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Ghosting

February 04 2022

Guys and Gals. What are your thoughts on meeting up with someone. Having a great night. Then you never hear from them again. Do you take it that they didn’t enjoy the night? Is it something that bothers you? I’m sure it happens both ways. Pls tell me your thoughts

Comments

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    3 years ago

    I would think it’s quite a common occurrence. A lot of people are here to experience lots of different experiences. Even if they had a fabulous time they don’t revisit . Some have been in long term relationships that did not allow them freedoms . Freedom is a wonderful thing and some may not want to give it up , fearing attachments . We are all different. We definitely have had some wonderful experiences and have chosen not to see them again. It’s only my opinion but just because you are being ghosted does not mean it wasn’t a good night for them too . Good luck Ax

  • Rising_Phoenix

    Rising_Phoenix

    3 years ago

    I’d probably just assume they’d been kidnapped by alien rodents who were conducting medical experiments on them and harvesting them for their organs in a secret lab deep in the ocean. I think it’s a safe bet they either didn’t enjoy themselves enough to return, they’ve got so much opportunity you got lost in the mix or they’re cheating and didn’t have the decency to tell you they wanted an NSA hookup. There’s also a ton of variables concerning personality types etc...seriously, go with the alien theory, it’s less of a headache and way more entertaining for the brain 😅

  • badboyhere

    badboyhere

    3 years ago

    It happens just like shit really. Part of RHP

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    3 years ago

    If it was really that good , both you and they will want more.. If not ? We just move on.. No big deal , we click with some but not others.. Just the way it is..

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    3 years ago

    Par for the course here on RHP. Dont dwell on it, better things are-a-coming 😊

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    3 years ago

    Haven't had it happen to me, but have done it to a couple of people. Was certainly never after a "great night" though. Always given them an explanation that I didn't enjoy the encounter and would prefer no further contact and wish them well before ghosting.

  • AWomanWithNeeds

    AWomanWithNeeds

    3 years ago

    I just assume they had the best night of their life, decide they can never match it again so go into hiding for the rest of their days.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    3 years ago

    My thoughts are...it was just a shag. A heard lesson learnt. Ms Foxy

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    3 years ago

    If you enjoyed it, that's the main thing. You will always have the memory of it to replay during those solo times :) ET xx

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    3 years ago

    The thing about ghosting is ...

  • MFMHotWife

    MFMHotWife

    3 years ago

    I (Mr Hotwife) have a sneaking suspicion that most blokes we have visit are just "One offs" Invited several blokes back for visits and they often seem to have other commitments, I get that, folks are busy, but I might have arranged about 35 - 40 extra blokes to help pleasure my wife in 12 months and I get very few return visitors despite us all having a great time. A couple of blokes have visited a couple of extra times however....

  • energiser69

    energiser69

    3 years ago

    you would think people would have the decency to stay in touch....obviously these ppl just want sex.

  • Notyourneighbour

    Notyourneighbour

    3 years ago

    I find that most couples like to talk the talk and swap pics, But when it comes time to walk the walk they chicken out! I really just want to meet a genuine couple and have some fun😃

  • daniel05

    daniel05

    3 years ago

    happens all the time, on the other apps too.not just RHP. when playing or meeting. some ghost cause they are one offs and some ghost cause they didnt enjoy that night? either way i think its best to not take it personally. just move on. its a flakey scene. all about physical fun. my thoughts on this :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    as a single guy looking for women or couples if you get the chance to play awesome but there are so many guys out there that women and couples have a huge audience to pic from. And no matter how great the time may have been for all the grass is always greener elsewhere and in a lot of cases no better