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Great Head

September 18 2013

"Getting great head is the best predictor of a man's sexual satisfaction" .....I've just read this. What do you think?- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As opposed to.......? No head? I give fantastic head. My last partner loved it but it did not stop him looking elsewhere! It does not matter how great the head is other factors come into play as well- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    that if they don't get great head then the sex will be sub standard? Oh dear ... me thinks that guy needs to go and take some lessons in communicating to your partner during sex.Alternatively, if i'm on the receiving end of great head, I predict the the sex will be amazing for both (or all) of us ... go figure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Is he giving head,getting head,either or both

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's actually the blurb, sales pitch, on a dust cover of a book on how to give head. Interestingly the men I've asked agree with that statement so I thought I'd put it to a wider group- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If a man feels he is getting great head, he will overall feel that his sex life is satisfying- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Great head really in our opinion only comes from a mutual desire for pleasure ;) weather it's giving the head or receiving said head if the party's r both into the mo anything can be great but if one is only doing act as a task then it's not overly satisfying ?? As hubby puts it being in sink with ur lover or the person of your desire...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've never orgasmed receiving head... What does that say about my sex life ? Apart I guess, of not having received head from everyone who reads this. Hp xo 💌 True statement

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    may just be correct...Men moan the most when they are getting head ... especially with a finger up thier bum. Now i am going too ask ...what is sooooo good about receiving head? Is it the suction, the roughness of the tongue, the teeth even as some do like that, the gag juices maybe...... Please be detailed.

  • Beachlover1999

    Beachlover1999

    11 years ago

    Inspirit it varies from guy to guy in my experience, like us girls different guys like it different..... Love it more on some guys than others...... ;))

  • Mr_Invisible

    Mr_Invisible

    11 years ago

    Each lady is different in her talents and willingness to pleaseGag reflexes , comfort etc come into playI have a play partner that gives amazing headShe didn't when we met but she was keen to learn how to please MEShe plays with others too and they don't seem to appreciate her talents as I do so I'd have to say men have different requirements and likes when recievingThis particular lady is keen for depth... not to the point of deepthroat but certainly in going as far as she can without gagging or swallowing me wholeThe depth produces a lovely reaction in her throat that keeps my cock very wetShe uses her hands also when the depth gets to much and she needs a break and she strokes and twists her wrist giving me lovely sensations along the shaft and headSometimes taking the tip in her mouth during each stroke keeping the warm feeling on the head and her hot breath is a turn onShe enjoys my fingers in her hair balled into a fist guiding her deeper... pushing her abilities alittle but not forcing her as such I actually have to stop myself from cumming as she gets hornier and hornier the more she sucks and I know she'll need fucking or its just being selfish on my part. But I don't mind. Does great head make my sex life more satisfying... yes... but theres alot more to it and I could probably live on great head alone... but thankfully I don't have too...I get great sex too :)Thats just my 2c

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Ive been a Man for some time now.... and I disagree.For me..... enthusiasm and willingness to share herself with me is where I gain satisfaction.Oral offers pleasure.... especially is her style correlates to what I like....but a nice, warm oiled hand massage is just as bloody good.DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    there is not much better than having that clit expose itself...

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    you a lady before time ...DG?So DG you are sating if you had a the ideal woman at your knees and giving you amazing head with her mouth you would still think a warm oil massage of your ummmm endowment ( talking to DG here so have too be use some etiquette) is just as good ....no cheating here.... one or the other.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Head related to a mans sexual satisfaction??? BAH!!!Can I swap "getting head" for the other fun fore-play/aft-play stuff?Would rather give a good massage than get good head.

  • Beachlover1999

    Beachlover1999

    11 years ago

    Surely the double blind, multi site peer reviewed verdict would be........??????? Men prefer getting a BJ ????? Our RHP research says........ Please vote now!!!! BL ;))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Highpriority' I've never orgasmed receiving head... What does that say about my sex life ? Apart I guess, of not having received head from everyone who reads this. Hp xo 💌 True statement It says you have something awesome to look forward to.Sounded like a challenge to me .. Ladies ?

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Miss inspirit.My view... and mine alone as the topic asked for opinions...... is in the bit that said its "just as bloody good".I am in the moment, whatever moment that happens to be.... and for me, the two I mentioned are as good as eachother.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Why the ladies ? I might have been hanging out for you ? What with your hornblower skills and all... Lol. I did throw it out as a challenge :) I've noticed that its not something many men admit to though ? It's like you're not masculine if you don't come... Hp xo 💌 Indefatigable... Wasn't that hornblowers boat ? Ahoy me hearties !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I would not be ahead like I am now.When my husband wanted to come back, thats one thing he said, that nobody gives a blow job like you do honey.when he is a way his three weeks, he goes , get down there baby I have been dreaming about this for three weeks.Yet I have watched other women give head and they go down like a seagull on a chip, they deep throat and can do that for ages. Saw a friend the other night and I swear I thought she would not be able to talk for a week she took so much for so long, I felt I wish I had a dick lol she was that good.not me , no deep throat but I seem to get the job done. and yes oral sex is just as important to men as it is to use girls, for us it can be a deal breaker so for men I think the same.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' may just be correct...Men moan the most when they are getting head ... especially with a finger up thier bum. Now i am going too ask ...what is sooooo good about receiving head? Is it the suction, the roughness of the tongue, the teeth even as some do like that, the gag juices maybe...... Please be detailed. some random dude that walks in the roomno wait thats when they jump up and turn around and go WFT is going on here?what makes good head, its lack of teethLadyT keeping hers in a jar

  • Coops27M

    Coops27M

    11 years ago

    I have never received great head. I can do better with my hand than anyone has done with their mouth male or female :(- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well you may have to come down for A&D.... We will tie you up and arrange a line of women to take up the challenge. I am sure something is bound to happen. Lol.... Cause you're worth it. 😋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    HP, have you had two women giving you head at the same time? One deep throating your cock and the other your balls then licking your taint..... And just for Inspirit.... and a finger up your bum?? Hmmm maybe two pairs of eyes, two mouths and four hands would do the trick?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    In the interests of scientific research I guess I could (reluctantly) try Meeks 😎 Were you thinking with or without dentures ? 👀 The idea of head from my wife was just that... An intangible unobtainable dream... Lol. Gf after marriage went at it with the gusto of a pornstar (as she did with everything...) mmmm Last gf could deep throat... She even taught me how 😎 I do think more physical contact is the key for me, the closest I ever got was a 69, I actually thought I WAS going to pop it felt that good, but alas she needed to breathe 😛 Not coming does not equate with not enjoying... Hp xo 💌 Because I am worth it... 🙉🙊🙈

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am now picturing you tied up to the frame and naked, facing the crowd and you have written on your chest with red lipstick... "A woman has never made me come from sucking my cock. Step right up and do your worst" Oh dear I think I may be getting carried away. Lol. 😇

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Don't mean to scare anyone! I will behave and only do things if asked. Promise. 😈

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Surely it is a taste test, to whether it will be a short night or a long night, If Tara dribbles of my chin, we are in for a long night. HeheSame thing if she dribbles of my hand when giving me headMado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Highpriority' Why the ladies ? I might have been hanging out for you ? What with your hornblower skills and all... Lol. I did throw it out as a challenge :) I've noticed that its not something many men admit to though ? It's like you're not masculine if you don't come... Hp xo 💌 Indefatigable... Wasn't that hornblowers boat ? Ahoy me hearties !! You learn something new everyday .. I had no knowledge of that little tidbit - I chose it for the literal meaning of being 'relentless' or 'not giving up'Between projecting myself as a hornblower and putting others to sleep... I can feel a name change coming up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You have managed to offend me meeka ! I've been in this place for 6 months and you are only now fantasizing about me ?? Pffft 😛 Hp xo 💌 Looking on eBay for "Catherine wheel"... 😄

  • Wedgey

    Wedgey

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Highpriority'I've never orgasmed receiving head... What does that say about my sex life ? Apart I guess, of not having received head from everyone who reads this. Hp xo 💌 True statement HP I am also a member of this club despite the determined and very welcome efforts of a couple of sexy companions. I think it is all in my head ... not theirs.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sounds HOT Meeka! Dammit, just got my exam schedule and I'm NOT going to be in Sydney the first weekend of the month 😢- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think for a guy to have satisfaction, he's gotta actually "like" the person giving him head. FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile

  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'HP, have you had two women giving you head at the same time? One deep throating your cock and the other your balls then licking your taint..... And just for Inspirit.... and a finger up your bum?? Hmmm maybe two pairs of eyes, two mouths and four hands would do the trick? It certainly helps having good head . I do have one partner who is terrible at head, yet I enjoy having sex with her because of other reasons. I adore her curvy bum and she does get awfully wet. Always a turn on! There are other things that she could do to "stimulate" you.   Mind you, I could marry you tomorrow Meeka. lol. ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My second RHP marriage proposal. 💃

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Okay I just looked at your pictures.... I remember that shopping bag on the head picture from a long time ago!! You have been around longer than 6 mths!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Spot on u6me9 quite obvious you to do most of your work head to toe :-) passion you gotta want to give head best head for me is its a lolly pop and you are in love with that lollie pop passion! Now giving a woman head well now same passion required personally i have quite a problem with eating pussy once i start i get in this oblivious groove where i cannot pull my mouth my tongue away from that damn pussy and well 6 and 9 most awsome numbers ever invented i can go to sleep in a womans wet pussy wake up an hr later and i have not stopped licking that damn pussy! Fuck now i have done it now i need a pussy to eat suck lick lick eat suck i think i need help?? No i dont need help i need pussy!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Wetness of the tongue kiss as a beautiful woman passionately tongue kisses your cock at that time she must worship the cock and treat it with respect as the man must indeed treet the pussy with the same admiration respect desire want passion then it is truly pleasure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I rejoined in march meeka... Earlier, I was in here (mainly lurking though) in Darwin 2 years ago for a couple of months before starting my last relationship. That is when that pic was taken. You might have seen that pic on AMM ? In march it was my main pic... Hp xo 💌 Fueling Meekas fantasy's...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm struggling to know what is good head, had a couple of men come while sucking, then started to explore more and had 3some with a girl friend 3times now and the blokes seem to prefer her. Sort of getting a complex, I ask the bloke to guide me and communicate whats good and what to change. When I'm horny I love sucking great cock, but have had 3blokes now prefer my friend to me so I'm a little put off playing at the moment. Any feed back would be great Lukki

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't often cum when getting head. I can count the number of women who have been able to do that to me. Only one had me beg..."god please don't stop". So for me? No, getting "good" head is not an indicator of sexual satisfaction if you assume that for it to be good, it must lead to an orgasm. But "good" head needn't be that which makes you cum. I enjoy it often, but it rarely tips me over the edge. Fr me the thing that separates "good" from "bad" head is enthusiasm and enjoyment. If she is enthusiastic and genuinely enjoying herself, it will just about feel good no matter her technique.On the flipside, giving head us something I love. Paradoxically, I often judge whether I am giving "good" head on the basis of whether it results in an orgasm for the person or persons I am with....is that veird? (With a Dutch accent)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    So should women be concerned if a man doesn't cum when she's giving head? What about if a woman doesn't cum from oral......should the man be concerned?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Of course not! To many variables to mention. And Superfoxy... I am sorry but men do not have to like the person the come at all. That is one of the most bizarre statement I have seen! Lol. Ummm have you met a man before? Lol. Sorry but everyone is different so yes this would be true for some men but I reckon they would be in the minority.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've never met a man who doesn't enjoy head. .....I've heard they do exist but I've never personally met one. Most men think ALL head is good. There is however GREAT head. Each man will have a favoured technique. (This often mirrors the manner in which he pleasures himself - watch a man masturbate early in a relationship and you'll learn a lot about how to please him) Enthusiasm and genuine enjoyment are two key ingredients, if giving him head makes you wet.....chances are he's going to think its pretty good. Many men also talk about eye contact and making sure you keep his cock really wet with saliva. Personally I think anything you love doing you'll do well. Losing yourself in the moment, total immersion in the experience is always going to make for a better experience.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Losing yourself in that moment is what makes it sensational!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've never been a fan of receiving head, don't get me wrong, it feels good and whatever, but there's a million(?) other things I'd rather be doing. I love to eat pussy for example, something about head jobs though, I can't touch anything or see anything except the top of your head, boooorrring! 69 solves that I know, but that's another thing entirely....;) I've NEVER come from a head job, I like to be a bit more involved than that, a friend once tried to tell me i just hadnt had a good one yet and she bet me $10 she could make me come from a head job.! Ha! 3 hours later we were having a snack between shagging and she came back from the lounge room with a $10 note.... I took it....;)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Cum from head. I think it's because I tend to think of it as foreplay. I'd much rather be inside my partner and us cumming together. But then again, I do love a lady that swallows.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Its not bizzare in my eyes. ;) FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Lukki222' I'm struggling to know what is good head, had a couple of men come while sucking, then started to explore more and had 3some with a girl friend 3times now and the blokes seem to prefer her. Sort of getting a complex, I ask the bloke to guide me and communicate whats good and what to change. When I'm horny I love sucking great cock, but have had 3blokes now prefer my friend to me so I'm a little put off playing at the moment. Any feed back would be great Lukki I know what you mean, I have played with one girlfriend and men preferred me but she gives great head.It happens so I would stop the three in the bed for a while. Get some attention for yourself and then get guys to guide you how they like oral. Every guy is different yet mostly the same if that makes sense?some do not like deep throat, I have seen guys gasp and drag my friend off their cock as it was to much for them.If you want threesomes try this. get the girlfriend to suck his balls while you do the shaft. Its often a visual thing for men, look up at them when you are sucking them.the other way is to lay on a bed naked, tilt your head back wards so they can fuck your mouth while looking at the rest of you.lots of spit, keep it wet. when they cum, stop moving, just let them blow and its not wine girls so you dont have to swish it round our mouth.just let it go in a gulp if you swallow but wait till it stops the pulsing as its pretty sensitive then.some guys cant come oral same as some women cant come oral, no big dealits becomes a big deal of people feel they have to try and get a person off with oral when its clearly not working for them.watch your girlfriend at work see how she does it, but really its just chemistry but it can cause a shit load of problems if your in threesomes and men give their attention all the time to one woman.I know as it wrecked a good friendship for me, when my friend became jealous and we don't talk anymore.there are some things you may be really good at , so don't forget that. Its not a competition is a mutual pleasure zone, no matter what shape it takes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Wedgey... I hear you buddy, and I agree about it being in my head. Kaliedescope... it's time to set your priorities high... 😄 Lukki222... Why don't you sit on his face and help her ? I think it could be a "solution" for me... Mmmm Justforfun... I totally agree with you, I rate my performance by helping her come... Yet am not phased when I don't come via head... ? Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    I dont think need too cum when getting head as I do not always cum with passionate oral all the time...I still love it, I do think you have too really enjoy giving head if you want oo be good at it. If you think it is a chore then forget it... I am not telling what I like

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    11 years ago

    He wrote a book as he needed money. But serious that statement says all men are the same and in no way do I agree. Good head is great but its a package deal and great head and the rest of the sex is crap is a waste of time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My priorities are always flexible....- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm terrible at 69......I just get too damn distracted. I am slightly better at head.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sounds like a challenge!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Coops27M

    Coops27M

    11 years ago

    Sure why not haha. Whoever can pull it off get's free lunch and a T-Shirt :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If I'm getting great kissing, THEN I know life is good !Especially if your finger is up my bum !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quote inspirit- Now i am going too ask ...what is sooooo good about receiving head? Is it the suction, the roughness of the tongue, the teeth even as some do like that, the gag juices maybe...... Please be detailed.................................…………................................................................................. All of the above, plus nails digging into and scratching my length, riding the fine line between pleasure and pain. If the balance is just right it is unbelievable. It's the slow build up, it's the knowledge that she is hell bent on making you cum in her mouth, it's the hard, rough finish, it's her cheeky grin as she swallows my juice.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    And the slogan o. The T-shirt? "I made Coops Cum in my mouth" ?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mr_Invisible

    Mr_Invisible

    11 years ago

    I've known a few women who get distracted when receiving and can hardly give in returnSometimes its best to take turns :)

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    I LOVE giving head, I almost cum myslef in fact I do have mini's. I love too hear why dudes like head so thanks you guys xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The same can be said about us blokes too... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...

  • Coops27M

    Coops27M

    11 years ago

    That could work Kaleidoscope :). Comes in a choice of colour's. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Knowing HP as I do, as a friend (winking ay me lil matey!!). Msy I duggest WE DO CARRY OUT YOUR SUGGESTION but do it at the next Bi-Orgy indtead? Oooohhhhh yeeeerrrrrr HP if you don't become a gusher there I reckon all is lost!!!! Lol gentlemen thank you for your candid honesty if you are one of those thus far unable to explode during oral. Which does beg the wuestion, since I know a grntleman who can't seem to "get there" regardless how hard I try and not having had this "phenomenon" previously (trying not to but I am losing a lil confidence in my ability....NOT) I'm curious too what the answer to Karen B's question is.....should I feel like a failure cos I can't get him there?

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' ... I'm curious too what the answer to Karen B's question is.....should I feel like a failure cos I can't get him there? No.It takes two... giver and receiver... no matter how good the giving is if the receiver is not into it he just won't pop. (said from receiving experience and not being a liker of receiving). This doesn't make you a failure and you should not feel like a failure as the receiver should just gently say "please don't bother, I'm just not a fan of that... how about you lay back and let me pleasure you for a while"...(nom nom nom... lick lick lick... suck suck suck... tickle tickle tickle... etc etc etc )

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Indigine, thank you so much, you are just the sweetest... That's just what I needed... A target painted on my arse ! 🎯 Are you going to buy me some lederhosen and leave a trail of breadcrumbs behind me, or has Meeks got GPS navigation ? I'll get you girl, just you wait...😈😈 😄 Hp xo 💌 Because I'm worth it...

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Coops27M' I have never received great head. I can do better with my hand than anyone has done with their mouth male or female :(- Posted from rhpmobile Same here Coops - I love my lady fingers:)