Frustrated!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Are you showing them any pics when you contact them? Maybe the'yre just not attracted to you? But I agree, being ignored must be frustrating. A simple "no thanks" would be appreciated! Good luck!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I think you might need to post a pic or two in the public gallery. I know I don't usually bother to respond to a pic with no or hidden photos. Other than that, the profile is fine as far as I can tell, no real attention getting wow factor though. Are you reading their profiles properly and do you fit their "looking for" criterias? Must be hard for you guys vying for attention of the few.

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  madotara69

  11 years ago

  The thing is, we look to the messages from guys when we feel like playing up. Kids, work and normal family life takes most of our time. We are not in any hurry for this playful lifestyle nor trying to set any records. So if we haven't opened the messages, it doesn't mean they have been ignored. We believe that those sending a message will be expanding their chance for meeting a couple, us being just one more that tickles the fancy. Many couples have said to the forums similar for timing being more selective, due to family life. Guess it comes down to some patients for a guy to see if his message is unread, then look forward to a time where it is and answered, especially if he presses all the buttons. If it is that sort of guy (the playful type desired) we see it that one of these couples who find the time to be a bit feisty, will be thinking of him to the chances with a bit of rooting, (wishing you all that chance to be a fun time) It's more exciting and sexy reading the messages, when we are looking with the time in mind. Until then it is nothing personal against anyone. Mado Tara xx

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  goldcoastcple69

  11 years ago

  you need pics in your public galley..Most peeps will just ignore a profile with no pics.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Sorry to say this but welcome to the club of the frustrated :)) one in a thousand is bout the % rate for us males:(( I still blame the tools that screw it up for us honest ones n bad selfies well for me anyway lol Hang in there it's like rain ?? It either looks of not at all...

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  DynamicCouple36

  11 years ago

  Firstly, there are no photos on your profile. Then next to personality you have stated : sex maniac. Another "no no", is : safe sex if required ??? For us that's bad news. When were you last tested?

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  If the product ain't movin'..... The product ain't being marketed properly. I've never seen you in the forums.... being an active member is one of the easiest ways to elevate your profile. So too are photos. I haven't read your profile but I suspect it isn't capturing the intrigue or interest of others. That's point 4. And point 5 ate your emails. If they're not earning you responses, they need a revamp.... possibly also because your photos and profile haven't compelled others to reply. DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Leslie really said it all.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Thanks for all the comments & tips/advice. In response: I have periodically had photos up for people to see & it still doesn't seem to make much difference. However, if people want to see what I look like I have no issues in letting them see when they message me. i would never expect to meet without letting people see me beforehand. As far as my sexual health is concerned I get tested every 6 months or so & have never had an STI ever and I am more than keen to stay that way! Aren't we all sex maniacs on here?!?! I thought that was the point

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