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Getting My Domme on
December 11 2013
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
Presume you have talked already about safe words and hard limits and have a good idea of what he likes and doesn't like. As for the fun part ..... Would start with introducing what the rules and any expectations you have as Domme eg calling you Misstress (or other) at all times, what he will be called by you (insert sub or humiliating name choice), eyes downward or no cumming till allowed etc etc I would suggest if he hasn't seen what toys you are planning on using on him yet then you can add that aspect as part of the scene build up. Make it a slow drawn out affair, while he is restrained of course, about what you plan to do with each item and how it is going to make him feel as you place each item in front of him in turn. If you have a toy that especially big and girthy (that you aren't planning on using on him because of its size) add that into the introduction as well as it certainly get him stressing lots about what you are going do to him (all told in dirty specific details). If he is tied down on the bed make a point of using him ruthlessly for your pleasure as well. Eg be a good pet and make your Domme cum or no plug for you. Can sit on his face or just grab his head to where you want his tongue or spend lots of time using him to worship whatever body parts get you off eg feet and toes. Using a blindfold is a lot of fun when they are unable to see what is going on and more intensely brings into focus all the other senses. Hope you get lots of other great ideas from the peeps Kal
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Tell him he has a silly haircut and can't cook lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Knife episode. Lay that one alongside the super dildo. Don't forget to heat thr blade before applying it to the desired srnsitive area telling him he's been casttated. Lol settle folks (she'll actually be using a hot butter knife whilst drizzling something yummy to make poor "sub" think he's oozing. 😝). Umm don't forget to trnderly pat your clit with his favourite honey, vegemite, jam for a light tasting as you straddle his face.....oh and tickling could be fun 😳 !! ~ tic toc tic toc - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Further more dress him in white..... Matches the other kitchen appliances ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Add role play....xknots
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RHP User
11 years ago
These instructions to set the mood on the morning of our date..... A list of instructions for you: 1: Forward me a safe word and any hard limits by 3pm 2: Understand by agreeing to this you are agreeing to follow all instructions given, they are to be carried out to the best of your ability 3: Understand that tonight is all about MY pleasure, I may allow you to cum, but that will be at my discretion and if I allow it; only after I am sated. 4: You are to text me when you are ready to leave work. 5: Upon arrival you will not speak to me until I give permission to do so. 6. You shall address me as mistress at all times. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love the idea of laying out the toys so he can see them .....and wonder or wince! I'll be stealing that idea - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is as much for yourself as him. Playspace, no frills, teddies or florals , lighting (strobes and blackk lights are really cool) music, (I love industrial or something intense for Domming) scented candles and you in your sexy Domme gear. All restraints, toys, condoms, lube at hand and in easy reach. (keep some hidden and throw in an egg beater for fear factor) Take control from the moment he arrives, a collar and leash at the door, on his knees to follow you to your playspace and ensure you walk all sexy and confident. Make him anticipate each and every action, use your voice, softly spoken whispers can be as intimidating as a firm voice, so can a smile ;) an evil one anyway. Take your time, watch for his responses and surprise him with the unexpected. (Seen the new water pistol that holds ice?) Change the positions he is restrained in rather than keep him in one position and be careful to check for lack of circulation. Don't run off afterwards, there can sometimes be a drop or come down after this sort of play, ensure you both get back to your "normal" selves before you leave. Enjoy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've booked a room with a four poster bed and huge spa bath. I'll ensure there's some soaking and cuddling in the Spa afterwards. Love the leash and collar and the eggbeater ideas! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The banner that days "welcome to the first night of your nightmare!!" - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mr_MrsAraps
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kaleidoscope' I love the idea of laying out the toys so he can see them .....and wonder or wince! I'll be stealing that idea - Posted from rhpmobile By all means steal away and your text message should get the right response As Rocknminx mentioned about lots of after care, having everything on hand (but not everything in view) and also checking circulation and changing positions. Would also add Have items on hand such as scissors so you can quickly remove bondage/ropes if there are any serious problems. Take your time and draw things out. Have plenty of time to have your wicked way with him so don't rush. Being your new to it all and learning so don't place lofty unrealistic expectations of everything going perfectly as there will be moments of oops's and what shall I do now and a few chuckles so go with the flow then compose yourself put your Domme back on and continue. Most importantly it should be fun for both of you as well as being safe, sane and consentual. Cheers, W.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd forgotten I do love bossing a 6ft 3, 110kg man around and having him obey like an enthusiastic puppy 😈 It's unfortunate that he didn't follow my original instructions to the letter and needed punishing almost as soon as he arrived...... It's a debate who enjoyed the evening more....😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
Do what the SAS do hit them hard take control straight away don't take crap make him beg and lick your boots.Hump him with Meekas large black strap- onShoot it on video and show it to us on RHP....he he it could become the training manual for all the dom girls
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RHP User
10 years ago
I sought out this thread because I have had a few realisations lately...I understand exactly why I dislike dominant men:)..,thank you for all the great advice here and to rock minx and Indy...as for Sir Stir and DG...you do know what happens to naughty boys that make white noise,don't you? xxMistress Freya
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RHP User
10 years ago
How did that happen,of course I meant Araps .
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RHP User
10 years ago
Grrr
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