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Friends lists....
March 13 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not sure what your asking here? I asked one guy on here if he had "met" all his "friends". He said he hadn't, but apparently there is a competition to see who can get the most friends. Also, does it bother you if women (or for that matter, men) have lots of "friends"? It used to bother me a little, until I heard about the "competition" thing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
because I'm not on here to make friends. I think the people that do are doing it to their own detriment.Seriously if you want friends then that is what facebook is for? If it was a real friendship that is where they would be and in my personal life.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know people like to have Friends so they can see what they're up to on RHP . For example : people like to see what their Friends are posting in the Forums or if they've put up some new photos , etc . But ... There's always gonna be the ScalpHunters , conditioned by Facebook , who feel Special , due to the amount of Friends they have . I was told by a woman on RHP that she wouldn't have been interested in me if I had a big Friends list... It would make me look like I'd slept with them all . Something to Ponder ... The Women I've actually met from RHP are not on my Friends list... GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You mean the same male profiles turn up on friends lists everywhere? I hadn't really noticed it... I don't often follow the web of 'friends'... although clicking through from one to another, to another, can lead to interesting connections... unexpected connections... if you had only that evidence, and assumed friend=sex, then rhp is an incestuous place. I sometimes notice profiles that have a "friends panel" of wall-to-wall six packs, or big, angry, cocks, or both. I find that somewhat discouraging... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
On looking over a few profiles in here...... it strikes me as.... "interesting"..... how many female profiles seem to have the same few male profiles in their friends list.How many profiles did you look at?In the same state?Perhaps the males are active in the forums, therefore more well known to the women of RHP?
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RHP User
12 years ago
This one seems a little beneath you really Why concern yourself with other people's friends or their intentions ?I would have thought your time was far more precious than to waste it trawling through the list of friends women have.
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
12 years ago
Yes I had noticed same women or men on every profile not really sure why this is competition :-{ Anyway I have meet most of my friends some I've known for 9 years, and a couple mister green that I'm wanting to meet and yes it makes it easier to see what there forum post are or photos .. Why not - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is made up of a combination of people I have met through my photography as in taking shoots for profiles. I add them as friend, if they are nice and that way my women friends can know they are real, not a fake profile. Some are my lovers, yes, but not many some are my female friends I only ever put a person on that I have met. I have no idea why strangers want to add me as a friend, but I never ever add anyone I have not met in person. If I see a list of thousands it tells me they are just internet players and not really into meeting people. pen pals, are fine just not my thing that is why I do not do the ten thousand messages, or text etc If other people have lots of friends, its fine, each to their own.
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Deepbluesomething - that is so so so true!
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are only two I have not met. I certainly did not join RHP to make friends, but that's what has happened naturally. And I'm glad! DG, I wonder if these men feel validated by having an extensive friends list, even if they've never met? And Messo, "I sometimes notice profiles that have a "friends panel" of wall-to-wall six packs, or big, angry, cocks, or both. I find that somewhat discouraging..." Agreed! I got an email from a man with 50+ lady friends. All slim, athletic and very tanned. I mentioned to him it appeared he had a certain type and I was curious, as I'm the complete oppoisite. Never got a response though.
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RHP User
12 years ago
So now sure what your point is..but anyway Im very fortunate to have quite a few friends on my friends list - my profile clearly states that I dont collect friends - I dont get whole friends request if you have had no interaction..wtf ? Every single person on my list - Ive had interaraction with - obviously with some, more interaction than others... Im not getting laid out of this site (is anyhone ?) , but Ive made some awesome friendships........I know which I would prefer and I also know what lasts !!! Ive met most of the people on my list..including a few from over East - in the coming weeks I will be meeting a few more..(yay - happy dance) and I hope in time I will be fortunate to meet those who I havent met yet. I consider these people friends...and honored that they include me in their life in many ways ... and many have been there for me thru recent tough times...I dont view this site as FB at all...but what I chose to take from this site is my business... Like Ms D - I didnt join to make friends..but indeed how fortunate I am that I have
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its a bit like sending messages to people who don't bother to reply its all EGO stroking oooohhhh look I have soooo many messages in my inbox or oooohhhhh look I have sooooooooo many people on my friends list. Unfortunately its part of human nature no matter if its on RPH, Facebook or any other social media network some people will just accumulate friends even if they never talk to them.
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inspirit
12 years ago
I am taking a wild guess here at to what it you are asking. A. if you are asking do the people who have the same friends "share" Some of us do perhaps. B. If you are saying you found serial friend listers then maybe you are correct. They could be just that. My opinion of people with many friends is actually no concern to me what so ever. People have their reasons and I am not going to judge them. I have quite a few friends and I don't feel I have to justify it to any one as my friends know why they are there and I know why I am on their list. Maybe it is all about networking.......
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RHP User
12 years ago
that people collected,some people here are collectors,they send out indiscriminate requests and have sometimes more than a hundred stamps,er friends. I didn't realise there was a competition but it kinda makes sense as to why you would make a friend request to someone you have not even exchanged a message with. Do I judge someone by there friends?Sometimes ..I have been a little shocked by a ''friend'' being on a persons profile and if they are messaging me I will ask them about it.But this has only happened a couple of times.
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avidmale
12 years ago
was thinking that DG was insinuating RHP deception. Just like that 'success stories'. Dont get me started on those again.On the other hand.. Take the forums as example.. Regulars would 'know' each other fairly well so that could lead to group friends being friends of friends. Same could be said with the chatrooms. Given that (besides events) there isnt much social interaction here besides those said things, it makes sense doesnt it.Not to mention what I remember reading a bit ago ... That if a lady has found a good root and is happy to share they put in 'recommendations'. Could lead to what you are noticing too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I could be wrong but I think those with same friend are people they interact with through the forums. I get updates from my friends so I can see what they are posting and I can join in. Don't use notice that the same group of people tend to post on the same forum posts? I don't think they have been playing the field if that is what you are asking. I personally don't collect strangers as friends. I find some people's comments interested. I would love to add some people from the forums as friends, even you DG, but I have not interacted with them (or you) personally so hesitant to send a request. It feels a bit like asking a stranger for their number. Yes, some people would do it (I saw someone do that on the train yesterday) but it is not me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shinas' So now sure what your point is..but anyway Im very fortunate to have quite a few friends on my friends list - my profile clearly states that I dont collect friends - I dont get whole friends request if you have had no interaction..wtf ? Every single person on my list - Ive had interaraction with - obviously with some, more interaction than others... Im not getting laid out of this site (is anyhone ?) , but Ive made some awesome friendships........I know which I would prefer and I also know what lasts !!! Ive met most of the people on my list..including a few from over East - in the coming weeks I will be meeting a few more..(yay - happy dance) and I hope in time I will be fortunate to meet those who I havent met yet. I consider these people friends...and honored that they include me in their life in many ways ... and many have been there for me thru recent tough times...I dont view this site as FB at all...but what I chose to take from this site is my business... Like Ms D - I didnt join to make friends..but indeed how fortunate I am that I have LOL Shinas... we've got to amend your filters...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've had interaction with or that I've admired on the forums... there is a connection.So what?It's not Facebook, can anyone show me the rules where it said that we're not here to make friends? Who plans friends anyway?
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
My reply didnt make it!Perhaps because I poked some gentle fun at the "can of cock" guy, and the "anal raider".... having such a high 'networking' representation.lol DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm just a fan of hot pics..and I'm a lazy ass. I can't be bothered searching through heaps of profile pics I don't like so why not keep them in handy reach? Like Ive said before to me it's like collecting artworks..but really Im just a perve...There's no rules here peeps as to how someone keeps a friends list rocking on their profile no need to justify or feel self righteous about what/who you have on your profile!
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RHP User
12 years ago
My friends list is short but sweet. It includes real people i have actually met in real life. I have met more friends on RHP through my FWB who I met by chance. I still get friend requests from people who think one photo and a locked profile is an invitation. Some guys have such a stereotyped view of what to expect that it can be a real turnoff. I had a message the other week that read "I believe all these profiles are fake. Or I would get a reply." I read his profile I will add I was repulsed..... I replied with I am real but seriously not interested and maybe you should try Kink.com. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
My friends list is a mixture of who Ive met and Im still yet to meet. They are all people who have the same beliefs as what I do when it comes to openness of sexual encounters and where they would like things to go.
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