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Giver or Receiver & A Strap On?

December 06 2013

I've decided to ask two questions in one forum post seeing as they both related to girl on girl play. Firstly I'm curious to find if any other women have similar likes to me in regards to playing with other women. I consider myself to be bi-sexual to the degree that I would quite happily play with another woman without a male presence and be extremely satisfied. I consider myself to be a giver rather than a receiver when playing with women. I like to give oral, use my hands on another women and my toys. While I enjoy being given pleasure by a women I find it doesn't have the same bang for me as giving pleasure. I do not find this to be the case when I play with my partner and/or other men I play with in a swinging situation (I'm happy to give and take). It seems that I only find this urge with women and I get immense satisfaction in making another women cum as I myself don't cum during sex and very very rarely during foreplay (only twice in my life). So do any women out there feel the same about this as me? Do you prefer to give or receive when playing with women? Is there something you find about making a member of the same sex cum that you cant get from play with the opposite sex? My second question is this. I have always been curious about using a strap on when playing with another women but so far I have not had this pleasure. I am considering buying a strap-on so that when my partner and play with a couple that has a lady who is as bi and adventurous as me, that she would want to share this new experience with me and that I actually have the toy on hand to fore-fill this fantasy. So what is the best kind of strap-on the get? I'm a complete innocent when it comes to this particular subject so any ladies who own this particular toy, could you please give me some advice on: a) What kind do you buy?b) How do you use it?c) Any other advice that may come in handy on the subject. I keenly await your answers ;) Taby xx

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RHP User

11 years ago

Feeldoe and realdoe are nice... 😎 No straps... hp xo 💌 In Melbourne for Xmas... wingman and playmate required... Apply within.

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RHP User

11 years ago

No straps but it means you can't bang the person with wild abandon! Taby buy a beginners Strapon first. And you fuck people with it the same way a man would fuck you. I tend to thrust much slower than a guy though, that is the reason why they have all those stomach muscles..... It's freakin hard work! But I am getting better at it. ;-)

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RHP User

11 years ago

Passionfruit in Richmond, Melbourne have great silicone strap-ons with super comfy soft leather straps...am sure they do online sales too :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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DTE_couple

11 years ago

We can help you with this fantasy, and advise on which strapon's to get. Or show you ours. I have the one where you can put on different sizes, and also has a choice of vag and anal connections for me the giver as well all on the same strapon. I can be the giver or the taker Im easy ! This is my favourite but I have others as well. I am very Bi myself so hit me up with any fantasies you may have. CheersMichelle

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gazpacho

11 years ago

Ok... so Taby, don't go too small. Guys are more resilient than you might think. As a guy, we like to see impressive cocks... even on our women... as this frightens the bejeezus out of us and makes all us naughty boys behave and do as we are told! I'm going to suggest that it is the girth that hurts most... so choose something reasonable... if you can get your index finger and thumb to join around it, that's a decent starter strap on cock... but look for length... you may not use it, and you need not use it... but the extra length provides absolutely exquisite pain... you surely know the type I mean.... the type that anyone with a brain thinks holy fuck, no more of that... but like a scary movie keeps going back for more of the same... Well, you do not need a 10 inch jelly dong to cause that pain, however, there are increments within which men are interested, and you may find that the 10 inch jelly dong will come in handy, even if it is to improve your capacity to manoeuvre without... errr... falling out. Gus all know about this problem but we never discuss it, strangely. Anyway, for sure, if you've got a long dick, this becomes less of a concern... and you never know... your dude might be in the oh hell yeah, thank you miss tabby category and love as much as you can give as hard as you can give it. this of course, leads to profuse sweating, so you have to be prepared for that, also. Butt creaming is not for the prissy tissue box set. Did I leave anything out? Oh yeah... fisting. Stay away from that nasty business until you get a bit of expertise or else you'll cause a prolapse. Nasty. Angles... all guys are shaped differently. You can doggy style one guy and on others it just will not work that way... but then, if you have a longer dong as Ive suggested, these issues tend to fade away. Spit... always spit on him and call him dirty names. Male butt sluts love that shit... and the extra lubrication is appreciated. Great to see that you're developing into a wonderful young lady. HugsDaddy... errrr... I mean Gazpacho/

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'gazpacho51'"Guys are more resilient than you might think." "Butt creaming is not for the prissy tissue box set." "Spit... always spit on him and call him dirty names. Male butt sluts love that shit... and the extra lubrication is appreciated." "Great to see that you're developing into a wonderful young lady." HugsDaddy... errrr... I mean Gazpacho/ Unless I'm just getting all carried away imagining the blossoming Taby with a strap on, it would appear that her question centred around being prepared for bisexual female play, not the "male butt slut" way LOL. Of course, a young lady should always be prepared to cross paths with a willing male butt slut at any moment, there is no doubt, in which case the advice gets no better than your own. . I've got nothing suggestion-wise to offer you myself though Taby, as I have never had a strap on used on me, however I'd definitely be considering the practical suggestions offered above. I think you can go in to some shops and try them on for size and comfort before you buy one ... Maybe you should do that. Maybe buying strap ons online is like buying pairs of shoes online - exhilarating, yet risky. . Good luck. . Flirty x

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RHP User

11 years ago

im a power bottom love to receive check my pics

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gazpacho

11 years ago

Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Quoting 'gazpacho51'"Guys are more resilient than you might think." "Butt creaming is not for the prissy tissue box set." "Spit... always spit on him and call him dirty names. Male butt sluts love that shit... and the extra lubrication is appreciated." "Great to see that you're developing into a wonderful young lady." HugsDaddy... errrr... I mean Gazpacho/ Unless I'm just getting all carried away imagining the blossoming Taby with a strap on, it would appear that her question centred around being prepared for bisexual female play, not the "male butt slut" way LOL. Of course, a young lady should always be prepared to cross paths with a willing male butt slut at any moment, there is no doubt, in which case the advice gets no better than your own. . I've got nothing suggestion-wise to offer you myself though Taby, as I have never had a strap on used on me, however I'd definitely be considering the practical suggestions offered above. I think you can go in to some shops and try them on for size and comfort before you buy one ... Maybe you should do that. Maybe buying strap ons online is like buying pairs of shoes online - exhilarating, yet risky. . Good luck. . Flirty x haha... yes, well that was one of my posts earlier in the week and I had a lot to get off my chest.. hehe... perhaps too much enthusiasm, Flirty? I misread the question. lol... in any case, the principles are the same... a long strap on is easier to manoeuvre lol. Oops.. Sorry Tabby, but you know me, I mean, from the forums, since you were 18... and although you have blossomed in that time, I have not changed. HugsGazpacho

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