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Getting naked at the beach
November 04 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
Why be pushy? Why not let your wife get comfortable in her own time or let her enjoy the sun in her own way? Why does she have to conform to your idea of what she should be doing?
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
She is her own person, so let her make the choice, not you or anyone else. Give her the freedom to do what she wants. Talk to her about this, that's the most respectful thing you can do. She may not like that she's at the beach for others entertainment. Maybe she wants to be there for herself. I know when I go, I am there for me and do what I want, not what others want. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Her choice is also clever from three practical reasons. The first is that there is only one kind of slip, slop, slap that feels good to the female genitals. Applying sunscreen to the vulva could be tricky and unpleasant. Whereas the alternatives of sunburn (ouch!) or melanoma aren't pleasant. An area that is not used to the sun that suddenly gets a lifetime's worth of UV rays all at once would be much more likely to burn. While skin doctors suggest checking the underwear area of a person for suspicious moles whether or not they go nude on beaches in daytime, it would be much more important for someone whose bits have soaked the rays. The second is that women have to worry about something that men don't, when it comes to menstruation. It's unlikely many women go to a nude beach when they're in the heavy phase of their period, but if it's just starting or just finishing, a woman may need a tampon/Mooncup/G-string liner that they need to stay in situ, and don't much want to show it to the world. Lastly, have you ever heard the question to a cranky person in impolite Australian parlance, "What's got sand in your vagina?" That one is based on truth. Sand in the vagina must be pretty uncomfortable. Males have a much smaller oriface in danger of getting sandy, and it can always be cleared by a quick dip in the sea or by passing urine. I don't even want to know how women get sand out of their vaginas if it should invade. Trust me, mate, if your 26 year old ladyfriend is topless and in a G-string at a nude beach, people are already having a solid perve. I doubt you'll get many complaints!
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RHP User
8 years ago
in the respect that it makes my pussy go all aflutter knowing people are watching, warmth of the sun also, big turn on, juices flow, I like to run my fingers around and over my bikini bottom. If there by myself, always touching my body and enjoying the visual on that. Your chick needs to get comfortable with her own body. She's not there yet. Does she masturbate?
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RHP User
8 years ago
this was always going to end badly. everyone needs to have fun
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
You want her to strip off and go completely nude so that others can perve at her? For whose benefit, yours or theirs? The purpose of a nude beach (at least in our opinion) is about being able to enjoy the sun and the sea, nude, and the feeling of freedom that, being nude outdoors, offers. It is not, and should not, simply be about giving others the opportunity to perve at you / your wife or for you to use this as an opportunity to perve at others. Your wife is not and should not, simply be seen as a piece of "meat" on show. Hopefully she knows that you have a profile on RHP.
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RHP User
8 years ago
just realised you are a couple on here, didn't look at you profile, so how does she feel about you asking this question on the forum? Did you tell her you were going to post a topic about it? Also, although I'm aware my comment won't be popular, I don't care because some of us are sexual and have sexual thoughts all the time. I've said before, I find it creepy when people impose that on others at the nude beach, so I share that opinion, there are ways of doing it without bothering others though, but I don't share the opinion that being nude is all the beach is for some of my best work has happened at the beach
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teejaylongsword
8 years ago
The best part about a nudist beach is to be in control. Society likes clothing? 'Screw you...I am taking all of my clothes off.' Its fun because you can decide to break the rules and feel unconstrained. You should let your wife break the rules that she wants to, when she wants to. She might completely strip if not many people are there, or she might do it in the water only. Its still fun as long as you don't pressure her. Of course she may never do it. But she is still with you at a nude beach. That's the main thing.
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RHP User
8 years ago
No one could tell me I had to be though. Its my body
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Sawadee
8 years ago
with what Candy and Foxxy had to say.. It's her choice and if you want her to continue going with you to the nude beach , allow her to go at her own pace. I touch '. is the exception.. the beach is her playground.. lol.. 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
"So the wife and I went to our local nude beach the other day, sat down there were a few couples around as well as single blokes, we soon noticed one guy stroking his cock looking between my wife and the other couple on the other side of him. It didn't really bother me and he wasn't shy about doing it, does this happen often? And do you blokes care? Just wanted to see what the other couples thought about it :)" And you wonder why the women feel uncomfortable at a nude wankers beach and stay partially covered, it's amazing she even goes there with you. And now you want help getting your dear wife to become a wankers inspiration. Give the poor lady a break
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RHP User
8 years ago
If you want her to feel more comfortable, perhaps going more often might make her - or just ask her? radical I know! I'd feel more weird being non-nude there since everyone else is nude. (Why did you only ask other couples? I don't know that being in a couple makes such a huge difference as to why or why not a woman wouldn't want to be nude at a nude beach)
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't mind going naked at tygarah. Firstly its my choice. I normal strip once im somewhere i plan to setup then dont change till im heading off the beach back at the entrance near the car park. My choice.. don't care who sees i dont care who gets offended. Everybody is a individual nobody looks the same. That doesnt mean i talk to all. That doesnt mean i have sex with any..like it or lump it.. im there to enjoy my day. Mind you if i found someone wanking to finding me. Id prolly say a few choice words. Im not ur thrill n porn for the day.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I agree with what both you had to say... Traum246. I'm a little different to you.. Seeing a guy wanking' is confronting to me. Thier whole purpose for being there is for their own self gratitude not to enjoy the sunshine and cool water like most other beach goers. Perving is par for the course, but aggressively wanking is not. And yes , this is why women stay partially covered because of this. Jaynii. I'm with you , your quite entitled to find your spot in the sun and stay where you are until your ready to leave without having to worry what others are up to. I've witnessed a few women become vocal at guys wanking in front of them.. I was even once asked by a lady if I minded her sitting closer because of a wanker.
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raunchy2015
8 years ago
Our advice would be to go with other females and or couples that she is comfortable with. If you don't have any then use RHP and meet in a neutral (clothed) environment until you are all comfortable with a trip to the beach. As everyone else says maybe she just doesn't want to get burnt! It doesn't take long in FNQ to get toasty! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We are going to the beach this weekend. .. will definitely be nude☺ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We have been to several beaches where one end has been unofficially designated as Nude, or clothing optional, and nobody seems to care that it goes on, but as the male in this couple, i am happy to go naked when we have settled into our little spot (which is as far from others as we can get) My partner is very shy about showing off her size 8/10 body, but she will go topless most of the time, but she will not remove her bikini bottom if there are any solo males closer than about 50 metres away, if it is a couple, then she is fine. If we go into the water for a swim, i am ok to walk naked to the water from our towels, but my partner will always wear her bikini bottom to the edge of the water before taking it off to swim naked with me. I don't try and force her to get naked if she does not want to, and i don't want some wierdo sitting along the beach from us with a small camera with a zoom lens taking shots of us, or my partner naked, and we are cautious about this because we have had one guy do this to us one day, and i chased him along the beach and bailed him up and took his camera and kicked his fat ass. Cheers
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RHP User
7 years ago
What beach in Cairns do you go to that allow being nude? I don’t know if any! - Posted from rhpmobile
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