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Giving a blowjob to your ex-girlfriend's new boyfriend?

January 10 2017

For a while now I've had a desire to give a blowjob to my ex-girlfriend's new boyfriend. I only feel this way about 2 of my ex-girlfriends (not all of them). I've also never met their current boyfriend(s). While I was with them they knew I was curious about performing fellatio. But I never got an opportunity to experience it while we where together. Plus I think this scenario makes for a potentially interesting dynamic Does anyone else get these desires? Men - Have you done this before; given a blowjob to your ex-girlfriend's current boyfriend? Women - Have you experienced this, watched your ex-boyfriend give your current boyfriend a blowjob? If not, how would you feel / react if your ex-boyfriend asked if he could give a blowjob to your new boyfriend?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ....as some would say that the definition of a good friend is someone that gets two blow jobs and gives you one. Naaa...not for me. An ex is an ex is an ex and never an XXX. Best ...... Midnight

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    8 years ago

    Call me conservative, old fashioned, prudish, whatever you (as in general reference) want, but sharing is not caring in this instance! 😎 but if, only if, my partner ever got interested in receiving a BJ from my ex, I would be gladly handing him over to the ex, as a gift, and wished them happy ever after together! 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    8 years ago

    Just imaging my current hypothetical boyfriend thinking about my ex hypothetical boyfriend whilst I was fixing him a BJ.....Hahaha feck that. (We all know boys give the best BJ'S...right?) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Are you serious?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quality assurance?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    8 years ago

    It's just his kink. Pretty harmless if that is what he wants. And provided all parties acquiesce. Personally, no. I think being involved with an ex in an intimate act doesn't do anything for me as we were exes for a reason. Prefer clean breaks. Also there could be potential emotional problems that could arise between parties involved. can get complicated. Is there any particular reason why you desire to pleasure an ex's new bf and not just any other man? Just curious. Sounds like a plot from a French blue porn film. Good luck.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    8 years ago

    Ring ringgggg "Hello, this Jerry Springer" "Jerry..... got a pen and paper ready?" 😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Each to their own as everyone says on here. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    8 years ago

    Exactly. To each their own. The OP is sharing his interest or sexual fantasy which may or may not appeal to you or me. it's unusual but pretty benign. Dont need to lambast him for it. We all have our sexual triggers. Yours may not give him a rise at all. OP, thanks for sharing. I know you're new on the forum. Hope you get the answers you're searching for and people who share your fantasy. Best wishes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    So many interesting reasons why you would want to do that. Is it the submissive side in you? Do you want to be dominated by a man or do you just want to stick it to your ex? Or, as I suspect, do you like the thought of sucking that cock dry so that it's whistle clean for your Ex's c*nt. Hmmm so many lovely scenarios. Haha. When my boyfriend and I were still seeing other people he always wanted to go on my dates with me.... he would enjoy a scenario like that. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I have read a few of your comments. You seem pretty conservative in your approach to sex. I think you are going to be asking that question a lot on here. Haha. Have fun with it! :)

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Ignore. Oralcpl is just trolling. It's the only excitement they get. Not sure why a homophobe would come to this thread but it is a fact a lot of homophobes are secret gays. They reflect. Maybe the title gave his pecker a rise?

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Deflect. Not reflect. Gives a little wave to Mr oral.........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You really need to get your facts right before you say something abuot us. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Wtf is trolling?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Facts are facts. When gay bashing was prominent in the 70s and 80s......And 90s......And...... Many of of the gang leaders ended up as coming out as gay. It was their act of denying their gay feelings. So.......How you feeling about that? A little hard? And trolling?.....WTF? Lmaoral...... You should get out more. Xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Are you kidding. Almost sounds like you'd be hoping to do a better job on him than your ex. Seems to me you might like to walk in on them and jab her ass to prove s point, Guess it takes all types. Each to their own, good luck with that one. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    No... but it's your kink so none of my business...

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    I find nothing wrong with OPs fantasy. Is it not a variation of the fetish of a partner/hubby licking the cum from his girls vagina after she has been with her lover. Either there or when she gets home after. Not for everyone but not rare. Just it's an organic approach, fresh from the source but not from his farm. Nothing wrong in my book if you could organise it OP.

  • J_N_L

    J_N_L

    8 years ago

    @lilyorchid > Is there any particular reason why you desire to pleasure an ex's new bf and not just any other man? Just curious. I think it might've started back with we were still together. Back then I disclosed my bi-curious desire (giving fellatio) to her / them. During the relationship I fantasized about giving fellatio while she watched. Although this never eventuated during either relationship, the fantasy persisted. I guess the scenario I mentioned in the OP provides an opportunity experience this fantasy. As for why an ex's new BF, rather than just any other man; I still desire to give fellatio in general. An ex's new BF is simply 1 specific fantasy I've had. I've thought about asking a male friend of mine if he'd let me practice fellatio on him. @CandyDelicious > So many interesting reasons why you would want to do that. Is it the submissive side in you? Do you want to be dominated by a man or do you just want to stick it to your ex? Or, as I suspect, do you like the thought of sucking that cock dry so that it's whistle clean for your Ex's c*nt. Hmmm so many lovely scenarios. Yes, I suppose it is related to my submissive side. No I don't want to be dominated my a man. Rather, it would be an active of submission towards my ex. I also like the idea of her giving me instructions, telling me how he likes it while his penis is in my mouth. As you suspected, I like the thought of cock for my ex's enjoyment. I think it's erotically submissive to giving him fellatio, knowing the penis in my mouth has been inside my ex-GF & will go in there again. @AnnieWhichway > Is it not a variation of the fetish of a partner/hubby licking the cum from his girls vagina after she has been with her lover. Either there or when she gets home after. Yes, I view it as a variation of what you describe. > Just it's an organic approach, fresh from the source but not from his farm. Nothing wrong in my book if you could organise it OP. I've been thinking of organising it for a while. But I'm too embarrassed to start planning it. Plus it's been several years since the last time I saw either ex-GF I haven't contacted