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Fuck Buddies v's Couples
May 24 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's just the way it is.....people set their boundaries and rules.....you either comply or piss off.....no different to you guys having your selection criteria - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Personally, can't see an issue for us. But we haven't had much experience meeting with other couples, whether they be partnered or not. So interested to hear other's thoughts..
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RHP User
12 years ago
WTF has being married vs not being married got to do with anything ? If each bring a real live human being partner to the table (bedroom) who gives a bugga. ? Since when does having a piece of paper become a licence to choose ? Some people are fair dinkum drop kicks.. Isnt this about people ? If you are a married couple, it dont make you anymore man or woman than the FWBs or FB surely ?
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N4November
12 years ago
And there isn't anything wrong with it because isn't that what swinging is all about? But what I've encountered a lot is two attached people who are having an affair together then make a couples profile so they can seek more people to sleep with them. I can't think of any thing worse in someone's character that I could dislike more. Narcissistic and deceitful. NEXT!
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have swapped with people who aren't in a relationship and in our experience it hasn't worked out the best. We have found the two people don't respect each other enough during the experience, so if one isn't having a good time the other doesn't care as a normal partner might. Also they don't really care to have sex with each other during swinging because they aren't in love anyway so its just the physical act, they don't want to 'reconnect' during the experience.And lastly we've had one half of those 'couples' start calling one of us to meet up on their own for one on one dates.Completely understand that not all fuck buddies are like that but that is our experience so we are quite cautious.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Jay, who said anything about being married? I've encountered both couples that were in a commited relationship and singles who had couples profiles together with a friend with benefits. As long as both relationships are based on mutual trust and honesty (and a wicked sense of adventure), I don't see an issue at all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
For us it is a big thing to share ourselves sexually with another couple because we are very much into each other, so we need to find that kind of commitment to each other from another couple for it to work. We not only like to share the sexual experience but also the emotional one with other people. Guess that makes us kind of weird but that's what we look for and that commitment to each other usually comes from a long relationship that has seen good times and bad.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Jay, who said anything about being married? I've encountered both couples that were in a commited relationship and singles who had couples profiles together with a friend with benefits. As long as both relationships are based on mutual trust and honesty (and a wicked sense of adventure), I don't see an issue at all. Hey' D, I fully agree. ? I had to reread my post again because I thought thats what I said, or was trying to say.. As long as everyone's on the same page it really does'nt matter .. I feel any married couple who insists another couple must be the same, is surely missing out on some very nice people... just looking at your thumbs up....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'baygirl2315' And there isn't anything wrong with it because isn't that what swinging is all about? But what I've encountered a lot is two attached people who are having an affair together then make a couples profile so they can seek more people to sleep with them. I can't think of any thing worse in someone's character that I could dislike more. Narcissistic and deceitful. NEXT! Well said.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mr Tryst and I are both happily single, but as we like playing with others as a team we have a couples profile on here. (In which we make it clear that we are not in a relationship). We like and respect each other a lot and have amazing chemistry, but are not interested in being together. When playing with others we are in sync, know what the other is thinking and we will always have each other's back (pun intended). I could not possibly imagine not playing with him when having sex with a couple as the_team suggested. I'd feel cheated! x Ms Shout
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RHP User
12 years ago
you aren't a couple. just 2 singles in an FWB arrangement. its not what we seek. we'd say 'thanks but no' and not have an issue with doing so...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jelly2352'For us it is a big thing to share ourselves sexually with another couple because we are very much into each other, so we need to find that kind of commitment to each other from another couple for it to work. We not only like to share the sexual experience but also the emotional one with other people. Guess that makes us kind of weird but that's what we look for and that commitment to each other usually comes from a long relationship that has seen good times and bad. Yes we feel exactly the same! We need to have that sexual and emotional connection with others as well and are very much into each other - we are best friends and lovers. But I do feel you can have that commitment to someone regardless if you are a "couple" or 2 people in a non-traditional relationship. We have been approached by other "fuck-buddies" who have only been interested in meeting in a hotel room for a fuck - we have always said no. This is not us. We need that emotional and sexual connection with people. We have also met "couples" who would "take one for the team", this is something we would never do. We both need to feel a connection.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'The_team'We have swapped with people who aren't in a relationship and in our experience it hasn't worked out the best. We have found the two people don't respect each other enough during the experience, so if one isn't having a good time the other doesn't care as a normal partner might. Also they don't really care to have sex with each other during swinging because they aren't in love anyway so its just the physical act, they don't want to 'reconnect' during the experience. And lastly we've had one half of those 'couples' start calling one of us to meet up on their own for one on one dates. Completely understand that not all fuck buddies are like that but that is our experience so we are quite cautious. Thankyou for sharing your experience. Its interesting, as we have experienced the same but from "normal couples". Couples who "take one for the team", we would never do this as we respect each other too much to put our own enjoyment above anothers feelings. The last swingers party we went to we didn't play with anyone else and only had sex with each other as we didn't feel a connection with the other people at the party. Also we have experienced the same where there has been the "phone call" afterwards from usually the male half of the "normal couple" wanting to meet up for one on one play afterwards - um no thankyou, that is not what I am looking for. Interesting that we are both experiencing the same issues but from different "relationship statuses".
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tryst_and_shout' Mr Tryst and I are both happily single, but as we like playing with others as a team we have a couples profile on here. (In which we make it clear that we are not in a relationship). We like and respect each other a lot and have amazing chemistry, but are not interested in being together. When playing with others we are in sync, know what the other is thinking and we will always have each other's back (pun intended). I could not possibly imagine not playing with him when having sex with a couple as the_team suggested. I'd feel cheated! x Ms Shout So nice to hear from someone who is lucky to be in the same situation as myself! Yay for us! MsNC2147
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tryst_and_shout' Mr Tryst and I are both happily single, but as we like playing with others as a team we have a couples profile on here. (In which we make it clear that we are not in a relationship). We like and respect each other a lot and have amazing chemistry, but are not interested in being together. When playing with others we are in sync, know what the other is thinking and we will always have each other's back (pun intended). Such a great and honest reply,Couples like your self are great people up front and honest. I could not possibly imagine not playing with him when having sex with a couple as the_team suggested. I'd feel cheated! x Ms Shout
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RHP User
12 years ago
Depends on the singles who are playing as a couple. If they are totally into each other and are truly playing as a couple that's great, but I think the reason why some people say no is because bonking two singles is different when they are just in it for themselves. The dynamics are different. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tryst_and_shout' We like and respect each other a lot and have amazing chemistry, but are not interested in being together. When playing with others we are in sync, know what the other is thinking and we will always have each other's back (pun intended). If the chemistry between any couple (committed or FWB) isn't palpable during our first meet, I won't even bother.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Totally agree and looking forward to meeting you two even more! - Posted from rhpmobile
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