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Girls never cum

January 18 2013

recently started seeing someone and she tells me shes never cum in her life, done a bit of research about it and i know some women just cant. She is very shy and reserved about talking about sex as well as during. she displays a lot of the physical sign of orgasm and it wasnt til i was talking about it she told me that she hadnt. while some may say its an ego thing trying to be the first guy to make her cum its actually makes sex less enjoyable for. I love the feeling of making a woman cum, its such a turn on, plus to me its the ultimate test of manhood to make them orgasm as many times as possible. what I am asking is there any methods toys or other ways of approaching this that anyone knows has worked before? maybe any ladies out there have had this issue and overcome it?Alot of reading suggest toys and masturbation but i want it to be with me and im not against using toys. never had any issues with performance in the past and she is very happy with the sex. she loves oral and happy to go on for as long as she wants but still no luck. My fingers are my specialty and usually takes no time at all for the big finale so not sure where to go from her.

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mr_dude

12 years ago

Props to you for wanting to take it over the edge, but be careful about making it a tick the box/accomplishment/ego based action..I would say be patient, when you're trying for it try not to outwardly look too focussed or goal oriented lol as she might start to feel pressured and then not be able to for that reason.Toys are a good idea, a vibrator always works wonders for all the girls I have ever played with. The other thing is to get her so turned on that she can't NOT have an orgasm ;P you're not focussing too much on her vaginal area are you? Make sure you pay attention to the rest of her eg kissing a girls neck always does wonders for me.Also, if she is the type that likes anal play you can add that into the mix... the idea I guess is to overwhelm her with sensation so whatever anxiety she feels about it is washed away and she can't help but cum. But again, the trick is to make this all seem natural and not forced ;)Be prepared that it will be a work in progress, and test out what sensations drive her wild and start building on them one after the other. Maybe give her a massage to start, this will help out a lot in the relaxation area...Good luck!! Let us know how the progress pans out ;)

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RHP User

12 years ago

I just wonder if people know the difference between cumming and orgasming.I cum a lot - so moist that my juices go where ever gravity takes it.Though, I don't always orgasm. It's an amazing feeling and gets so tight that I love having something/one inside when it occurs.So....if your girl is getting moist, she is definitely enjoying it and from what i can tell, cumming.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'dotmelie'I just wonder if people know the difference between cumming and orgasming. I cum a lot - so moist that my juices go where ever gravity takes it. Though, I don't always orgasm. It's an amazing feeling and gets so tight that I love having something/one inside when it occurs. So....if your girl is getting moist, she is definitely enjoying it and from what i can tell, cumming.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Can you explain a little more I'm a little confused

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'mrandmrsbel' Can you explain a little more I'm a little confused From what I've experienced, I cum without orgasming. I squirt without orgasming.For me, an orgasm is the complete body sensation which is denoted by the muscles in my vagina getting ultra tight and then relaxing. It'll then pulsate for a while to settle down.I don't always feel when I cum or squirt until I feel the warm juices flowing over me, my partner and the bed.Sometimes, my orgasms are also dry.So cumming and orgasms for me aren't mutually exclusive.

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RHP User

11 years ago

I'm told women have all those different types of orgasms. There's no two ways about it women are much more complex, sexually speaking, than men. It's always been a challenge to bring a girl to the big O. My wife used to finish herself by hand while I was still inside her. At least she was the first to have an orgasm after we got married...

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RHP User

11 years ago

OK, if you want to make a woman have an insane orgasm, get your hands on a Palm Power Massager, it's dark grey and pink. Don't bother with the additional attachments, they are rubbish. This little guy is the strongest thing on the market.....hello it is mains powered. I have just broken my first one (about 18months down the track). Not only is this great for women, but guys love it being used on them also. Put that little baby on her clit and watch what happens.Redtube has a great instructional clip on how to make a girl squirt. It;s a youngish english guy (i think). This is how I learnt to squirt and I have to say......since learning that, I have never looked back.Another small tip......sometimes I find that if a guy gets to work on me first, I can easily cum. If overstimulated it can sometimes be difficult. Try different things, take her to a sex shop, see what she likes.........my fav is what was the Swingers Shop.......no idea of new name.......but it's on Albany Highway in Cannington now, same set of shops where Cash Converters is (near Bunnings), but right at the Perth end of the shops. Take her shopping!

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11 years ago

OK, if you want to make a woman have an insane orgasm, get your hands on a Palm Power Massager, it's dark grey and pink. Don't bother with the additional attachments, they are rubbish. This little guy is the strongest thing on the market.....hello it is mains powered. I have just broken my first one (about 18months down the track). Not only is this great for women, but guys love it being used on them also. Put that little baby on her clit and watch what happens.Redtube has a great instructional clip on how to make a girl squirt. It;s a youngish english guy (i think). This is how I learnt to squirt and I have to say......since learning that, I have never looked back.Another small tip......sometimes I find that if a guy gets to work on me first, I can easily cum. If overstimulated it can sometimes be difficult. Try different things, take her to a sex shop, see what she likes.........my fav is what was the Swingers Shop.......no idea of new name.......but it's on Albany Highway in Cannington now, same set of shops where Cash Converters is (near Bunnings), but right at the Perth end of the shops. Take her shopping!

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