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Great expectations...

March 07 2013

So today is the six month anniversary of my relationship with RHP... It has been a very devious journey indeed, and I have done things I hadn't even considered adding to my Fucket List when I joined. We already have a forum about the reasons we are all here, so what I'd like to know is: How different has your RHP experience been compared to what you were expecting? For me the biggest surprise has been the level of intimacy I have experienced with people I've been seeing casually, while being totally free at the same time. (Though that bi orgy was a close second). So what about you? Did you expect lots of sex and get disappointed? Were you looking for one-off encounters, only to meet your partner? Were there sexual acts you thought you weren't into, but ended up loving? I'd love to hear your experiences.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    To be honest, I wasn't sure what I expected when I joined - my "why" I joined was probably a bit dodgy at best. Alls I can really do is answer No, No and No to your three questions, and say that the last few weeks have been phenomenal!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    and it was only 4 months ago. I'm not sure I was expecting anything other than to learn more about my sexual self that had been repressed for a lifetime. In that respect, I have learned so much in the last 4 months that I now feel like I need to put the brakes on a bit to process it all. I have tried things that I never would have dreamed would be my cup of tea. My experiences have also confirmed some things that I already knew about myself but was brought up to feel ashamed of. Thanks to the wonderful people I've met and chatted to ... not ashamed any more. I didn't expect that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    As I lost contact with most of my girlfriends during my last relationship. That makes my rhp experiment a total success and it's had some added bonuses along the way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My experience here has been all positive, I've chatted with some fascinating people, i've played with some great lovers, i've ticked a few things off the list, I've learnt a little along the way.   I think that having realistic expectations ensures that you'll find the experience satisfying.   Still looking for that local regular playmate though.......Universe, i'm ready, any time now would be lovely   What i didn't expect....was to also make some friends along the way. Bonus!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's been way better than what I thought...waay better. I've meet and chatted to some AMAZING people and am really enjoying the forums.RHP was recommended by my daughters best friend's mother. She told me "It will be a real eye-opener *insert name*, I really didn't think it may not be for you due to your innocence"...Boy-oh- boy it sure has opened my eyes for the better and well my innocence is still here!! LOLMy marriage was soooooooo Vanilla and dead set boring, so I am enjoying being on here..it is what I expected.Did you expect lots of sex and get disappointed?The sex has been...well.....can only get better and better. :)Were you looking for one-off encounters, only to meet your partner?I can on here open-minded...looking for both. Like I have mentioned before I have never been in Love so therefore not looking for it...scares me in fact.Were there sexual acts you thought you weren't into, but ended up loving?NINJAFOX.....that is all. :)Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I makes me feel very empowered about my sexually being here with like minded people.Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Change is the only constant, and I wouldn't have it any other way.We actually didn't come here with any real expectations, just to window shop. I really wasn't expecting to be anything other than a lurker in the forums, so that's been the key difference.No sex stories sorry Ms_D. We've certainly had some new experiences, but they haven't had anything to do with RHP.Time to set some new expectations soon I suspect, don't want to stand still too long.Mr C

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I tripped over this site,so I had no expectations and was pleasantly surprised.I made some friends,no lovers though.....I shop elsewhere for them

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    My 'relationship' with RHP has been pretty much what I expected...... although, I am more active in the forums than I perhaps thought I may be.DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' I tripped over this site,so I had no expectations and was pleasantly surprised.I made some friends,no lovers though.....I shop elsewhere for them In all seriousness, my experience, 3 months, has been great, overall.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Joined to learn and try new things, certainly done both and hopefully helped a few other people along the way.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    the revolving door hit my bum and knocked me back in for more... When i first joined i honestly didn't know what to expect. I only joined for a bit of a perve not expecting to actually meet anyone but my oh my am i glad i joined up. Have had wonderful experiences and some frankly dreadful experiences but on the whole its been great. in answer to your questions;nope didnt expect to get any... got more than i can have imagined, not enough time in the day it seems.didn't come in looking for one off encounters.. so thats a noand yep... still looking to expand my horizons a little

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I shop at the Vanilla Shop,funny thing is, it's not quite so vanilla,lemon twists abound

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thank you everyone for sharing. Especially you that answered my three questions, that were really only meant as examples to get you started...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Too long

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Not in my wildest dreams did I expect the sex life I have now.   Meeting lovely people like yourself offline, and Sydney was so much fun with Meeka taking us out on the town.   and of course the funny Freeya , staying at the hotel together I was fit to burst with laughter and with all the others that turned up for the meet and greet. What lovely people     Making some new female friends over here in the west, the coffee with the girls and we can actually all be our selves without judgments.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have been on RHP three years and I only meet people I get to know from the forum. I have already written about my time on RHP so won't bore you again, however I will say I have done things I never thought I would have done in a million years, learnt lots about myself, sex, other types of relationships and different ways you can love people. It's a shame that those smart people I learnt from are all gone now. Some extraordinary people have run through these corridors. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    and I do enjoy the forums. Have been told off for being frivolous and have watched carefully what I have said since. (yes spank me meeka!)happy anniversary Ms_devious, may there be many more.The one thing I will say is there are some wonderful, intelligent and articulate people here who post, I think equally that there is a myriad of people who so call lurk. Either way we are all enjoying the up's and downs this place brings or we would not bother being here one way or the other. The thing I think that is most important is to encourage people to post because this is the way to rise above any place you might be in time and be able to talk to people who perhaps can at least make your day a happy one!Happy anniversary

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've been a member for some time. Around 1 1/2 to 2 years I think, perhaps longer. I really can't remember now. I would come online off and on, but never really bothered visiting when I was in a relationship (sort of a relationship....it was complicated). Single again so the prodigal son returns. Did you expect lots of sex and get disappointed?A lot of sex, no. But some sex perhaps. Haven't had any luck in that department yet. Time will tell. Yes, I might be too picky but hey, if I wouldn't be friends with a girl under normal circumstances, there is no way I'm sleeping with her no matter how willing.Were you looking for one-off encounters, only to meet your partner?Made some friends, no encounters of a sexual nature nor a partner. Not interested in a one-off encounter.Were there sexual acts you thought you weren't into, but ended up loving?Read questions above to get the answer to this question.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We joined rhp just 4 a bit of fun, and we've had lots of that. We discovered things we never would have otherwise. It's allowed me discover that I love to fuck young hung guys with NSA and that my man Jay loves to watch young hung guys fuck me!!!! All smiles from us...........thx rhp!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Its been the best of time..and the worst of times...............   So In answer to your questions MsD   Did you expect lots of sex and get disappointed? Expected nothing and got more than I expected and along the way thought I fell in love - I was mistaken   Were you looking for one-off encounters, only to meet your partner? Yes - and along the way I did meet someone who ended up as a long term partner- the fact that I am back inidcates how well that turned out !!!   Were there sexual acts you thought you weren't into, but ended up loving?   Nope - didnt need RHP to figure that all out...hell I went to med school Best thing about RHP for me is the most awesome beautiful people I have had the pleasure with interacting with both on here and in RL......my life is has definitely been enriched by them..and they have touched my soul and made me smile..not to mention held my hand thru various situations..in this I have been blessed   In the next few months, I will be catching up in RL with a few more RHPers...happy dancing over this.. albeit on one leg at present..:(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Unfortunately for us it has been a bit disappointing. We have been on and off RHP for the past couple of years. We are only looking for a lady to join us so I guess that can be a bit limiting. We have sent messages and more often than not are met with no replies. I'm not sure if its us or our profile ( any help tips or suggestions would be appreciated). In saying that though we love the layout of RHP and love seeing that others are having success and fulfilling their desires and fantasies.- Posted from rhpmobile