Friends, secrets and swinging...

October 07 2020

Hubby & I have been exploring the swinging scene for a year now and LOVE it! We play at clubs, parties, with couples and solo from time to time. I haven’t told any of my girlfriends. I’m tempted to as I often feel like I’m being fake when we all sit around talking shit and I don’t share this side of myself with them. I worry about judgement. I don’t want anyone to worry I’m going to hit them up or feel I can’t be trusted with their partners. Ladies...what have you done? What works for you?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I know people whom have been in this situation... first thing is, if judgment is an issue is it friendship? They’ll support you. I’ve always noticed that being clear that it’s your choice and they have no worries is great, better than them finding out and thinking you’ve kept it so maybe secretly keen on someone.... maybe asking the girls to keep it between you and them and not tell their partners, this may hell them to be assured you’re not after their partners. Just be ready to be asked a lot of questions about what you get up to and how and all the rest lol Hope it goes well, let me know xo

  • Serendipity69

    Serendipity69

    4 years ago

    For us we have some friends that know and we have found out they are active in the lifestyle or are just accepting of it, others, well, not something we choose to share. A key factor is the need for discretion in regard to those we are lucky enough to play with as their privacy is important.