Gentle or hard and fast... ?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  So many outside influences come into play here If I have a shite stressful day and perhaps gone out for few drinks after work and I'm in a bit of a feisty flirty mood with the rite guy I'm up for hard fast rough and breatheless sex If its a Sunday arvo the rain is gently falling and you have spent a terrific weekend together and your both relaxed and happy then the softly gently scenario plays well here For me it comes down to many variables .....the location, the mood, whats gone down prior but more importantly who my partner is and how I feel about them ...but both options are a winner :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Thursdays I like it hard and fast and Saturdays I like it gentle :)Can I have both? First one , take my breath away, hard , fast passionate.....the the second time we fuck, take your time, go slow, lick me till I super soak you :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Time and place for both I think. Sometimes I love it soft and gentle and at other times I like it fast, hard and teetering on that pain/pleasure line......Nothing worse than when you are expecting things to be gentle and sensual because thats where things seem to be heading, and wham......!!!ouch Mrs Waterbabes xxx

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  In the reverse order, please :) Take my breath away with deep, connected love making and then you can pretty much do whatever you want with me x

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Why limit myself to one or the other...can I have both? In the same session? Though, having said that, as a general rule, I'm more about gentle sex, gentle sucking, gentle licking; I don't get that much out of being banged so hard I get a headache or having my clit sucked so hard it feel's like it will detatch. But definitely my mood (I can be a feisty wee thing) and choice of playmate can influence how I want to play and be played with quite dramatically.Hmmm, does that make me fickle? Probably. Do I care? Probably not.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I agree with the other posts,it all depends on time ,place and inclination.The lover du jour of course ,and watcha all doin' at the time and in that place.Er ..you wouldn't want to have a slow seduction bent over a park bench...would you? I like a lover with a slow hand,an easy touch....goes the song..and Mae West my personal hero.".A good man is hard to find ,but a hard man is good to find"x Hugs H

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Your right, Good sex can be achieved both ways.At my stage of life i prefer gentle about 70% of the time... but like everybody else said, it really depends on the situation, some times there nothing better then a fast and hard shag ;)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  ... then to ask a bunch of sexy horny ladies their preference.. lol Of course" there's no limits' .. enjoyment of the moment is what counts most. After reading the above reply's it got me thinking.. As much as I love to take my time and seduce my women, what might begin as gentle generally turns into something more hectic; but never have been the 'slam bang thank you mam' type.. Love to enjoy the moment too much to just get it over and done with...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I think that this adage remains true, especially when it comes to intimacy. Its knowing how to balance excitement and surprise, with comfort and "what you know". Pushing boundaries can be exhilirating, but sometimes you want it to be "as easy as Sunday morning".Being recently single again I'm finding my preferences have been altered by the experience of that relationship. I have no doubt that in my future I'll be longing for that very emotional, romantic and fulfilling love-making. The kind that can only come with one you love.Right now my heart is "offline", so intimacy is about an exploration of mind, desire and the thirst for pleasure. It's not simply hard & fast / or slow n gentle .... even these seeming contradictions aren't mutually exclusive!The art of pleasure seeking ... the quest for that elevated state where your entire being is electrified as you truly join with someone. Makes me shiver with excitement just thinking about it ;)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I like to be touched, caressed and made love to gently, thoroughly, leaving no inch spared.....and I like to do the same in return. Hard and fast is fine for a quikie every now and then but generally...please take your time to savour the experience. I like to kiss and taste and nibble gently...........

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