M34 F23
Getting Noticed
April 11 2020
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
Ok, so this is from someone from a slightly older generation so it might vary for your age bracket..... but, get rid of the loo pic, they're never attractive, no matter how cute you look. There's not much in your profile that tells anyone a lot about you. It's not just about the bedroom for a lot of us. Try and put something in there that brings out your character and personality. Maybe chill out on the how to contact you bit and the trouble finding couples bit, it's negative and probably has the opposite effect that you're looking for. The dtf references don't work with everyone, they can put pressure on before you've even met. You're both really attractive, honesty you shouldn't have much trouble finding people. Just remember when you're taking feedback from here that your profile still needs to show us who you are, not what the rest of us want to see 🤷♂️ Good luck
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FeistyFatty
5 years ago
Don't refer to yourselves as "new young meat" might make you a tad more appealing🤷♀️
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Brodie_jemimah
5 years ago
Thanks for the advice. I’ve removed it and updated our profile a bit. Can see completely where you’re both coming from. Honestly we are just in this for the sex but? We don’t find going out for dinner a drinks as a warmup to something we are going to do anyways. Like we find it a waste of precious time and I know that’s not how most of these couples work. But we’ve put a lot more effort into our profile before I went and changed it then a lot of other people who have all these validations... Simply ignoring our flirt like most people do isn’t helping anyone get to know us if that makes sense. We reply to everyone if we can. Simple yes and no and I feel that in the lifestyle that you guys represent which is based all around communication, trusting people, speaking up if somethings not enjoyable a simple yes or no or not interested would go along way in helping us fine tune how we pick up and refining our lacking social skills in these situations.
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
Yep, like I said don't change it to reflect everything we're saying, that's why the advise is general. If you're just on here for sexy times, make sure your profile reflects it. If you're into gaming or bareback horse riding, include that too... otherwise your profile just looks like everyone else's. As a caveat, we have no idea how you're messaging people. If it's "hey, what's up" the responses will reflect the effort put into the message. Also, a lot won't reply to flirts at all.
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boxestotick
5 years ago
We sent you a message a while back. Didn’t get a reply. Works both ways. If you’re not interested pls let us know. We won’t be offended. If you’re keen - let’s go!
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RHP User
5 years ago
Hmm...so your way of doing things is to cut the dinner/casual activity/connection building activities in place of feeling horny, looking attractive and just getting it on?? Mr Dragon
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FeistyFatty
5 years ago
Hmmmm..... plot thickens OP.
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Brodie_jemimah
5 years ago
@spicy kale Not sure how to tag people in blue... We’ve let our premium plus run out last Novemberish as we stopped seeing many new people and had exhausted our leads up till then. If you can’t tell by my paragraph writing style on here, no, Everyone knows “hey what’s up” gets you nowhere. I read bios thoroughly and reply in relation. We then usually move to kik as we are a freemium account. And yeah, you’re right, we’re not going to be something we aren’t but maybe our front on honest straightforward approach isn’t for everyone? @ mr Dragon Yeah basically. We assess and request a ton of photos, mainly live ones and the people we choose to play with usually have to travel and as we work weekends most of the time, we have people coming over sometimes on Tuesday Arvos, Sunday nights, Thursday mornings. Whenever suits other people. We don’t really have the capacity to go out for dinner, make small talk, play games, flirt and be sensual and sexual. We just figured there were a lot of others out there who don’t like all the wrapping over the present either. 🤷🏼♀️
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
👌Million times better! Good luck
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
Sorry, don't get the blue reference? ps. we've had "what's up" messages from some of the best profiles we've read, there's not always a link. Not being a smart arse, just a general observation. Good luck!
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
Geez, if I'd read your post on the"seeking bit" thread I wouldn't have bothered 🙄
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RHP User
5 years ago
I think based upon your reply it may very well be that your circumstances and your attitude toward others that are limiting your networking.... Obviously I can’t speak for the majority, but if I had to make a very general comment, a lot of people enjoy the socialising just as much as the sex play.... I’m sure there are those who would be of the same mindset and look for exactly what you’re after....I wouldn’t like to guess on an exact percentage, but on top of that, your window of opportunity to play - that being during the week - may indeed be limiting the numbers even more that are going to be compatible with you. Don’t be put off, just don’t see RHP as your only networking tool to attract people for what you seek....be open to using other platforms and scenarios.... Mr dragon
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FeistyFatty
5 years ago
Reading your comment on the "seeking" thread it's 100 percent clear why. Shows immaturity that I'd expect to find in people much younger (considering the male is nearly 30 afterall).
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RHP User
5 years ago
You say you came off premium plus due to lockdown, then you say you stopped it in November due to lack of interest..you also say you don’t like older people because you have nothing to discuss with them (paraphrasing there) yet here you seem almost offended that us oldies don’t want “new young meat”. My tip - get your story straight and stick to it. Little inconsistencies make for big red flags 🚩 Ms Phoenix
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RHP User
5 years ago
A lockdown casualty, bit of cabin fever maybe. Onwards.
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chopsey
5 years ago
looking for some advice could you tell me what,s wrong with my profile?
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