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Gangbang interest in preferences
November 10 2008
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Mr_Invisible
16 years ago
Lots of single girls also have this in their preferences Along with some B+D I think its more a fantasy than an interest Few actually want to play that way when confronted with it
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Perthbloke
16 years ago
Hi Hardncurvry If you are interested in having one I'd be interested in attending. Mick
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RHP User
16 years ago
We certainly have an interest but the hard thing to do is to get enough guys at the same place at the same time willing to do it. We've tried on a number of occasions and have all but given up on it. Maybe there are others out there with similar feelings.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have found .. that most that have it in their profile think about it, but seem to keep it as a fantasy. Also when someone talks about a gangbang they would rather have it with say just one female and either 3-5 guys only. We also receive queries and quite a few bookings but we always know that at least 5 guys will either no show (if we have say 35 guys booked) and with females/cpls .. we usually have at least one cpl / fem do a no show unless they have attended before. You will also find that with gangbangs that you cant take control of the situation compared to cpls+extra fem play... so you both have to be in total agreeance to the situation like any play .. that no jealousy to arise ... but like I said most will say it .. but when push comes to shove they back out .. cause the fantasy is their and they dont want to take the next step. Its not for everyone but to the few that do take the step, they come back time and time and time again ...(and its more the women who are 40+ in age as they are in their sexual prime).
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RHP User
16 years ago
couldn't agree with you more yumy. it took me all of 8 months to get enough guys together who would provide contact details, meet and actually show up when it mattered. i think for most people it's a fantasy and the web offers the chance to satisfy their curiosity without necessarily wanting to participate (which is understandable).
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RHP User
16 years ago
Of the very few gang bangs that I've been involved in I've noticed that a lot of guys appear to be genuinely shy in that environment.... and find it difficult to literally "stand up" to the plate and bat one for the team. True the only times I've been involved were impromtu events at a sex club... where guys were not expecting it.. and maybe that's why I had this perception. Anyway... it's probably a little bit of performance anxiety.. not because of the fuck.. .but by reason of all the fuckers standing around egging you on. It's like getting up on stage and showing a crowd how you use your junk... it takes a certain kind of confidence and horniness to do the deed effectively. No doubt people are interested in gang bangs.. but it takes a certain kind of bravery from all of the participants to follow through! If you are having trouble getting guys to show up or perform.... maybe you should be offering Viagra all round.. lol!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Your quite right that a large percentage of couples have a tick in the gangbang box. Probably around seven out of ten would be about right. Its very unlikely that the female member would be interested because most of the very same profiles are actually really looking for a female. They may well tick the couples box also, but reading through their profiles its abovious that the vast majority are preoccupied with a female for a threesome more than any other scenario. Its pretty clear that if these couples are mainly interested in playing with a female that there is no way they would really consider a gangbang for the female partner unless of course its just the male by himself banging someone else's woman. Overall the couples here generally have a bias towards the male partner playing & the female having to be content with a little bi action while hubby gets his rocks off. Can you really imagine the guys in these couples who basicaly just want to fuck another woman, but don't want there partner to have a male, throwing that all out the window & allowing them to be gangbanged ? Most couples profiles are unverified & as such are not confirmed couples. Theres a very real chance that a lot of them may well be just sneaky guys on the lookout for some action without the female involved or even aware. Cynical ? yes, but also realistic too.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Club oz used to be good for it .. there was never a shortage of young good looking guys .. these days not so much at the swingers clubs the young guys arent willing to pay the entry fee anymore .. but still, when i/we (im married) were looking we never had any problems finding a handful of hot guys from off rhp, its just a matter of searching and inviting enough to compensate for the ones who chicken out and dont turn up.
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RHP User
16 years ago
we have had many successfull gangbangs bieng members of a gangbang group ensures a good reliable group of guys are allways available in fact we are having another one on new years eve
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey always in for a gangbang, you can count me in for any occasion, just need a few days notice, can also bring others! But yeah gangbangs are my favourite and No im not a chicken shit pussy fucker that doesnt show. I'll be there just let me know!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Fascinating subject Hardncurvy, though do wonder about the logistics, good guys behaving badly or bad guys behaving good! What are the limits? When is enough, enough? What are the expectations? The experience and the aftermath? How much of this is a power trip? And how much is ecstasy? From both the female and male perspectives. Or should that be gangee and ganger? Sadly these days I'm little more than an armchair voyeurist rather than an active practitionist. Wonders if I'm inventing words here? Maybe Tina and the other ladies can provide more insight.... Sorry not trying to hijack your topic Hardncurvy... just hanging on everyone's words ;) Nice set of boobs by the way.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Was only recently that we were invited to an "organised" gangbang here in Perth, and where Ms turned out to be the center of attention, and was very appreciative of the experience, and is keen to experience another one. As it was in a "club envireoment" there were some rules that applied, but as it turned out all those partaking had an enjoyable and Full filling evening
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi, we have been to quite a few this year butthe ratio was 2 uys to one girl. Not sure if this is classed as a gang bang but at some points during the night I the female was entertaining up to 4 guys at once and loved it. Highly recommend it to all. Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
Great responses and as always shows the diversity of our little community here onRHP. I certainly think thatit is merely a fantasy for many people, and the first time can be a bit overwhelming. I suspect that the thing that stops lots of ladies and couples from persuing a gangbang is exactly that percieved lack of control. My first time was orchestrated for me by a male friend who stayed back and took complete control for me, allowing me to just lie back and enjoy it all. It was in a club situation and he hand picked the gentlemen and invited them in to a private room. We had prearranged signals that I could have given to him if I felt uncomfortable. He also knew my limits so was able to step in when a couple of the guys looked like they were going to cross the line. From my persepctive, the experience of being the centre of attention and just giving in to the sexual energy is only possible if I know there is someone who is looking out for me. I would love to selfishly indulge myself in more...but alas the number of men who are comfortable with the BBW body are few and far between. Poss xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
alot of people put gangbang as a fantasy, we all have them, i myself have had very successful ganng bang paties... and have found the new comers are shy but then after a few times get it on and enjoy it ....the secret is to just them join in at their own pace....marcie
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RHP User
16 years ago
well i know many gals single and in relationships who like them many more then will openly admist it and many of them its all only fantasies but i hae helped a few enjoy them . i have held a few at my place and am always will to host such an event again for any gal interested.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have gang bang in our profile which is more a fantasy of the male half to watch his girl being pleasured by a number of well hung guys. The female half would have to be plied with a copious amount of Red wine before going along with such a thing. I wonder what would be the minimum amount of guys to be considered a gang bang? Three I suppose. Anyhow hardncurvy, I have a friend who is experienced in such things and we can offer our services next time you are in Perth. Do you want to go last??
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree that a good percentage of fantasies are just that and will stay that way. A gangbang is all about the woman and I think a lot dont realise the pressure that she feels especially for the first time, which is why so many get cold feet. Also known as "sober thinking" It is very hard to organise, not just the logistics of getting everyone together but also getting the "right" people together. Not all women feel comfortable with the thought of having someone they have never met be intimate with them. There is also the fact that if there is just one person there that she doesn't want to touch her it puts her off as well. The best ones I have been involved in are usually small groups of people who get on socially to start with (and therefor they know the rules) and it isn't always planned. In this sort of situation I would say that yes a lot of couples do it but it is mainly referred to as group sex not a gangbang. This is a swinger's site so you would have to imagine that if it is on someones profile they have thought/talked about it or they want to. It's a start, its putting yourself out there and saying yes I'm interested. It also takes just one dickhead to stuff it up. I think we should let everyone who is thinking about it know thats its ok to ask questions and talk about it and it is also ok to say "NO its not for me". . PD
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RHP User
16 years ago
WELL PUT PERTHDOM, i agree fully.
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twowithnolimits
16 years ago
to reassure you all gangbangs can be run well and are, more often and not a great experience for the woman concerned .... after all who doesnt like to be spoilt? we often host GBs using the large circle of contacts we maintain to improve the chance of a good turn out and good peformers we have been known to host three in the same week so there are no shortage of starters out there (having said that there are many many no show males, it took a longtime to build our gene pool lol) whether you like role playing the slut, whether you want to see just how many orgasms it is possible to have in one night, whether it's your birthday... whatever the reason, lifes to short to procrastinate, get out and enjoy yourself!! P&n
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would certainly be up for a GB if we can get a quorum??14-15 December
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RHP User
16 years ago
Whatever happened to Medusa's GangBang parties??? They were always well attended and well organised.........
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi guys, We organise a party every 6 to 8 weeks. usually 3 couples with 3 or 4 extra guys. It is very popular. We know of another larger group that has weekly parties in the winter months and sometimes 2 parties per week in the summer. The ladies really enjoy the extra attention.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I chatted to a guy in yahoo groups, who turned out to be running a gangbang chat group.( he is a member of rhp) He organised the whole night for me, I just had to turn up, with hubby in tow with the video camera. Nerves are always a problem, but I blindfold took care of that, and then once the fun started, it was off, and I was in the thick of it.It was an awesomenight, but not something i would rush into again, as I would like more say in who attended. but whether fantasy or reality, it has to be safe, which this guy made sure it was, and he even joined in the fun. So, if it is a fantasy, make it a reality and find out how good it is first hand. Piglet
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would love to be involved in a gangbang heaps a guys 1or few chicks , Im in melbourne does it happen hear often
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RHP User
16 years ago
sorry about the late reply. I'm so glad you had a great night, he sounds like he knows how organise a decent evening for a girl. I would like to know if there is anything you would change about how things went? just idle curiosity, homework if you like. all the best PD
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RHP User
16 years ago
Couples International has their next gangbang on the 7th of March. We get hundreds here and a different style of gangbang. Check it out if you are up this way.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've always been part of Macca's group though for the last year or so i've taken an outa. Too much on my mind, life even catches up with single guys now and then lol. I guess the GB is like everything in here, there are those who fantasize and those who do, i suspect those who do are very much in the minority but not having a partner i have very little idea about what happens in true couples swinging so have no idea of proportion. I don't have the charisma to organise them but i love the parties, some of the nicest people i've ever met :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've met Very few single girls through GB's, understandably, though i've been very flattered to meet a few couples again. From my point of view what an open and honest way to compete with the huge competition, from their point of view, what a way to go shopping? *grin*
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RHP User
16 years ago
Macca is a cool guy, and knows what he is doing, and has the woman's best interests at heart. so,where were you the night I had mine then? lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
would gladly like to help with your research on the subject, and would love to share my input some time,exchange emails and i will fill you in.
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RHP User
16 years ago
As i said i've had a lot on my mind of late so i'm guessing your party must have been while life had the better of me. Will soon be rejoining the fun i suspect, my "oats" won't let me sit at home now the rest of my life coming together again lol. Still a little thing i've to sort out yet, nothing sinister, just waiting on finance and week days off. Like any typical male, not that i am one in most respects but i do have this failing ;), i couldn't wait intil the time was right... i had to jump in early lol
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
GBs are great fun but a word of caution to guys thinking of going to one of these "pay to attend" Gangbangs in hotels or private homes. Play it safe and stick to the ones held at official swinger's clubs or GBs where no 'fee' is required!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't know how it works in Queensland but i've never had a problem chipping in for the room in WA. Here when it has been held in a hotel room in my experience the guys are asked to pay thier share. We know around what hotel prices are or should be and can look around at the number of guys and can count. I've never been ripped off, simply contributed my share so we can all enjoy the fun and the lovely wife, without the couple being out of pocket. I've never been asked to pay in advance and admit i would balk at the prospect. The organiser usually just does the maths and lets us know and we drop the money on a table or something at our leisure. He doesn't want to walk around collecting it, ruins the mood... ;)
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
The reason we made that point is that here in QLD the law views a bunch of guys paying to attend a GB a breach of the prostitution laws if there is more than one girl playing.
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