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Girls In Couples Pretending To Be Bi?
May 05 2014
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
People misrepresent in RHP?!!!! Nooooooo WAAAAAAY lol :-)....... very annoying though. I can soot fakes, but faking sexual proclivity is harder to spot
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
My bisexuality was a recent exploration, I'm not curious, and I don't play one on one with a girl, just because we always play together. But I enjoy playing with girls, and can bring the same intensity as with a guy but I am handicapped about my lack of experience. I know how to really pleasure a guy (and get pleasure from), but with girls I feel a little insecure that I'm doing it wrong. I am really turned off by girl/girl play for the guys, and it's enough for me to 'switch off' and just focus on the guy, but I'm equally turned off by guys who aren't 100% there. I also feel pressured sometimes that girl/girl play is just expected but sometimes I don't have that connection with a female half of a couple, and in those situations I pull away from g/g too because my heart's not in it. On the whole, I do actually feel 'cock is king', it's my preference, but I'm not curious, and I can totally enjoy girls, so I tick bi, but I'm not 50/50%...
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
It's also highly embarrassing when you feel as if you're molesting someone against their will because you assumed (based on their profile) that that's what they were into. Hard not to take that kind of reaction personally. I think sometimes it's not just about pleasing their partner but they quickly realize that the reality doesn't quite gel with their (or their partner's) fantasy. I steer clear of anything less than bisexual for a female because I don't want to be a taste tester - even more so if they decide that that particular flavour isn't to their liking. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'JessicaRabbit' I steer clear of anything less than bisexual for a female because I don't want to be a taste tester Will "Anything" do? Taby, I'm single so I hope you don't mind me answering. I chose Anything as my orientation, as I'm not really into labels, and I'm probably a 2, rather than a true bisexual 3, on the Kinsey scale. In twosomes I mainly prefer men (because I like feeling physically overwhelmed by a tall and heavy body*), but I'm very much into women and love playing with them in moresomes. Hope that makes sense. * Come to think of it, I was contacted by a San Francisco woman a while back who wants to meet me alone next month while she's in Sydney. She is 6'2".
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JohnAnn2227
11 years ago
I am very bisexual and have unfortunately experienced a number of times being with a girl who you can tell is faking it. I don't care whether it is a guy or a girl I am having sex with what is important is that they want to have sex with me because I turn them on! Fake moaning and grinding to impress her husband is a turn off for me. Women who force themselves to have sex with other women to satisfy their husband's fantasy need to ask themselves this; If there fantasy was to see her husband get shagged by a gorgeous muscular guy with a big cock....would he do it for her? I'm thinking not! Please don't use true bi girls to merely try and tick something off of a bucket list.
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hotcple0069
11 years ago
We agree, Have met a couple who claimed she was Bi but there was no chemistry between us and she was far more interested in hubby than me. We will now only play girl on girl first because that's why we joined the scene in the first place, it's our foreplay prerequisite when playing :) T&P xx
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hotcple0069
11 years ago
Also as a Bi Fem in a committed relationship I don't play without him out of respect & trust, I am 50% of a couple so this does need to be taken into consideration and honoured when playing on such a selfish level. When the table is turned I don't allow him to play with another fem who isn't interested in me either...
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Enjoylifealways
11 years ago
I have been bi for a long as I can remember just didn't except it till later in life due to up bringing. So I have a lot of girl play to make up for ;) I love to play with women and I get very upset if the person says they are bi and aren't . It is something I really looking forward too. I can have cock at home anytime I want but women are only when we/ I play outside our bedroom which is very limited . In my option if you wouldn't play with a woman alone and enjoy it you aren't bi u are experimental .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey Ladies! I am Bi (so number 1). I tend to get the same if not more pleasure out of women than I do men. I have experienced both types (bi and 'bi') on these sites. It is really quite frustrating when you get keyed up to play with someone and they freakout when you grab them, always disappointing particularly when their profile said they were BI. :S I kinda understand sometimes when women put their bi on their profile. It could be they just don't know or are uncertain? I found out that yes I am bi 3 years ago (not through a site) but a lot of my exploring and figuring out was done through a site. So maybe its a similar situation to that, girls just exploring? However I also agree with you about them trying to please their man. It's represented today as being a simple thing to do, chicks make out in night clubs all the time so girls assume hell yes I can be Bi if I want. Maybe they think it will be easy, but when a naked horney girl grabs them it gets a bit more daunting than they were expecting.... ;) Interesting points tho! Thanks for the thread :) xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
does not mean they are attracted or turned on by everyone of the same sex. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Agreed, I only want to meet girls who are truly bi as playing with girls is a major part of the whole experience for me. Also, if the guy happens to let me down, which they sometimes do, at least I have someone else to get off with. There are many girls who claim to be bi but are more 'bi- comfortable' and by that I mean they will let girls go down on them but won't reciprocate. Also when kissing them you can tell too, you can tell they aren't all that into it. I'm not sure the sole reason is that they are claiming to be bi for their men though, I just think its more acceptable in the lifestyle for a girl to be bi so they are willing to give it a go or put up with it for the sake of the whole experience.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am definitely straight, I love cock but I have been approached by couples and even though I am not bi in the slightest, I would still do my part because it is not in my nature to do things by halves. I have never had a woman and apparently I am somehow missing out so it is my curiosity wondering what exactly I am missing out on. I don't go seeking couples or other women at all but if they are happy to have me then I would play along with whatever their fantasy is.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've had the same observation as you. It's frustrating to end in a situation like that. With time you get better at reading ppl and profiles. Never to believe what you read, more believe what you feel. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sxy30sGCguy
11 years ago
did it occur to you ladies that yes the gal is honestly bi, but just not that into you??????
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'bi_4_cpls' does not mean they are attracted or turned on by everyone of the same sex. Fair point, but if the woman of the couple isn't attracted to me, I'd hope she'd speak up and not "take one for the team."
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cremecaramel
11 years ago
Definitely a !! Ftnding other 1s shouldn't be this difficult...grrr
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RHP User
11 years ago
Check out our profile pics.. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
between women who aren't really and men who claim to be then freak we are starting to wonder whether we will ever have a great meet unless we stick to hetero swap...
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RHP User
11 years ago
We both list as straight both swing to play with the opposite sex. Its frustrating the amount of times we have encountered "lets try and convert the straight girl" Its OK for a little girlie experimentation. When its not wanted a mood killer.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No wont go there. It doesnt matter how attractive she is because Ive been there before. Im not a good teacher as Im sub to women and taking a leading role is not in my nature. But dont get me wrong. Im fiesty when in bed. It just happens that power control always goes to the girls Im with.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mrs Madmanx is most definitely bi. However she is extremely self conscious of this and as a result will only approach if she is certain beyond all shadow of a doubt that the other girl is interested. Unfortunately this can often lead to missed opportunity. And probably in many cases a wrong assumption that she is falsely taken on the bisexual title.... Moral of the story.... Don't always assume....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Seems that being bi is really all the rage. I am not bi but have been with women. I have not gone down the carpet licking road....I guess means I am definitely not bi. I don't even say I am bicurious. I am sure you'd know in minutes if someone is truly bi or if they are just doing it for thrills or to keep their guy happy.
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Splicey
11 years ago
I spent more money at the strip club than my husband and I love and crave a good looking woman. I could easily play with another woman with no one present, but it's more fun when you have an audience. I could never be with only a woman though - hence why I'm not a lesbian.
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makoman22
11 years ago
sometimes the bi girl dosent feel as good or as sexy as the girl advertising
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makoman22
11 years ago
the hottest bi girls are the ones that enjoy sexuality,once ur in the mood,as long as long as there is some attraction,if all involved are in agreement and comfortable,the night is usually fuflled,its normal that a man wants to fuck another woman in front of his girl,as long as she wants that too,if not,how hot is it to watch your girl with another,discovering pussy,to do the the thing u do to her,but this time shes on the other end..the best.of all the the things my wife and I do,nothing is better than watching her eat pussy,doing something she knows what it feels like
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makoman22
11 years ago
really cant imagine women not doing you,my wife wouldn't even acknowledge me in the room if u guys were there,ur man and I would have saw wrists at the end of the night
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makoman22
11 years ago
just had words with the wife.taby,she says if a girls bi,she will eat pussy every time.she says u guys are hot,but not her type,but says if circumstances put us together,she be on u all night,because shes bi{and eats pussy}not for my sake,not for your sake,bcause that's what she wants,wheter im there or not.goodluck finding the real thing
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a Bi woman i find this rather annoying and judgmental the fact you think that your number #1 here is accurate... Yeah lets just all be put in the one box all labeled SAME AS EACH OTHER NO VARIATIONS and i quote "1. Truly bi girls who will play with another girl one on one without men around & enjoy it" As a married woman and a True Bi-sexual female this is just offensive and i strongly disagree with you labeling.. So because i respect my husband and only want to play with him and not alone I'm not truly Bi ? and #2 "Bi, but only if their partner is in the same room or they are at a swingers club & they would not be keen for girl play without men around." What a stupid comment.. Bi is Bi you can't turn it on and off..
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RHP User
10 years ago
This troubles me, as i am very bi, I have been in a number of lesbian relationships, and being with women is a huge turn on for me. I can see this problem causing issues for couples as a lot of us go into this with the idea of both people really having fun. But of a woman was to block me, I would not be a happy camper.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ahhh,I had one recently where the boyfriend said "Oh she loves girls,But she won't go down on you" are you kidding mate? He said that she only receives but won't give,Ha!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Please pardon the straight couple perspective. Apparently all is not greener on the other side of the fence. Given the number of profiles we have read where the lady is bi we would have thought that the bi ladies were having a field day. Extremely interesting that this is not the case. We have often thought that the classification system is a little to simplistic to give a good idea of what people are looking for. Of course, if a better system were available people would still have to use it properly.
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Paradisepair
10 years ago
Quoting 'Ashlee_AdamGC' Ahhh,I had one recently where the boyfriend said "Oh she loves girls,But she won't go down on you" are you kidding mate? He said that she only receives but won't give,Ha!!! - Posted from rhpmobile That's what I'd call experimental....
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Swingingnudist
10 years ago
I recently posted on another forum topic about couples not interested in single guys and mentioned from my experience with talking to couples and husbands on their own was that he didn't want to see his partner with a single male but wants to see her with a female. A lot of the posters on this subject mentioned how the female of the couple is more into the others male partner and not bi at all. So to put 2 and 2 together and get 5 I conclude that she wants extra men, he doesn't want to see her shagging a guy so the best solution is for her to pretend to be bi so at least she can get cock.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bisexual: "The sexual attraction to both men and women" Yup....That's me so that solves that mystery I guess! K xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
um well some might truly be bi and like being with galsand others just pretend just to make there hubby s happy some just want to explore there sexuality to see if they like it or not me I just like to explore possibility's
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RHP User
10 years ago
However I have to be really into you to play - just like with guys . Sometimes with women the chemistry is off . I do play alone when the chemistry is right , and I do often with a good friend of mine! ( and love it) We can be locked away for hours and hours and not come up for air, or play all together. I can not stand " playing for the guys" ...I'm not a sex show , or here for your entertainment ! I would never assume I would play with anyone really , it all comes down to how attractive you are to each other !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Paradisepair' Quoting 'Ashlee_AdamGC' Ahhh,I had one recently where the boyfriend said "Oh she loves girls,But she won't go down on you" are you kidding mate? He said that she only receives but won't give,Ha!!! - Posted from rhpmobile That's what I'd call experimental.... Well, some girls are tops and some are bottoms. Some prefer to give and some prefer to receive and some switch. Same as bi and gay guys, Not all will suck cock, not all like having their cock sucked, or wont to have anal sex, etc, etc. Just like straight people... we all have likes and dislikes when it comes to sexual practices. Although I agree that some women will lie back and "allow" another woman to go down on them even though they may not really be into it. I have done it in group situations, but I do consider myself straight with a bit of a twist. I have very particular tastes when it comes to women.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Ashlee_AdamGC' Ahhh,I had one recently where the boyfriend said "Oh she loves girls,But she won't go down on you" are you kidding mate? He said that she only receives but won't give,Ha!!! - Posted from rhpmobile Oh my God. This Mrs would go down on you in a heartbeat. I need to check what my profile says about my sexual preference.........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi, I am number one, but since I am in a relationship with my male partner, I won't play one on one with a female unless we are together, he doesn't either....I couldn't live without his uhmmmm, hehe cock!!, and The only time I play with females is when we play together and yes I really would love to meet other '1's', for a change, i do get a bit annoyed when a new playmate almost ignores me and gives all her attention to my partner when we are having playtime, or they don't kiss you with an open mouth etc......so where are the '1's', mmmmmmmm
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luvsilver
10 years ago
I love men, their bodies , their touch WAY TOO MUCH to ever want to be anything more than Bi curious which is stated on my profile... I would never play with a girl alone and am always completely honest about this from the very first message exchange with potential play partners. I do like to indulge in light girl play when in a small group or foursome situation (kissing and breast play) but that is where it stops. The girl is welcome to do whatever she likes to me so long as I can continue to play within my own comfort zone. What I find frustrating is the number of couples/girls willing to dismiss us so easily just because I am not "Bi" especially when it states that they play with both sides... I feel sorry for Mr. Luv as they will barely look at his pictures once I have stated my position. But that said I refuse to compromise my pleasure just to please my husband. Which I am sure frustrates him sometimes... Mrs.Luv
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RHP User
10 years ago
Probably more than half the issues could be sorted out with a bit of communication before the meeting occurs. Secondly, "Bi"..... Exactly what is Bi? Different people have different opinions.. If you play with a girl occasionally in a foursome situation then you're not straight are you? How ever just because you enjoy some girl contact in a foursome doesn't mean you want to play solely with another girl, so you're not really Bi?Discuss the topic before your meet peoples and you might not have an indiscretion after the meeting!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have found that a lot of women like it all except going down on each other. I have tried it a few times and it was not my cup of tea but all the other stuff, god yes if there is attraction. I would gladly do it one on one with a woman, the kissing the fingering, the tribbing but I do not do couples for this very reason in that the woman might want me to go down on her and I cant do it. I am happy if she does it for me so thats not very fair so its a bi flavoured thing
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lets not confuse things in my personal experiences, I have been with a woman one on one but more so within a couple play. Bi means we like both and yes then you would want to be involved with both sexes. Giving another woman oral is fantastic but it doesnt mean you will want to do that with every woman. However its all as others say depends on the attraction and connection. BTW lables and thinking that we all must fit a certain mold is unrealistic. The more I experience the more complex I get and gee I would hate to think what kind of label I would have to wear.
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