M62
Getting the timing right... FFM...
December 08 2017
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Interesting topic. I remember the scene in the Monty Python movie, The Meaning of Life where the headmaster counters the overzealous school boys with the line...... "What's wrong with a kiss, boy? Hmm? Why not start her off with a nice kiss? You don't have to go leaping straight for the clitoris like a bull at a gate. Give her a kiss, boy" And just as the headmaster said.... I've always been more inclined to kiss a partner to connect with them, than a stealth-doggy counter offensive from the rear flank. ☺️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just slam one in...and keep your head down! You're either in with a bullet or a dead man. Ahhhhhh so many choices and sooooo little time!
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RHP User
7 years ago
*humming to the tune of London Bridge*
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Aristippusx2
7 years ago
Approving of your xmas themed profile picture
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Sawadee
7 years ago
I guess if the excitement becomes too much , gung-ho is a definate alternative.... But being the gentleman that I am ' i prefer to feel my way, but it's abit hard when there's a vagina looking you straight in the face.. Hence the question...
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Sawadee
7 years ago
Anticipation , I can only imagine how hot that is knowing it's coming but not knowing when... I guess if you don't know the guy asking is polite.. But somehow ' I think by being in that position you really wouldn't need a introduction.. lol... But yes , I know what you're saying..
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RHP User
7 years ago
Damn if I didn't just start singing ''Chest and nuts roasting by an open fire...'' My bad...we now return you to the topic! *whispers*...call me if one of your bulbs burn out!
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RHP User
7 years ago
When I used to MFM (I know you were talking about FFM) Our guest used to go first while my husband "had a shower" and was out of the room. It made them comfortable with me while he was out of the room and then he would join in. I don't know if this applies to your question and maybe doesn't work in your scenario? don't know cos I haven't tried it that way...........
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RHP User
7 years ago
I like that, allowing you and the guy to share that initial intimacy freely, then emerging freshly showered to join in. Perfect 👍
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Prior to play, so you had some idea of what the ff's preferences were. Personally, I wouldn't want the male entering the play by feeling him entering me; a softer approach such as suggested by ML and Meander would be my preference.
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MrPlayful
7 years ago
There maybe a different dynamic between a MFM and MMF, or FMF and FFM. In the latter of either example, there wold be an attraction between all three participants rather than two of them not having any attraction to eachother. So not quite the same dynamic and therefore not necessarily any need to wait.
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'midnightblue71' When I used to MFM (I know you were talking about FFM) Our guest used to go first while my husband "had a shower" and was out of the room. It made them comfortable with me while he was out of the room and then he would join in. I don't know if this applies to your question and maybe doesn't work in your scenario? don't know cos I haven't tried it that way........... Personally, I'd have just gone the pot of Earl Grey, perhaps check the sports on the internet, well maybe the gossip on Facebook or Insta. Just mozzie back in the satin robe when done and ready to play.....
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RHP User
7 years ago
You just barge in with your dick? Is that a serious comment? My experience has always been a more inclusive one. Nobody really is sitting on the other side of the room watching! We are always touching each other... and talking to each other ... no reason for anyone to jump in swinging their dick. Haha.
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Sawadee
7 years ago
Barge in ? I didn't say that.. back up and read.. Besides ' the topic is going along very nicely with some positive I put.. Can you add anything to the experience ? or is that it ?
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Sawadee
7 years ago
I'm in no position to comment about more some's. Never been there , but it's good you give us the insight to the possibility's of what can happen.. I guess it's about understanding the etiquette regardless of numbers... I get that... Just as I wouldn't stick it in just any female , I understand you expecting the same ...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Depends on whether you are joining strangers at a club/party, or existing friends in private. Often when you have an existing friend, anything at anytime may be allowed within boundaries, some people have mentioned being allowed to be woken up with sexual activities. But you must have preconsent, if you know the people, or not. If you don't know them, err on asking for every activity. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
...just walk towards here then pretend you've tripped and get it over with already. Only two ways she'll react...one you win and the other, well report back about all this heaven and hell stuff, will ya? Some will miss you, others won't. Shit........happens!
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RHP User
7 years ago
What, apart from being involved and talking to your lovers? Physical and verbal communication... I hope you see the value in that?? Never stick your dick in someone who is unaware. Or... Try touching them on the back, leg, whatever and they will give you an indicating if they are Ready for more Or.... read their body language. If one person looks you in the eye ... that’s a sign to come over. Or... usually the women will invite you when they want you to join in Or.. Perhaps you can err the side of caution and wait to be asked Or... Look away from the vaginas staring at you if you can’t help yourself.
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RHP User
7 years ago
She's probably died of old age by now. Yodo: ''Think not...do. Wasting time is you...just fuck her'' Yoda is da' man!
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Your comment reminded me about the cartoon comparing tea, to sexual consent (google tea and consent)
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Sawadee
7 years ago
I totally agree... ? Now what ?
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Sawadee
7 years ago
When I said gung-ho it was in reply to chasingM post with tongue planted firmly in cheek.. Deep down I think you already knew that ? But ''. if a tea and consent makes more sense ? That's up to you...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is that the guy is the main course and the women go to town on him usually. The point of a threesome, to me anyway, is that all people are involved in some way the whole time, so my preference is many hands, many mouths and lots and lots of foreplay.
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Sawadee
7 years ago
.... Sounds good to me ? 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
What if I called out "2 4 6 8 bog in don't wait" 😉
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MrPlayful
7 years ago
I think that should be clear enough 😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
My version of Grace before a meal 😛
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RHP User
7 years ago
what we are about to receive.... ☺
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Sawadee
7 years ago
If you said 2 ,4, 6 ,8 bog in don't wait.. Who am I to disobey... . Besides ' I know which side my toast's buttered.. 😜. 👍..... To those with no sense of humour..... It's a joke Joyce.... 😳
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Sawadee
7 years ago
Dinners on you '. right ? 🤗
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RHP User
7 years ago
If it was with my male partner anything goes and I would be accepting of him to join in with me at any point, if it was a new male partner I’d probably prefer a more gentle approach. With our unicorn she initiates with my partner so he knows when she’s ready for him to join in with her. I think it’s easier if all are familiar to each other but if it’s a new thing I think a softer intro is better to start. Kissing, oral and touching first in that situation would be my ideal. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
When you think about it timing is everything so not to spoil the flow. I think you can get your message across in a few different ways that the times right. Verbal , eye contact and touch. Just don't forget , it's about the moment and not to make it too technical.
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm with Meander and CandyDelicious... my experience is limited & new but I've found each to be quite inclusive, always touching all or doing something. I have only been a unicorn thus far and a common scene for me is me going down on her whilst she sucks his cock. I go of my own personal preferences too, as in there's a point when a tongue or hands won't cut it and I often happily ask my lady if she wants cock and insist on her partner giving it if it's a yes, whilst I enjoy kissing or other aspects. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
7 years ago
Sorry , I had to read your last sentence a few times... Are you saying the you happily indicate to the lady if she feels like some of her hubby's cock , to go ahead , while you continue to kiss or find something else .? Does this mean you pass on hubby's cock altogether ? Just curious... Cheers Jay.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes, that's correct Jay - I get into kissing or touching, especially if there's boobs lol. No, I don't pass on cock.... I've only been in situations where the male had plenty of stamina for both to get cock. I've also had instances where either me or the wife were out of action, so hubby only had one pussy to fuck. I had a great experience with the wife below me recently as her hubby fucked me doggy. She and I got to enjoy each other whilst I took a light pounding. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
7 years ago
That stirred the groin.. lol..
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twix_twix
7 years ago
For me it’s about checking a girl knows where you’re going before it happens. Especially true in clubs when things get crazy. Had a recent experience where a guy went straight for my arse AND without a condom. Not cool. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
7 years ago
Even though I've never been in that scenario ' I can understand that.. ? Interesting, when I posted this topic it never crossed my mind that in a group situation the dynamics change.. I've only had a few occasions where the girls were doing their thing and I patiently wait my time.. Don't think I got it wrong when I did join in , but you're never 100% certain...
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