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Girls and CD's
September 14 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
my ex housmate was a transexual and she had the worst taste in clothes and her makeup always looked wrong.Make sure that you look more than passable,get some advice from female friends who always look great.Develop your own distinctive style. Eddie Izzard did it really well imo.There is something very sexy about a man who wears eyeliner,maybe wear some when you first meet a woman and take the conversation from there. Continue to be open and honest with the women you meet,otherwise what is the point There are women who will find it sexy but there are also women who won't because it just doesn't float their little boats.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think the elephant in the room could be more a white elephant you're looking for.The woman you seek would have to be one of the most grounded and secure in herself ever (lol it goes against our grain as woman, we are renowned for being the more insecure of the species)In something more long term she may even feel like she is being competed against if the balance between you and your other persona gets more one sided?.I watched an English program a while back about a married couple who would go away for long weekends so that the husband could feel free to be in his other persona.....watching them walk around hand in hand was lovely to see until the cameras picked up the looks from passers by. I was quite shocked to realise that the filthy and judgemental looks werent for the CD husband, but directed at the wife ..........wtf?? The impression was that they thought she was pathetic or stupid or both, they captured a lot of these looks on camera, and it was powerful stuff, I still get quite angry about it.Not only was this woman, loyal and strong for her husband, but she kept doing these weekends for her husband regardless of the judgment on her, not him........what strength..So for anyone else out there in this situation...I would like to think that you are fully appreciative and realistic about just what a 'big ask ' this is for your prospective girlfriend or wife.She will be judged by her family and friends (if its in the open) she will have internal battles with insecurities going on as well, she may have to be into bi-males, she may have to be into strap ons .....and all of this is a hell of a lot on top of the normal battles of a relationship.So go easy on her, be respectful of her feelings and how it affects her family life, remind yourself of all you are asking of her and give back accordingly.....its a two way street as always..and do not touch her mascara ..I hop you realise none of post is in judgement what so ever, but I really wanted to paint you a picture from the other side ,I wish you all the best DGT
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RHP User
12 years ago
Brilliant :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I thought we were going to be discussing how loud the girls have their CD players blaring. (doof, doof, doof, doof)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'halcyon_days'Brilliant :) have to agree.... well said.
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
But I know most of them from fetish events and they each have their own kinks also, so matching up can be a hit and miss kinda thing.Personally I am really turned on by a guy in sexy lace panties and stockings/suspenders and maybe a corset and some nipple tassels but once it gets to the dresses and wigs and makeup or putting on a high voice I'm really not that interested anymore. Different strokes for different folks I guess.xx Sarah
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dont grab that. great post btw thankyou!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! LillyCD:) I've 4 Friends who are CDs mainly in their 50s but a couple of younger Guys ..I love them us girls get on so well.The Bummer is some look so much better in lingerie than I do ha!ha! Like MissSarahCurious.. Sexually I'm into .all black lingerie, satin, Panties or red/Black leather, lace ..Heels stockings corset etc .The more he looks like Dr Frankenfurter the better with black Makeup and wig is so Sexy ..Pleasing is sooo much fun... Masturbating stopping on My Command and repeating until I allow them. to climax mmmm.and other pleasures we can enjoy together..That's the Pleasure Dom in me ..he!he! The younger Guys look Beautiful very Fashionable... the Mature ones are just coming out and sadly don't have good Fashion sense.. I was there at the coming out of 1 Mature friend..I helped him with dressing as I had an evening outfit that fitted him I no longer needed Makeup tips Jewellery ..So much fun..What made it even more Amazing was.. .My Spiritual abilities allowed me to share more because I Connected within him. I received MSGs from the Spirit Realm..I revealed this to him . His New Female name is to be Zara ... .He was her in a "Past Life" I saw her as a Big middle aged Peasant Woman living on a Farm near the Russian Border ..She came out of the Barn carrying a bucket of warm milk ..3 Young children rushed up to her.. cuddled her around her thighs she laughed merrily everything bouncing tummy breasts etc.because the children were schmoozing her for a taste of a treat she had made he!he! she made me giggle as I related all of this Zara just knew like meating a long lost friend she could relate to all of what I shared Hugh could too..It was a very Special time one neither of us would ever forget :) Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Predominately they are heterosexual men. There may be an element of autogynephilia involved. But mostly its a bit of fun and something that turns people on immensly. Much as we all have our different forms of porn that does something for us. There are girls out there who understand this. Where to find them well. Not an easy question to answer. Mees would suggest going to some more alternative venues and events. You dont have to go fully enn femme and declare out right that you like dressing up, but maybe going for a bit more of an androgynous look. This would make you feel soo much more comfortable and maybe give off a hint. Ya never know. Some girl may come up to youand say "Hey Ide love to make you over one day" xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have to say I read your post and felt your anger. What a wonderful love they must have had..And like Jensman, I thought this would be about music ~smirks~
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RHP User
12 years ago
should I put some photos on this website of me not dressed up?
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RHP User
12 years ago
or should I put up a second account as a guy
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RHP User
12 years ago
DGT said it very well and from my own experience it wouldn't worry me provided the guy was honest and upfront about it from the start. For me you would need to be confident of your sexuality and honest with yourself about how you wanted to live.There are girls out there who are attracted to CD/TV. You may have to be patient but I am sure you will find one. I wish you the best of luck.
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RHP User
12 years ago
:)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Hun :) Most definitely ..Your Female side is a beautiful Woman . .I'd like to see you in less obviously Lingerie would work . .Plus if you wanted to share your Male image that would be cool too . .Ultimately it's up to you Hun BTW You both give Off! very loving , kind , fun, Sensual Vibes... I Connect with your Male side as I see your Pic as a Female :) Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
heyyyy,interesting post. :) :)i have been with someone for a couple yrs now, at the start he was vvvery self conscious and unsure as to how things would be understood from his point of view.... i listened and understood and respected why and where things have come to how they are today. :) :) and yeh, just followed his lead......1 random day he wore my lacey gstring after sex & from there the confessions arouse.i accept every part of him.... this is behind closed doors, between the 2 of us (gives us even more of a stronger bond/trust)..... & now we share some of our deepest fantasies with each other, still early days but the understanding/idea is there......i am more so flattered that he wants me to dress him, wants me to tell him what to do, answeres to me and asks if he is aloud to do things; wether its changing an outfit, borrowing some stockings, etc, its cute, it gives me confidence he wants to share this with me even thou he could never with any one else....as for being with a constant 'passable' CD, i think thats a little confronting for my own personal requirements, a little too full on to a certain extent - to date someone with a full on lady persona/constant complete feminine outfit, is a little contradicting?! would hate to feel showed up by a cd. lol. i dno how to explain that last bit. loL!!! ~ would a woman be enough stimulation for someone who obviously craves to be cd. but yerr. ehhh. hope my thoughts helped ;P
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's real interesting and I really appreciate your thoughts everyone, and thanks for the compliments dragonfly. I will def put some pictures up in some lingerie and more revealing images. For me, i am def not a full-time crossdresser. And I generally think of myself as a guy. For me the dress is like a mask, a game, a roleplay, not my true self. And in fact I have only once ever gone out in public, that was to the recent spank party. So much fun btw! I mean I have had a number of relationships where my partner was aware and included in my crossdressing, but it's always been a hard and confronting part about it... Only recently have I really decided that it's a part of me, even if it's not the true essence of me. So i have to accept it and be more comfortable with it because I won't ever be happy with myself otherwise. For me though when I am dressed, one of the things that is so sexy for me is the feminity of it all, so "male traces" detract from the experience.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Which one. mees missed Tight and Shiny
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RHP User
12 years ago
tight and shiny it was :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
You can bite me :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
would love to :-P should have fangs and all :-P also going to the Halloween party... may try and double up the costume :-P
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