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Girl wanting to get paid for gangbang by guys
February 10 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
Whoever does the inviting should be prepared to pay in my opinion, if the guest/s then offer money to help cover costs that’s all good, if not I don’t think you should hold it against them. I’m happy to pay my own way and will offer to but if someone invites me somewhere then asks me to pay I think that’s shit.
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MsJonesy
6 years ago
If it her fantasy, she provides the venue. So if it is a hotel or apartment, she covers the cost. As well as ensuring there is condoms, lube, some refreshments etc. Wouldn't want money changing hands to set some expectations in the minds of participants, that could be interesting territory. 🤔
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countrytouch82
6 years ago
Expectations: if you're invited to participate in a gang bang I expect a gang bang, cost or no cost. Just saying haha :P This sounds like a privately organised invited event. That would be different to going to a players party which is meeting completely unknown strangers. The difference has been in my experience that the private invite events are fairer and if there is a cost at all it is a small cost simply to cover essentials or rent, unlikely commercial parties there's never been any profiteering. Sometimes they have just asked for a gift for the woman for example chocolates etc. It is completely up to you and no one will bat an eyelid at a small charge of $20 or so.
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
If she is the host and doing the inviting then its clearly her responsibility. I don't think she should be asking for money.
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
That's just part of being a good host.
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Rlee552
6 years ago
If it is quite pricey etc perhaps ok to cover costs. A conversation upfront, and it may help weed out the likely no shows. If generating revenue, then that is a different proposition and category.
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deepestpurple
6 years ago
I reckon you are ok to ask for money so long as it's all made clear upfront and they get to decide if it's something they're willing to pay for. Splitting costs is cool, if I was a participant I'd expect to and offer. Isn't that one of the key appeals of a gang-bang, plenty of people to divide costs between? If you're looking to generate a profit then the question is are you ok with commercialising your sexuality but I don't think there's anything wrong with it myself.
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RHP User
6 years ago
If she is upfront about it then I can't see why not. Yeah she is getting her fun out of it but so are the men that go. A small fee would go to the room for which they are having fun in
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Depends To cover/share costs yes. To make profit, no. Unless that’s the clear pre-agreement.
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countrytouch82
6 years ago
If you are the host, and you are inviting a number of others to a third party location, I don't see it relevant if it is a play event or not, as to a basic entry. Hosts often have a small fee for socials too, to cover things they have paid for. It also depends if it will be a one off. Couples will often shout themselves a nice place to stay for a night out, inviting others to join may be no big deal. If you are staying on afterwards, then the main purpose of the location (overnighting) is for yourselves and so there's less need for visitors to cover costs just for a couple of hours only. If you've just hired the location for the duration of the event only, that might be different. But for repeating events, then the point of charging is so the host is not out of pocket constantly. If they end up out of pocket, that makes it difficult to justify ongoing events. The hosts financial circumstances might be limited and if they want a nice apartment as opposed to a basic motel room, then that makes more sense to share.
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ReyandJean
6 years ago
Another perspective on having the men pay a nominal amount up front is to harden commitment to actually showing up.
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MissRedFox
6 years ago
Mnmm ponders If I meet one on one in a hotel and we split costs is that ok If a couple meet another couple in a hotel and split costs would that be OK If a Group meet for an orgy in a hotel and split costs is that OK One girl and Group of guys meet in a hotel and split the costs is that OK Really don't see an issue with all who benefit contributing to costs Just saying
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RHP User
6 years ago
I am not sure with this one. Is the fee being paid for services rendered? Or is it a way to contribute to the cost of holding said event? If its the later and the organiser gains a little so what. But i guess i am not a fan of paying for sex so dont like the idea of pay as you come...to me this is about how we treat this site. Mutual repect should be paramount. My concern is when people pay for services perhaps their behavior is influenced accordingly
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PassionFreaks
6 years ago
That charge a "donation" for the pleasure of fucking someone else's wife and not necessarily in a hotel. Maybe it pays the mortgage. The latest l have seen is charging men $100 for the pleasure of being able to cum on the lovely lady's face. Now I'm all for bukkake but that's an expensive load. Ms PF
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Lovethemnatural
6 years ago
I thinks it’s ok , at least you might be sure there going to actually turn up if they are willing to chip in for costs ,I don’t agree that it’s your responsibility .
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RHP User
6 years ago
If being paid is part of the turn on for her then its all good...Basically if she can guys willing to pay her then half her luck lol
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
Perhaps She ( or a he masquerading as one) is simply a scammer who will vanish with the $$. Depends how “she” is asking for payment? Via EFT ? Or on the night at the hotel room door?
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On_Safari
6 years ago
If it’s for profiteering as a move to making an educated well researched business decision perhaps you could advertise on a more appropriate platform like Scarlet Blue.... but there’s still zero guarantee of return and moreso if you don’t vet the “gangbangers” who’s going to ensure your safety?
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’d gladly help costs if asked
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RHP User
5 years ago
Why shouldn't they contribute to cover costs? They are getting just much out of it. If any men don't want to pay their share they can miss out. Plenty of other men will be happy to. Very wise to get their payment upfront if possible. Friends of mine had 10 guys say they would come. None turned up! My friend had the full cost of the hotel to pay and no fun :( We've been to a couple of organised gang-bangs. With one group, everyone has to pay the guy organising it "to cover his costs", at the other only the single men pay. I think the organizers make a little profit to cover their time spent organizing.
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sexslaves
5 years ago
When we hold gangbangs we do organised eventually are free and some are charged for but just remember if charging an entire fee or whether just charging to cover cost now you are charging guts /girls/ couples for a service and now that changes everything. As charging for a service you have to really be sure to set your limits as you don't really have a say on who fucks you or bow they fuck you unless limits are set also hygiene /smokers/drinker ect as you have charged them money for a service that you are providing
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RHP User
5 years ago
No ones going to be asking me to a gangbang. lol But for the hypothetical if money was changing hands I’m gone. Everything changes when money is involved and things can get tacky and nasty real fast. Nuh.
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
Got to agree with usebi on this one. It's definitely got the potential to get really tacky and nasty. We've seen events like this advertised for between $100 and $250 per single guy! That's crossing the line from swinging to something completely different. We don't have a huge issue with it, just don't try and sugar coat it as a lifestyle event. How do you manage consent when you're charging those sorts of amounts, it's setting up some nasty expectations if you ask us. Also, are there potential legal ramifications if you're in any state other than NSW? Sharing the cost of a room and drinks between a group of friends is completely different and honestly just good manners 😊
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
In hindsight, that's probably similar to the entry fee for single guys at some clubs.... one ponders 🤔
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70charger
5 years ago
i would pay to cover the room cost, its only fair.
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RHP User
5 years ago
If that is how you want to structure an night and participants are willing to chip in then fine. It may make it harder to organise, but might provide a nicer venue.
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SSExplorer
5 years ago
To cover costs is fine and I’d think anyone who had an issue wouldn’t be worth inviting. As part of living out a fantasy is ok too so long as all participants know the rules beforehand. We have a few fantasies along these lines so can see the attraction but said fantasies are not on our agenda to make reality....yet 😉
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RHP User
5 years ago
She shouldn’t get paid but she also shouldn’t be out of pocket. She does get the pleasure but it will always come down to what we have to spend to make ourselves attractive to men compared to them showering, trimming and turning up. We pay for the expensive lingerie, shoes, beauty treatments, waxing, makeup and hair.
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Hotasianwife
4 years ago
Hello. I have organised gangbangs for my wife. It is our policy that the guys all chip in and pay for the room. They are getting the pleasure of my wife, they can cover the room costs.
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