Good swinging stories for the wife

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  At first she was shy and awkward, but the more she did it the more she relaxed and enjoyed it. She now meets guys all the time and is super confident and in charge. I guess your wife just needs to do it...select a nice respectful guy, lay down the boundaries and let it be fun, even if its awkward at first. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  It can be a little tricky because of all the what if's. From my experience your wife has to be ready to embrace it in her own time. In my opinion the best way is to talk to your wife about meeting a guy who ticks the right boxes over a coffee or drinks with the understanding it's a meet only with no play. That way she gets a idea whether she feels she's comfortable enough to go further or not . No pressure , just a meet to see if she feels comfortable or not . I think most guy's would understand where you're coming from. Good luck.

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  usnow

  9 years ago

  Genguy73 , I guess your wife is looking for guys with big cocks ,lol.

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  jandv

  9 years ago

  I found a free book on the itunes stores called "hotwife, sexual reawakening in jamica". Its very hot story about a couple while on holidays, his wife plays with other guys. Not bad and its free, drop that on her ipad !!!

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  So how come you have a couple profile on here if she is just considering it??

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Actually quite the oposite. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Are you talking about mfm with your wife or letting her see other men on her own?

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I would actually do nothing but plant the idea like you have.. I'd let her go do her own research / reading etc although you could suggest she reads but i wouldn't actually look for stories to give her , as someone conservative myself initially I would feel pressured and intimidated by being given stories to read... but that's just me - you know her best :)

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Mrs Youngun2 here, my husband has wanted this but I was never really sure of it. We have been chatting to the male half of a couple that we are hoping to meet. As newbies ourselves, we aren't sure about anything. And I definitely wasn't sure about other men. But tonight my husband and I had the best sex together, taking our pg photos and posing. We did it all via kik with the male half and it was soooooo sexy. Maybe if she comes on here with her own profile first, like I did, and chat to some men, she will feel wanted and might just join you. If not, then she will either join you or not.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  considering you have your own profile on lockdown...WhoTF made his/hers "WHY" your business...OP asked a reasonable and valid question..The pertinence of how he advertises his profile should not even come into question.Just saying..

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  is to role play.... If your wife really wants to swing, but is too shy, perhaps consider a masquerade / costumed swinging event. Maybe even role play with another couple who you have both got to know first. That way she may be able to let go of unwanted inabitions and enjoy a 'character' who is more assertive. Just a thought... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  CumOnRound

  9 years ago

  Not sure if this will help you but it is one thing that helped us. When we first started discussing the idea of including other men in our play instead of just women, I was very hesitant and shy and not sure of what I wanted. So when we were out shopping or beaching etc, hubby would say "Have a look and just tell me what kind of guy takes your fancy." It was good in the fact that there was no play or pressure involved, just window shopping! It gets the mind thinking about the types of men you find attractive and whether or not you would be happy to play with them. Before that I had no idea what kind of man I was attracted to because I was happy with hubby and women and never really looked elsewhere (Daniel Craig and Tom Hardy don't count right?!). If you wife is keen but shy, perhaps try that and see if it helps. If she is still completely unsure about following through, just leave the idea there and check in occasionally without being pushy. Mrs C x

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  chevtrek

  9 years ago

  Make sure there is no jealousy and give her timeI have met some prudes that have become swingersand got into gang bangs as well.

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  boobsandbusted

  9 years ago

  i agree with woodys approach ,and summers sentiment ,i also want me wife to want to do it, cos she wants to ,not cos i convince her too ,or manipulate her into it ,hence why our profile is written how it is ,I'm not in a hurry ,and especially not in a hurry to screw up my marriage cos I'm selfish ,and want everything in my own time and way , Woody ,we went to the nudey beach for the first time ,and found it fun ,took down wine and strawberrys,and dips ,and biscuits , and cheese ,oh god ,i could go on with what she wanted to take down ,talk about glamping on a nude beach ,lmao ,from there we went to a couples night and had no probs getting naked , and playing with each other in the open ,damn those confined rooms ,but was fun , wife has no probs going back again ,and either do i ,was no hassles ,who knows next time ,might get a women involved if thats what wife wants ,and from there who knows ,her words to me ,let me do it slowly and baby steps ,as long as she is willing and we are having fun ,I'm very cool with that hope that helps from a very fresh ,not done anything like that before nubey brett

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  boobsandbusted

  9 years ago

  sorry about the triple post ,we live in a telstra black spot and i didnt think they went through ,how do you delete posts in threads here please

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Quoting 'jandv' I found a free book on the itunes stores called "hotwife, sexual reawakening in jamica". Its very hot story about a couple while on holidays, his wife plays with other guys. Not bad and its free, drop that on her ipad !!! cool that sounds good. Comeonround that suggestion sounds like a bit of fun as well haha. Thanks for all the suggestions. I really want this to be fun for her so i know it must be her decision.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  But she might still not want to swing, not everyone wants to!! Quoting 'WoodySmith' Quoting 'jandv' I found a free book on the itunes stores called "hotwife, sexual reawakening in jamica". Its very hot story about a couple while on holidays, his wife plays with other guys. Not bad and its free, drop that on her ipad !!! cool that sounds good. Comeonround that suggestion sounds like a bit of fun as well haha. Thanks for all the suggestions. I really want this to be fun for her so i know it must be her decision.

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  CandDSwing

  9 years ago

  Hey Guys There are a lot of podcast episodes out there that can help OR the Playboy TV show SWING!Both have helped us with our journey so much so that we started a group just to share our stories in the hope of helping others. Goodluck in your search for information xx

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  newyboy70

  9 years ago

  My wife is very similar, butter wouldn't melt in her mouth, kindy teacher etc. It took a few years, but when she started (me) looking for the right candidate, that was the hard part. Thousands of people who don't read the requirements, which were very clear. We did find a guy and the whole process took 1 week ps: if it takes longer than this, the guy is wasting your time. It went great, he was the first person she had ever been with apart from myself. Now its a matter of finding guys, so far its been 2 years between drinks.

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