updated his relationship status......
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'Peters6942hot123' Quoting 'Summer_solstice' Unless I'm very much mistaken, that band is on your left ring finger? I would think that makes him more attractive (from the Mrs) Appears the Mr saw the Mrs's post and they all went Pffffttt..............
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RHP User
9 years ago
Will he survive the RHP forensic character assassination ? Stay tuned folks. ( there's obviously nothing better to do)
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RHP User
9 years ago
OP did say " be as harsh as needed"...
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Seachange
9 years ago
why such negative tones to your posts lately? It is all over the place and really shows that maybe you need a break from the forum as we all obviously frustrate you.?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Agree, hasn't been very positive lately, down on the women 😯 We're not perfect figsy but we try 😁
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
No one is assignating. I'm sure he can clear things up. Prob perfect explanation as to the ring on his wedding finger, a quick sleazy photo out the back of the storage facility with the pants around his ankles. He may be with the navy seals and in a break in the action, got a few selfies off..........
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nothing on your profile stands out. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Though not clearly articulated. .I think the advice would be, that if you are attached, be honest about it. .It won't win over every woman but the one's it does will be the one's you're looking for. .A bit of dry humour there Mr Figs? .Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
The whole thing about guests not being able to review restricted pics is a big one. Whatever sort of pics people like, it's a big waste of time if you hope to attract guests because they can't see restricted pics even if you send them your private galleries. Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have you survived the critique? If you are attached,then say so...read the Airing my dirty laundry thread for some insight into what can happen if you don't .Your pic is fine. It just needs to minus the trow around the ankles and the cartons..Women looking for attached men do exist here but make sure they have that in their selection criteria xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
At least we agree on the IF aspect. :-) Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
At least we agree on the IF aspect. :-) Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks everyone for the advice. I know every guy says it, but the pic is a little older and yes I was married at the time. I'm not married anymore, so should probably change the photo. - Posted from rhpmobile
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