Good girl but love being manipulated and abused too.

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  Mrs_Deep_Love

  3 years ago

  I have heard recently that there's a big difference between chemistry and compatibility. I forget what the deeper argument was ( Pfizer booster brain) Perhaps you crave chemistry?

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  Kokoflamingo

  3 years ago

  Be careful what you wish for. When I first joined RHP I was contacted by a guy who sounds like the type you are looking for. Not pleasant at all. Fantasy could turn into a dangerous reality.

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  teejaylongsword

  3 years ago

  Maybe a guy who can roleplay dominance at the level you wish for could be the answer. This way it would be safe without being stuck with a psycho.

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  sweetnyorkshire

  3 years ago

  Hi. Male half here. You'll not be the first woman to be attracted to reckless, risk taking men and yeah I totally get it! it's exciting! But in the same way as drinking excessively, taking drugs and fighting is exhilarating its also not without significant danger and potential ruin. Have you ever considered looking for the trait of competence in a partner? someone who has the intelligence and intellect to think of compelling ideas and then execute them? those people are also risk takers and exciting in their own way but maybe in a less dangerous sense. Maybe you're someone who just enjoys being manipulated and used in a masochistic way? That's also perfectly fine but you should be self aware of who you are, what you are doing and never put yourself at risk.

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  Boundinpleasure

  3 years ago

  What I’m hearing is you desire unattainable men that do exactly what they want and can’t be pinned down. The type that will always keep you off balance and guessing what’s coming next which, in turn keeps your emotions flowing from one extreme to the other?

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  nightingale8

  3 years ago

  Sounds like you’re a natural submissive. To be completely at the mercy of another person’s whim, that desire to please and submit; pain and risk is remade. You can allow someone to push you beyond the boundaries of comfort but at all times this is something you choose (ie it’s consensual). That’s my take at least. Part of me is attracted to that. I’m equally repelled by toxic masculinity... It’s little man syndrome. A bit pitiful and nothing about it is concerned with consent, just fragile ego. If that is what you like that’s where we differ.

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  FeistyFatty

  3 years ago

  If this was an attached male posting; he'd be getting annihilated.

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  Sawadee

  3 years ago

  Hello Szreya.. l really think your urge is not as uncommon as you may think. Theres something romantic about a man who comes charging in on his white stallion , scoops you up then finds a nice place to have his way with you... l think we all have that romantic side that includes being dominated and submitting to something out of our control.. This doesn't mean we're that way in everyday life, Some like to act it out ' others prefer to leave it as a fantasy.. Its your kink' , choose wisely and enjoy.

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  Rising_Phoenix

  3 years ago

  Good girl? Nothing about this seems good, you should probably get help before silly behaviour like this land you in a dangerous situation. If you don’t care for yourself nobody will. How does your partner feel about it?

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  KindaOldButNew

  3 years ago

  I understand what you seek but that is a dangerous game to play. Take care.

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  @szreya, Instead of risking with real toxic people, I would suggest you to try a Dom/ Sub relationship which is much more organized in a sense that your Dom partner will understand your comfort level and completely no go zones for you and play with in your limitations. There are proper people, parties and places where you could explore the same, I could help you with that. I would suggest you register on Fetlife to get to know more about kinky people and kink events and places. I cant message you back on our previous personal conversation until you reply as I have reached the limit. I will be waiting for your message looking forward to meet you.

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  Waiting for your message dear, I have one good party over the weekend Sunny

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  makeitfun99

  3 years ago

  Hi Szreya, I was reading this with interest and agree with most of these, you do need to be careful, but that goes against the principle of what you actually seek, the excitement of not being in control. With your approval I am interested in talking to you about power exchange. look at my profile and you see it is connection I seek. In your case i would close myself off and just make the connection one of purely for pleasure, mutual. Like my profile if you are interested. x

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  I've chatted with several women about this common fantasy and some even take it into criminal level activity. Thinking of the animal kingdom, which we are a part of, it is not odd that sexual desire might be bound up with power struggle between dominant and submissive tendencies. One need only look at the way most animals behave in that regard. They'd all be locked up in prison lol. Your are certainly not alone in desiring to be used by a man and made to feel like your his sl_t or toy, in the bedroom. There are thousands if not millions of published fantasies online depicting exactly such fantasies. And it does not in any way mean that you would ever desire being used in any other regard in your life, such as exploited by your employer or denied fair treatment under the law etc. I'm sure you demand respect in every way. But sexual desire is not of civil society, indeed some like Freud argued that it must be repressed in some way in order for civil society to function. There are kind-hearted men who, in the bedroom (or on the way to it), would love to treat you like the way you desire, in the throws of that passion, yet all the while remain highly respectful of you and do so within boundaries you agree to set. The key thing is to separate fantasy from the reality. If you can find a man who you fee safe with yet who will also treat you in the way you outline here then it sounds like you might find what you are looking for here. I wish you well in finding that.

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