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Fuck on first date
October 26 2014
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
I think that in here... where (rightly or wrongly) men are lured by advertisements for easy shagging partners, that most men will not have a negative connotation towards the same-day-lay. Some guys seem to expect it as a birthright, going by the emails they send and the stories told by the ladies who have met them. Some other guys claim to be more "opportunistic"... in that if it goes with the flow, and the flow leads to sex, then everyone is happy. A happy outcome might be a different story. Id prefer not to get to that point on first meeting, because for me the first meet if of someone from RHP is about clarifying how well we connected as friendly humans via email, then phone, and deciding to create future opportunity.... or not. DG
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
But sometimes the chemistry's there and you go with it!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Although, I don't fuck on the first date as I am looking for more than just sex, which is often disappointing on the first date anyway. As for men putting you in the too slut basket, some will and some won't. Some will see you as too promiscous for a serious relationship just because you are on RHP. Some men find it hard to believe that women on RHP, particularly when they are into kinky stuff, group sex and swingers, will never be happy with a one on one relationship which is what a lot of the dudes want.
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RHP User
10 years ago
if you want to WHY NOT
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RHP User
10 years ago
We should? When it comes to sex I don't do anything (whether to fuck my brains out or abstain) because I should or shouldn't, but because I want or don't want it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
has its own merits of why, or why, not to take it further on a first meet. I'm a firm believer in "if it feels right do it". Any guy who has those double standards isnt worth your time. Most of the people here have had serious relationships/marriages/defactos .... so why pretend to be virginal. Sometimes it does feel good to wait ... especially if there is a strong build up and the anticipation is high ... then the wait can be worth it. It can also mean they are a dud and not confident in themselves or their abilities. I've found that many men on regular dating sites do have that "slut" stereotyping mentality. The ridiculous thing is that many of them are also on sites like RHP so they have double standards which does my head in. If you have a strong libido and want to find a partner who matches you then you are more likely to hit the jackpot on this kind of site where most people are open about their sexuality. Just my thoughts anyway. Cheers LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Of course people look at you differently depending on what site they found you on. After all they have to introduce you to their mum, and friends and your like a car Look Ma, she is hardly used. They just do not want to many miles on you and do not want you to be a taxi or have been out on the mines getting used for that rough ride. Nothing has changed since 1952, except older women are getting more sex than hot meals of younger men. No complaints here, but I aint looking for a husband. Most men I know think of this as the bonk site, and nothing more.
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Hottie1
10 years ago
Are not what drive my choices. It is a personal thing. I lost my virginity on a first date, I've been married to him for 22 years. I think it used to be more taboo but if men are going to judge you now then we are not as progressive as we would like to think. We are on RHP for fun ;) and friendship, I would worry about the hypocrisy if I was being judged whether we had sex on the first date, which is mostly always the case for me. This is a dating site, slightly more open than others, but isn't a date looking for the same things you are? Isn't that why they are here too? Live it up thrill hunter. Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
attitude will be different... some will put you in their skanky ho basket...and honestly why would you want to see them again...if you are looking for more than a sexual connection then get to know them a little before you do the horizontal dancing..if not fuck 'em I say
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On_Safari
10 years ago
But agree wholeheartedly with the sentiments of DG (lol shock horror) and Lady T ReVAMPed. I don't as a rule fuck on first dates (though my Mum had a pub and Dad had 2 trawlers) BUT if the vibe is right who knows right? 😝 Indy On Safari : Chaste first, last and mostly lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't have a problem with playing on a first date & consequently don't think of any less of those that join me in doing so. Having chatted with a few friends about the topic before, I don't know many guys that see it as a negative. If 2 people are on the same page and want to sleep together, they should go for it - regardless of whether it's a first date or not. If someone looked down on you after having fun together, they're probably not worth your time to begin with. After all, it takes 2 to tango in the first place, so they'd be just as accountable/responsible. As for moving from the 'serious' list to the 'slut' list, I'd be moving them to the 'keeper' list :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I never have sexual intercourse on the 1st "date". The 1st "date" is always for a coffee and a chat and if the man wants to treat me to lunch too, I gracefully accept. I do not feel obliged to have sexual intercourse with him in the future either, just because he has treated me to lunch. Call me "choosey" or "very particular" when it comes to men but that is how I am. I will only consider taking any "friendship" further if the man has indeed "sparked" my interest by his personality, manners and the way in which we have communicated; usually prior to the 1st Meet. I get many male RHP Members asking me how many men I have met. Most assume that I have had sexual intercourse with each one but I soon put them straight . Whether you always have sexual intercourse on your 1st Dates with each man is entirely up to you. Each and every one of us here, has a different approach to 1st Meets. The most important thing is that you are happy with yours.
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Missb4u
10 years ago
If the feeling strikes why the hell not.
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
I had a couple of relationships where I had sex on the first date fail, and I thought maybe I am letting my little head control the big head and jump into a relationship too fast. Then I thought I met the perfect woman and we both agreed not to rush into things, got on great, amazing conversations, fun, laughter, intelligent, gorgeous. I had the opportunity earlier but she said later if I had she would have lost respect and not seen me anymore. Finally slept together 6-months later, and a couple of days later when she was driving home (a couple of hundred kms), she picked up a hitch hiker and had sex with him. (no our sex was not that bad). So, who the fuck knows. I think if both are honest and open with what they want, and the situation is right there should be no issues. You can't put someone on a slut list just because they like you and are attracted to you enough to want to sleep / have sex with you. Alternatively, they are not necessarily keepers just because they want to take things slow. Life is funny like that sometimes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That elusive combination of instant chemistry, attraction and lust that lead us straight to bed. I certainly did'nt think less of either woman, on the contrary it was refreshing to find that rare open minded want and desire shared. But equally everyone is different which is just what makes meeting different people so rewarding.....
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I'm not one to conform to what society thinks I should do. Ultimately it's my decision as to who I choose to enjoy and no one else's. So if I meet someone, the connection is there, I'm attracted to them, why not enjoy each other, but if its not there, then it's just not there and neither am I.....💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
To a ol hottie like me then how could I think less of you for having sex with me ? First, second or whenever date... If you are the type who has a policy of no sex until... Then your probably not the right woman for me... After all I'm a slut, a damn fine one, and I'll accept no one who is not my equal ! Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is never in any situation a one size fits all. I guess it depends on the sort of person you are In my case I love a Woman who knows what she wants when and where she wants it a major turn on. If a Woman offer the most precious and intimate expression of herself to me am I going to turn around and call her a slut? I don't think so this is not the 1950's Haven't we grown past all of that shit? haven't we grown up? Live and Love my friends live and Love xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
since I've had a 'date' that I don't remember if I did or I didn't (*coughs bullshit ... you all know I did...) Unless you call a group date a 'date' and yes. Yes I did. LOTS. ;-) Would I if it was a one on one date? Dunno. Maybe, maybe not and do I give a toss what someone thinks of me if I do or don't? NOPE. Not one bit. I'm glad it's not 1952. I'd have been in deep poop.
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RHP User
10 years ago
To Fuck or not to Fuck ! That eth be thy Question ?? One shall not know until in the presence of the one they shall fuck !!!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
While meet first play later is what I normally do there could always be exceptions. I have met some awesome people both couples and singles on here where I have met and played on the first meet. I have found from also being on a regular dating site that it happens there as well. I don't judge, label or criticise what others do. If it feels right why not. ........ If you are comfortable in the situation then take the bull by his horn and go for it. If it turns out to be a one off then hopefully it was enjoyable for all involved. We are all adults and here on RHP for mostly the same reasons, fun, experiencing non vanilla, and ticking off the bucket list. Enjoy it life's toooo short to worry what someone else thinks. I would ideally love to find my match but don't think just because I am male that my anatomy rules my thoughts. I have to be comfortable with the person/people involved to play straight away, didn't say I wouldn't, each senerio is different. - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
10 years ago
12 months ago I rooted a younger lad ........chatted for about 6 months prior - mostly in the chat room and the odd cheeky email as you do. Well, today at work we had two technicians come in and install some security hardware into the office and workshop. I didn't take much notice as well, I was busy. Anyway I did notice this young guy smiling at me while he was in the office and didn't think much of it. You know, just thought he was a friendly guy representing the company he works for. About 10 mins later I get a txt message on my phone "Do you work for xxxxx company" I didn't know the number so was a little perplexed as obviously it was a number I had deleted - as you do - right?. I messaged back asking who this was and said, NO I don't (I keep my private life just that - private) . He messaged back and disclosed he was YYYY from RHP and said sorry he thought he just saw me. HAHAHA I hit panic stations - went and found his colleague (who was in the workshop) (YYYY had disappeared some where) and asked his work partners name.........YEP, it was him YYYY. I went back into the office laughing my arse off. Next thing YYYY came in to check the monitors and OF COURSE (Cheeky Fucker) messaged my phone (Which was on my desk and not on SILENT) so of course I looked as guilty as hell. I turned and looked at him and cracked up laughing ---OOOOOOOOps . Awkward moment - MUCH It was just one night - Can't remember them all LOL!
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inspirit
10 years ago
We all have an urge - if it feels right do it - if it doesn't he still pays for dinner and gets no dessert. Oh that sounds so wrong hahahaha
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RHP User
10 years ago
I tend to like chatting to someone for a bit before we meet up so often it feels like we have done that part. If it feels right and the chemistry is there, why not. Call me a slut if you will, I'm not overly fussed by words :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Inspirit, it does sound very fucking wrong... How about you buy your own feed sweetheart ? Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think Kevin Bloody Wilson summed it up quite succinctly ... Do you fuck on first dates? Does you Dad own a brewery? Could I feel Your tits? Or would you show 'em to me? If the answer is no to me questions above Then be a good sport and give me the name Of a girlfriend who does... Shine on you crazy diamonds Silva
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inspirit
10 years ago
have a sense of humour ffs
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RHP User
10 years ago
There's more guys here than women... Auction yourself off to the best restaurant inspirit. Or you could put the shoe on the other foot and blow it up your sense of humour... Ffs Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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inspirit
10 years ago
Would you like to borrow my shoes. Because you're worth it
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6exxy
10 years ago
Everyone is here for their own reasons. If that rocks your boat then let it float I say. I have met someone it could have happened but didn't. I wouldn't say no just like any other guy but I'm not expecting it. You are only a slut if you carry yourself in a demeaning manner not because you like to fuck. Face it folks fucking is primal and ingrained in our dna!
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's shame the shoe's don't fit :p It's the thought that counts :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Circe
10 years ago
I hate waking with regrets. There have been exceptions made but usually I like to think about it first.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Although I have killer legs, I don't do heels inspirit, I'm far too practical for that 😄 and I doubt your workboots would fit me... Hp xo💋 You bet your fuckin A I'm worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
that I could pay for my own lunch...what!...he expected a root for twenty-two dollars fifty:-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
We always go for a drink saying we don't to guys but it has happened several times And on the saying you don't marry girls who do they are only one night stands We must be in a 25 year one night stand lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
10 years ago
Why would you wake up with regrets Miss BB? Dont you enjoy sex for yourself too? Forum regulars...is it bad for a woman to use a man for sex too? Should we be ashamed of doing this? Have I got the wrong idea?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me, i wouldnt be able to get in the right headspace. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
who said anything about falling asleep in my arms !!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Honesty in that if you're just about the fuck then say so.....if you're wanting to gauge a more serious connection that's mutually beneficial then say that.....most people I know can handle the truth of Others....but what most can't handle is not being given a choice of accepting what the other person is offering due to deception.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just to more precisely answer the Op's question, I'd say about 20-30% of my first dates have ended in the sack. I don't have a problem with it, they have all gone on to a regular thang rather than a ons. The whole slut thing is just childish, we're adults here for our own reasons, I respect that and have nothing but admiration for the women who have the guts to be on here and live their lives fully.
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RHP User
10 years ago
With MUTUAL benefits... I'm not a fan of using or being used though... If those involved are happy then why not... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like Amylee, most of my first dates/meets are for a coffee or drink and a get-to-know you chat, and as a general rule I have no intention of playing. But if there was real chemistry and it felt right, I'd go for it :). And if someone wants to put me in the 'slut' basket for doing it the first date, then they're probably not someone I'd waste too much time on anyway :) Much love, Elle xx
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
the variety of opinions expressed ! Being on this site, as we are, is there actually a 'serious' list and a 'slut' list anyway ?Isn't the general purpose of being here to find other people to enjoy some time with one another, regardless of the purpose ? For guys, yes, the common denominator is to look for sexual fulfilment, but why can't that also apply to the ladies if they are so inclined ? As a number have noted, if the feeling is right on the day, why not go for it ? Why deny yourself the prospect of a good time with one another if the chemistry is working you both up ? Fuck yourselves stupid if you're both ready and eager ! Btw, Inspirit, loved your little tale. Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
Own your own sexuality. If you want to fuck someone, fuck them. If you don't, then don't. I was never very interested in taking things further with a man who has a virgin/whore complex about women anyway - and I ended up meeting the man of my dreams who is just as much of a slut as I am and embraces my sexuality as much as I. MsK x
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RHP User
10 years ago
Does your dad own a brewery? Can I feel ya tits or will you show 'em to me? If the answer is no, to the question above, can you give me the number of a girlfriend that does? Kevin Bloody Wilson has an answer all of life's tricky questions.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The best friends we have made with this sporting activity is when getting down and breaking the ice on the first date. Why? Because it's scary enough wondering if they will like us over time and those nerves take all the pleasure away. And there is only one way to find out. And of course it gives you something to talk about , and sometimes laugh about, and to look forward to next time. So you guys jump in the water, it's fun. If you walk in slowly it can get too cold and you may rush out without getting wet.Xxxxx rid and rose
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RHP User
10 years ago
If we have decided to meet then we've decided you are what we want (providing the pictures and info are real and UPTODATE) then yes we will pleasure the hell out of whomever we meet. We tend to meet more people travelling through Darwin rather than locals so time can be a limiting factor. Remember we are here for purely sex while others may not be hence there preference for a date or 2. Oh and photos from 2004 are not uptodate as you found out when we left......LOL
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Forum regulars...is it bad for a woman to use a man for sex too? Should we be ashamed of doing this? Have I got the wrong idea?? - Posted from rhpmobile It is certainly not bad. In fact, you should do it way more often. All woman should do it more often. In my humble opinion
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't hate me, but I have used men for my own sexual gratification. :-(
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think it is a good rule to have especially for women on this site. I am sorry to say but there a fair few strange and ummature people on here and I know saying that may offend some. You cant be too careful in my opinion these days. And it also helps build the desire if you have to wait a bit longer - Posted from rhpmobile
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Don't hate me, but I have used men for my own sexual gratification. :-( For penance I believe you ............... Should do more of it
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
Firstly the slut issue - Isnt this argument a contradiction in terms? I mean one member labelling another based on membership.....As spok would say "illogical humans".If its a non member(s) making the same claim - how virtuous are they?...I do not care anyway - so - who cares! As for FOFD. What an individual decides is appropriate is a choice for that individual only. As one myself ive chosen many times to safely FOFD - why because I wanted to and so did she. If im a slut too that's fine with me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well as you said if it feels right why nt
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RHP User
10 years ago
I guess that comes with gamble
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inspirit
10 years ago
I asked the question as an observation..... I don't meet some one to find out if we click - I have already done that through messaging. My journey always starts with in my mind - looks are secondary too me and so is a damn profile. Although a great smile and a sparkle in thier eye are up there. Meeting some one in person is just to close the "deal" for me. I am usually horny as hell by then and well.......... I don't do coffee or coffee shops for that matter - they bore me. I prefer dinner/drinks at a bar some where or I like to cook for them or vice versa. Some of you may say that is too full on - but hey this is me - passionate and loads of fun even with out sex. I like to be seduced and seduce and can not be bothered with the trial of meets to get to that point. I am not looking for a husband or a procrastinator. I am looking for a connection - a kindred spirit like myself. So I fuck and test the waters......... At the end of the day I am here to meet awesome men, who have that same lust for life as I do and will take a risk and let their hair down. Life is too short not to fuck!
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'inspirit' Forum regulars...is it bad for a woman to use a man for sex too? Should we be ashamed of doing this? Have I got the wrong idea?? - Posted from rhpmobile It is certainly not bad. In fact, you should do it way more often. All woman should do it more often. In my humble opinion Bite Me
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RHP User
10 years ago
who needs them. I personally couldn't care less if someone has sex on the first date. At least then you know if you have sexual chemistry. My wife and I had sex on our first "date", that's such an outdated term, and haven't looked back. We also prefer to play on a first meet as that's what we're here for. If we make extra friends on the side that's a bonus. Some people make sex out to be such a big deal. It's only sex people. If the mood takes you do it and don't look back. I personally don't know anybody that has broken up with/never pursued a relationship because a girl had sex with him/her when they first met.
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Bite Me Where would you like to be bitten ?, (I have to say though that you are looking a tad delectable)
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RHP User
10 years ago
So I should not be concerned about those that judge me because I let them put their cock in me somewhere on a first date. I guess what bothers me is the men who put in the hard work in order to meet, messages, phone calls and general attention and then after the deed you get silence, At least be man enough to say, 'it was nice but not nice enough to go back', or better still, 'you were great but I'm a shallow piece of shit and just wanted a one time fuck'. I always follow up on my performance. I am here for sex. I have no desire to meet 'the one'. It is clear on my profile that love is not what I'm looking for. I'm after good company and good sex. Unfortunately the good company seems to be temporary. Hence there's a lot more 'wankers' out there than decent lays.
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Circe
10 years ago
Big O, it wouldn't have to be in your arms to have regrets... And inspirit, I'm having sex for myself primarily tbh. Geez, just that having a drink or two can help me to push aside misgivings that I might have- when I shouldn't ... Either I'm just not that into him or I can tell he's not quite sure about me and then the sex is shit and then I regret it. I hate that!! If I'm still hot for him the next day then it's not alcohol or the mood or my horniness that's talking, there's something mutual and we should fuck... And fuck some more- I want something ongoing so I gotta like him or her enough to be in their company for a bit...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I met a girl once at an AMWAY conference in PERTH.. we made a "Sort-of-date" to catch up after the do wound up...We fckd... Fck... the thought of it even makes me want to go join up again!!!! "Follow your dreams" Dexter Yager said!!!!We DID !!
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' I met a girl once at an AMWAY conference in PERTH.. we made a "Sort-of-date" to catch up after the do wound up...We fckd... Fck... the thought of it even makes me want to go join up again!!!! "Follow your dreams" Dexter Yager said!!!!We DID !! Hey Cavey I think youre at risk of being a good bloke. No im not gay nor bi sorry - but(t) I do like your posts mate keep em going... btw good luck with Amway reconnect! =================================== To the OPI said my 2 cents worth earlier in thread.....Im all for fairness, sometimes that gets taken advantage of, and that's a great filter for me on who not to give a fuck about....=================================
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RHP User
10 years ago
Even with honourable intentions ... I can't say no to fucking on a first date if things pan out differently. However ' if that's her thing ,I can respect that. Don't see the point of one wanting to fuck and not the other..
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DTE_couple
10 years ago
We are always happy to play on first dates as long as everyone is happy too. But we try not to tick all the boxes, so to speak. With the notion of NSA we don't want to Marry you we just want to have some fun, both socially and sexually like everyone on this website. If we had tick all the boxes every time we would hardly ever have any fun either.This is just our way of looking at this lifestyle as we are all here to have as much sexual fun as we can.YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE !!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't conform to any specific ways, But I do chat online a couple of times to get to know the guy then meet for coffee, If there is chemistry the I go for it on the first date. Some turn out to be great and others are a flop, but hey gotta give it a go. I met one guy on RHP a couple years ago and we hit it off straight away, I knew I wanted what he had even before the coffee, It was that time of the month at my peak and the bulge in his pants is what I wanted, He did not disappoint in any way for 3 hrs straight. I still see him as often as I can, especially when hubby is away.So each one to them selves
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' But agree wholeheartedly with the sentiments of DG (lol shock horror) and Lady T ReVAMPed. I don't as a rule fuck on first dates (though my Mum had a pub and Dad had 2 trawlers) BUT if the vibe is right who knows right? 😝 Indy On Safari : Chaste first, last and mostly lol Chaste. Like a gazelle across the veldt.yes, I've got to agree with a variant of "go with the flow".
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RHP User
10 years ago
*chuckles* Thank you mate :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why is it only the woman that's considered a ' slut' if they fuck on first dates or sleep around?! Plus, I'm pretty confident that im not crossing the line by saying most people on here are here for sexual reasons, to release their inhibitions without being judged with such labels. Personally, if you both have a spark and attraction, first date or not, go with what comes naturally. Sex is the best natural and normal human and animal activity, nothing slutty about our natural instincts. I think our modern day society has labelled things to be a certain way. But I don't think a 65% diverse rate isn't a positive sign or the society has got their shit together with what is considered 'normal' I say, go where your emotions take you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm with you huni let's co it anytime it feels rite
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RHP User
10 years ago
I met my lovely FB in a fuck on first date situation (unavoidable really) and we are becoming better and better acquainted ... she has called me a slut a couple of times, I think its only my mind though. Does that count? Im really as pure as the driven snow ....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Generally I don't ..... but a couple of times the chemistry is just right and before I knew it I was fucking on the first date ... one lead to a 14 month relationship .... the other has lead to a growing friendship CJ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Then go for it isn't that just natural attraction or chemistry as they say as long as it's conventuals why not? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've always found slutty and promiscuous behaviour a turn on so I'm possibly not mainstream. I will say however that my lasting relationships have always blossomed from a first fuck date.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Depends on a few things, for eg How long I've chatted with them before making the leap to meeting them in person. I also listen to my gut, if I'm not sure about a guy or 100% sure that I want it to lead to sex, I will only meet in public first, whether it be afternoon coffee or drink at the pub. For me to invite a guy straight to my house, without meeting first, I usually have a very good vibe about them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Attraction is one thing desire another? You can fuck hard on first date as a fuck of attraction is one thing but if there is a desire to know the person you just fucked then the sex will only become more much much more desirable and still there's no need to have full relationship :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
often there the ones that turn out quiet erotic and well worth it for both if there was mutual attraction to begin with you should strike while the irons hot. So enjoy the naughtiness greatly. Xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Have I fucked on the first date. We were set up, we clicked , we fucked and have been married for 19 years. Was it the right thing to do at the time. Maybe, maybe not. Did we use protection. No. That was probably the one thing we did wrong, not that she got pregnant or anything. I wasn't expecting to be fucking anyone that night so wasn't carrying condoms either was she. Now would I do it again. Id say yes I guess. but there has to be an attraction to the person. - Posted from rhpmobile
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peteranick223
8 years ago
I did and loved it I was 19 and if I recall it was 4 times on that night
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Then she did ? 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
Why the hell not! I fucked my now husband on our first date and whilst i no longer " date" people we have met up with we have played with on the same night. I must be weird, i don't get why you wouldn't?
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RHP User
8 years ago
end up in bed. When a guy turns me on that much, that's what he gets. Why hold back? Amazing first dates rarely happen. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I fucked this girl on the first date. She got pregnant. We had a little boy, that was over 35 years ago. We got married a year later. Still together now. I'm here for other reason
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think now people (women in particular) are more comfortable and confident with their sexuality, and dint feel the shame/guilt that used to be associated with sex on the first date. For me it's a turn on purely knowing any woman I might sleep with on a first date is confident enough to do so, and is attracted enough to me and can't/won't hold back. I'd feel the same if it was a short term thing or a first date that could really lead somewhere. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
So I went and met up with a guy I met at a NYE party. After ignoring him the first day, on the second day I thought I'll go to the beach and see if he wants to meet. We met out and then hours later I went to his place. He wasn't feeling great, but the first sign of a deal breaker was that he threw the f-bomb into a regular sentence within minutes of meeting each other ew ew ew... why?! You don't need to do that in regular conversation. Even in arguments, you don't need to swear to get the message across. Anyway, he asked me how many guys I slept with and at the end, I wasn't feeling it and he turned around used that against me and basically, called me a slut after he KNEW I didn't have sex at the 2 NYE sex parties I attended. So glad I made the right call on that! So, know yourself and be careful who you choose to enter your body. That's a woman's right to protect, not a man's entitlement to enter. If he's reading this, I don't give 2 hoots. Lol I didn't even swear, even though I could have and would have been even more appropriate ;)
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Missb4u
8 years ago
If the chemistry is there absolutely. Such a turn on
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RHP User
8 years ago
But I felt better about myself when Ive waited. I dont think it makes any difference to guys. If they like you then they will want to see you again. Thats what Ive found anyway. Its totally up to yourself...its your body, mind and choice.
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RHP User
8 years ago
will make that decision. If the first meet over drinks or coffee go that well that both parties want to go for it!! If not enjoy the moment and see where it leads. Key is no expectations.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't always, more often than not, no. If it feels right and the guy has that je ne sais quoi, that chemistry...my knickers have a tendency to fall off. 😗 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Everyone is different and not saying I've never had a great encounter on a first date but would say that taking your time to get to know someone will only enhance your connection down the track. First meet should be about seeing if they look like there profile or if there is chemistry. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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