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Gangbang Wanted - Do's and Dont's?

December 08 2012

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OK, its that time of year we all start thinking about what we want for christmas etc. Well I am thinking a gangbang! Like most, have had the 2some, 3some and 4 some, but now thinking maybe more is in order.   I am sure there is a few here who have been involved in a one female and 4+ males so figured, use your experiences to see what works.   Obviously, all males have to be comfortable and not freak of some other guy accidentally brushed against them. But do you just get a friend to organise mates? would you sorta organise a coffee with each prospective male and do the size check and see if they are interested in you? Dont want guys turning up and going - nope not attracted to this woman type of thing.   Would it be wrong to clearly state the type of scenario in terms of what is in my head - how its played out in a way. Obviously you cant write a script, but pass on the ideas of what works in my head so they know what I expect?   I have been to swingers parties and found males who rush in and cum once, then clearly head for a 2nd attempt to cum with another woman, and then become annoying pounders who seem to think your just a blow up doll for them to slam into over and over even tho they just are NOT going to cum a 3rd time! I am concerned about that affect happening in such a scenario. I am not niave by any means, but think hearing others input, good or bad will help me to avoid such things that I forsee could be a problem and a major turn off for me.   Sorry if there is another similar thread, if so please point me in the direction of it :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I totally think you can write a script. Please send it on to us when you're done.I think the test-run scenario is a good idea - try out the partners one-on-one, two-on-one, and just keep building up the mass of bodies like a snowball. Also, feel free to use that visual image/snowballing in your script.Make sure your expectations and desires are very clear. It might be a good idea to appoint a 'team captain' or director to run the show. From the sounds of it there will be an awful lot of cooks and significant volumes of broth - you want you to be spoiled, not your evening!Mr Tryst x

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi me and my wife have been talking about a gang bang for 12 months (well I would love to see her in 1 and she says she is still a bit scared and maybe one day) but a friend recommend buttman to us saying she went to a gang bang he organised and everything was as she asked and even though we have only chatted with him he gives the impression that everything would be as we would ask and we would be in control at all times

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I dont want to just be used for their pleasure. I want to be the center of attention and be pleasured. Twice now we have invited 3 men to join us for a group play and both times only one showed up and the others sent their last minute apologies. It seems that men arent as anxious to be in a gang bang as I thought.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Lots of men wimp out apparently. Maybe it's performance anxiety? Otherwise the whole gang bang thing leaves me a bit cold really. Men standing arounding waiting their turn. I don't really get it... Besides its too much like hard work for my liking. I much prefer it when everyone is bi-sexual and everyone takes a turn at being the one pleasured. Must admit I do like that... Lying back like a starfish while a group of people pleasure me. Nice!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi the lollypop and fellow rhp devils, I think this site should be (red cold pie) because we have been trying to arrange one for almost 2 years now. And every time they seem to get cold feet,,,, that's the red cold pie change. We have arrange that many meets spent that much money on rooms it's not funny, and only for 1 or 2guys to turn up. I know that some swingers clubs can and do arrange private gangbang parties for those interested.before i met my now wide she had an 11 guy gangbang at a swingers club, so they do happen. Hope this helps Mr cns

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Jennylee - yes I agree totally, and is how I have felt at some swingers events and if indulging in a gangbang, well it needs to be me getting pleasure and not just there for them to pound like a piece of meat. Thats why I thought of having a scenario of sorts so the guys know what I expect out of it. Plus I dont want like 10 guys type of thing where they are standing around wanking and having their turn so to speak, I think just 4-6 guys is enough for my liking.   Meeka I hosted a small get together last night and the couples were saying much the same where they have invited single guys, or they have arranged to hook up and they dont show up and apparently it happens a lot, so maybe it is all a bit too much when fantasy becomes reality and they do get performance anxiety.   I spose in my head its more like me the center of attention where i have a cock in each hand, one fucking me, sucking another, and if one is fucking me, then a different one is masturbating me while another playing with my breasts type of thing. All hands on deck! lol I rather it be something more like a slow fuck and only hard and fast when I am ready to cum and be pounded, rather than each guy having their turn, their way. This may not be sounding like its mutual but in my head it doesnt play out as bad as it sounds typed LOL   Hereforfun I will checkout buttmans profile. I wouldnt want something totally orchestrated but thinking having someone with some experience would be good, not sure if I would want one of my normal fuckbuddies there or rather it just be all strangers, a one off and see ya later type of thing... Hence oped for others experiences to help clear things more in my head. As we know, any ideas or fantasies in the head very rarely work out the same way once you put it into play so have to be prepared for almost anything to happen LOL   Mr Trist I wasnt thinking a full script as such but just some basic pointers as mentioned above to meeka. It would still need to just flow and go where it goes. I guess my point is that its not just guys getting a hand job or head job and not actually using their hands and being interractive in the whole scenario. I am thinking that it would take some work to get the right mix of males involved for it to work for my way of thinking. Not putting a post out there for any one to pop along as total strangers. Definately planning required for a successful gangbang.   Definately food for thought guys!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There should probably be a squad team for these things, shouldn't there? Self regulated, transparent, comfortable etc. Then the fillies could put in a request list to the Team Captain. That would streamline the whole operation, and give your fanny peace of mind.RA

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    why would you want to put pressure on your wife to have a gangbang Perhaps she is right to be scared.There are women who enjoy the experience but it is always initiated by them,for their pleasure,not to please their partners.Their partners pleasure in watching or participating seems to be secondary.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yes Meeka you are right about the anxiety, however that can happen everyday in a bedroom.   If you start with a meet and greet and a few drinks and a bit of a laugh everyone enjoys it a lot more.   Your idea is the best, where everyone pleases everyone. If you sort out the rules mainly involving the women and her limits then gangbang is just like a porn movie without the cameras running. But your the star of the movie.   They can be wonderfully exciting and a unforgettable experience. And you will either love it and want more & more of them or you will say ok been there done that. What"s next!!!!   Enjoy your experience and I hope it is the best mind blowing sex of your life.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cnsfelswat' for those interested before i met my now wide she had an 11 guy gangbang at a swingers club, so they do happen. I can see why she is now wide! Kidding!!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    cnsfelswat I am hearing about no shows a lot, and your right. It is a constant expense to get a hotel room and being organised for people to just not bother showing up, and is becoming very popular.   I belong to a swingers club and that happens often, and an expectation of 20+ people has on many occassion turned out to only be 5-6. Seems to be a lot of people who cant walk the walk.   Maybe need to charge them an attendance fee that is refundable after they show up and join in LOL

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  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    12 years ago

    Jennylee I agree!!! Completely xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Cake???

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I hope that is not cream pie you are offering

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I always want cake!! Mmmm mmm mm

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thanks for the info, I did do a search for gangbang and only got 3 posts show up, maybe I didnt search right?   I am seeing that its probably a better opportunity at an actual large swingers event for a gangbang to occur and obviously males definately being there in attendance, although I really was thinking of something more private which would avoid those who just wanna line up to give a woman a pounding rather than an experience.   Everyone has so many excellent points, this may be something needed to be a new years resolution for 2013 rather than christmas.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    LOL gotta love those drunk typo's,, i feel like a dick now. Ohhhhhh wait i do have one of those already.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Nah not cream pie after another convo about toilet seats

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Truck stops and gear sticks. OMG I hope you get paid danger money! LMAO. ✷(ꇐ‿ꇐ)✷

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Truck stops and gear sticks. OMG I hope you get paid danger money! LMAO. ✷(ꇐ‿ꇐ)✷ When I can kidnap you for my own protection

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    When I lived on the Gold Coast I used to attend GBs in Bris on a semi regular basis.   After a few months of living in Sydney my Bris organniser got one set up for Sydney. He is now here on a regualr basis. If you wish to get his contact details please feel free to message me (or if you have already commented on this thread then flirt me) and I am more than happy to pass on his details.   I found that the group of people who attended these parties were always respectful and the regulars got to know each other and keep an eye out (hell he organised a GB for my bday a couple of years ago - cake and all lol)   As many of you may know I cant see without my glasses on, and find that they get messed up when on with close body contact, the organiser I am discussing (and many of the regulars) would always keep a special eye out for me to ensure my rules were being followed even if my glasses were off.   If this is something you want to do then I suggest you utilise a regular organiser than trying to do it yourselves.   Kisses Focus

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  • 1playfulcpl

    1playfulcpl

    12 years ago

    nice group of 10men in newy do ganbangs,can have 1 or 10 the number is up2u they pay for ur accomodation bring lube condoms an own drinks an are a great bunch of guys that enjot their fun but also respect the wants an wishes of the people they play with

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    1playfulcpl that would be great thanks. Are you able to message me the info? or some details on who to contact if possible:)

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