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Games we play

December 17 2012

When i was in a long term marriage we had a 5 minute rule. When one or the other of us might not have been in the mind set of sex, the instigator could invoke the 5 minute rule. You then had 5 minutes where you could do anything you liked to your partner, and if they still didn't feel like sex at the end of the 5 minutes. No problem. Having said that.....5 minutes was always enough to change the other persons mind! What techniques do you use to get your partner interested??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    is on my doorstep,then it is definitely ''Game on''...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    a glass of wine or two will do it ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    the few times when I actually say no... my nipples betray me. Good on you girls, without you I may have missed out on some great sex!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Lick sip and suck...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Piss off and leave me alone means, piss off I'm not in the mood.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Im with GB (hahahahaha) if I say no then its a definate no dont even bother trying to change my mind because that will just make me cranky.   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Saskia72' the few times when I actually say no... my nipples betray me. Good on you girls, without you I may have missed out on some great sex! Hehe. Hehehe.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It sometimes pisses me off, I may be shitty with my partner for some reason or other, so don't feel like shagging, and he knows if he goes there it's all over, and there's not a thing I can do to stop... in fact I think if he was to be cruel and stop playing with me I would have to club him over the head and rape him. Grrr damn nipples!!! I suppose we have a love hate relationship.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    No become yes anyway??? Any wonder I read shit about how don't take no for a reason...so here's a tip..say what you mean....mean what you say...in otherwords if you say no...then it's no..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Insert the word "men" exchange "reason" for "an answer"

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    12 years ago

    Thank god for nipples it seems. If no means no does stiff nipples mean yes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If that's the case, surely there'll be no such crime as rape.... "But...your honour....her nipples...they were hard!!!" Lmfao

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ghostbusters'No become yes anyway??? Any wonder I read shit about how don't take no for a reason...so here's a tip..say what you mean....mean what you say...in otherwords if you say no...then it's no.. There's a difference between saying "I'm not really in the mood" to a partner whom you've agreed on certain rules with, and saying "No", to your partner, your date or a stranger.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    shy' but got the courage to ask to best sort in the hall for a dance.... she was a fiesty lil stuck up thing and abruptly gave me a firm NO... thats until I said, well' I guess a root outta the question then... she laughed , we laughed, and the next dance was ours... so NO does'nt always mean NO... lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sorry I didn't explain it all that well, yes Miss M is correct this is with my partner, and is not really a game, Karynb's game struck me as quite a good idea, it got me to thinking about when I say no, that he knows my weakness.   So please don't use me as the postergirl for 'NO means yes!' it goes against everything I believe in... HT I thought you were a little more mature than that!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    With a friend, that she said that sometimes no actually means yes. When a man approaches a woman in a nightclub/pub etc, if he comes back a 2nd time, he must be really interested she said. So, when I read this, same thing different scenario!! Not at all out of context. Whereas myself, if a woman says no....irrespective of relationship status...it means no...the door is shut...end of story the umpires decision was final...so my question is, why say no in the first place??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think it's all about what two people agree on within the relationship. My ex would clearly understand the difference between "No" and "No, but maybe if you put enough effort in..." Acting/being disinterested, followed by being seduced can be so much fun! As long as there is trust and that trust is not broken in any way. Then it would be Game Over very quickly. And your lady friend is not giving the rest of us a very good name.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If I get a no, I go find something else to do. I play sports not games

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sounds like a head fuck to me..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Think I should rest my case...it's a headfuck!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    if you expect him to continue after one no though, then I think it's a headfuck... and if he doesn't come back after that no, then you miss out on what could have been. When I think it over again it's sounds a bit princess like... but hey if it works for her, why fix what ain't broke...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We don't really have any games as such, just the odd wager where we might bet away our services... I think I'm actually owed $100 and a looong oral session at the moment, hmmm might be time to collect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ghostbusters'Sounds like a head fuck to me.. A game is only positive when both participants agree to play (and at the same time). Any other game is indeed a head fuck. And I don't play those games.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My ex sometimes said no to me.So i would go and get a sweet treat (dessert) i had stashed in the fridge She would ask for some and my answer would be NO! No sugar for me,none for her Then i would give her some ,and we would play leap frog

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    my ex and I...seeing that I'm supposed to be thoughtful, sharing and the like to better ones chances...lmfao *rolls eyes*....   Was, she used to say to me "don't touch me, everytime you do, my skin crawls." so I would get her weak spot just like saskia's nipples were...she'd soon give in....start to play, then I'd just up and leave the bed, and go sleep on the couch...

  • smo669

    smo669

    12 years ago

    A hammer ... .... You caveman Chloroform works much better

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    WHAT THE HECK WAS SEX/FOREPLAY/ TEASING???All I got was head fucked so left....bored with that technique.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    WHAT THE HECK WAS SEX/FOREPLAY/ TEASING???All I got was head fucked so left....bored with that technique.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Less messy too I might add

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Persuasive indeed! Quoting 'Taipan12'Lick sip and suck...

  • Letsgetcrazy09

    Letsgetcrazy09

    12 years ago

    Reminds me of the young couple that were recently married They used the code name "Do the washing" for sex. One night the young bride declines sex and rolls over. Upon thinking about it for some time, she rolls back over and says how guilty she felt and that they could "do the washing" now. Young husbands response......"thats okay Dear, it was just a small load so I did it by hand"   Lets

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I am wondering...if I was not in the mood for sex...would 5 minutes be enough time to change my mind...Ricky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Pretty sure i am up for that challenge Quoting 'goodtimesricky'I am wondering...if I was not in the mood for sex...would 5 minutes be enough time to change my mind...Ricky

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ghostbusters' my ex and I...seeing that I'm supposed to be thoughtful, sharing and the like to better ones chances...lmfao *rolls eyes*....   Was, she used to say to me "don't touch me, everytime you do, my skin crawls." so I would get her weak spot just like saskia's nipples were...she'd soon give in....start to play, then I'd just up and leave the bed, and go sleep on the couch... Quoting 'Letsgetcrazy09' Reminds me of the young couple that were recently married They used the code name "Do the washing" for sex. One night the young bride declines sex and rolls over. Upon thinking about it for some time, she rolls back over and says how guilty she felt and that they could "do the washing" now. Young husbands response......"thats okay Dear, it was just a small load so I did it by hand"   Lets

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'karynb' Pretty sure i am up for that challenge Quoting 'goodtimesricky'I am wondering...if I was not in the mood for sex...would 5 minutes be enough time to change my mind...Ricky Yep, I dares ya karynb...lol...though I just need to check on one thing if you don't mind...did you say 5 minutes...or 5 seconds...*walks away whistling...hands in pocket*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    are you saying that is a hand in your pocket?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    game? a 'look' is often all it takes, failing that, theres always a suggestive whisper or two in the ear..... always gets a response.... lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    that one of these male posters, was here in a previous life...playing the field under the guise of a different profile name. I wonder how long it will take for the other forum felines to catch on? Think back ladies...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hey guys....that's awesome if that's allit takes after 23 plus years. Good for you! Quoting 'mikeandshel' game? a 'look' is often all it takes, failing that, theres always a suggestive whisper or two in the ear..... always gets a response.... lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Oh for chrissake get a sense of humour, just walk into the bedroom with a glass of water, two Panadols in hand with a glass of water..You say...'Here, these are for you'She says...'Why, I don't have a headache'You say....jezus if you can't take it from here then colour yourself hopeless, go out and watch TV.If she takes them and says 'Thank you' then just remind her she owes you one later. Plan your work and work your plan, a head fuck is better than no fuck at all! Doctor's orders and prescription free!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hey if this works you'll both need something to drink after your through? Oh well, you can never have enough water on a hot summers day!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Spreading inuendo is such fun. I'm just luving this post. Love your work chasingmytail. I always ask do my nipples look nice in this? Works every time lmao. But my favorite is asking my guy how my new lippy looks on his cock.