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Fuck buddies who take it for granted??

March 03 2012

I've got a VERY sexy girlfriend who has a FWB who works away. When he gets back from work she's ready and waiting to go, so he's got a pretty good deal here!She's recently started bringing more to the table, bringing sexy bi girlfriends over for 3way fun. He says he appreciates it, but I'm wondering... just how far should a guy go to show real appreciation? ;)I keep telling her he should take her/them out and show her/them a wicked night out, like drinks and a club or something before they retire back to his? My concern is if she keeps making it too easy, he might start taking it for granted.Just looking for some thoughts on this!! She hasn't asked for any special treatment, but I just think it'd be cool if he reciprocated with something other than his penis, just out of common courtesy?? ;)

Comments

  • tekkerz

    tekkerz

    13 years ago

    When a guy is single and looking for some quality action he's (usually) got to make an effort to attract female attention and be the type of guy that girls are going to want to fuck. So maybe your friend shouldn't make herself too freely available to this guy, a fuck buddy is a pretty sweet deal so he should be considering her an equal and show some respect and appreciate her attention. Put the FRIEND back into the Friends With Benefits.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Its a fuck buddy All he needs to do is bring his lips,dick, tongue, hands and body to the table. And all we have to do is feast at the table No need for dinner and drinks is there? Unless thats part of the deal If that is what he wants, he will let her know and if that is what she wants she will let him know. No such thing as being taken for granted, you up and leave the sitiation if its not working for you. Or dont play fuck buddys.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    How I wish to have a fuck buddy like that, I really need to get some sex. I'm unfortunately still a virgin. but I do practice (masturbate) everyday. I'm normal not a weirdo or jerk but i dunno why i dont get any luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I can't fault that argument whatsoever! I just also wonder if a fwb might come to expect too many "perks" if he gets everything so easily... Do you think perhaps it could reach a point where he stops being satisfied when it's just their usual one-on-one dates of old? Just some things I've been pondering (this is Mrs B here, so I'm curious about what might go through a man's brain in this situation!)

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    13 years ago

    Reciprocating with his penis is precisely what he's supposed to do in this situation, that's all the appreciation that a Fuck Buddy arrangement entails. Is she taking him out to dinner/drinks to show appreciation the fucking? No, that's not how it works. Is she getting a great fun hot night out of arranging the other girls for threesomes? Probably YES, and that's precisely how it works.She's got a great arrangement by the sounds of it, and unless she's saying she wants more from him, don't confuse it with a courtship or a FWB situation.xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Blacktastic'I can't fault that argument whatsoever! I just also wonder if a fwb might come to expect too many "perks" if he gets everything so easily... Do you think perhaps it could reach a point where he stops being satisfied when it's just their usual one-on-one dates of old? Just some things I've been pondering (this is Mrs B here, so I'm curious about what might go through a man's brain in this situation!) what goes through a mans brain? I think a man can answer that the best. everone can get bored with sex, its the new the sexy the play the chase the dress ups, the tese the firt then it can get old, happens all the time in life. just play while its still hot and if he goes off the boil go do some cooking on a new stove.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If she wants more, she'll let him know. If he starts to require more than she's willing to give, she'll put the brakes on. Perhaps the real problem here is jealousy. Do you feel that you're being ignored while he is recieving special privaledges?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Does anyone know who this FWB is?? I will contact him and offer myself as a morsel for him to take to the table next time he comes home   Or, alternative... "Mrs B, ask you friend plase if she wants ANOTHER FWB who works away too"   *smiles* Oh that I should be so lucky :) caveman

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I believe in fuck buddies ! I love the fact you can go fuck as hard as u want without any strings attached !! I am all for it, a third or fourth person can be included and that way there are no feelings and after it's all done get up and go home . Mmmm, if only !!