RHP

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F40

Grooming for ladies

February 04 2010

Ok, right. I am going to get back to this. I am curvy, size 16, boobs and ass, Ive started to work out, and just wondering what people like. My main question is....should I get waxed or not? I shave the bits that matter, but just groom the 'patch'. I have the feeling maybe I should remove it or shrink it?   How do people like other people to 'look' at their first meet? I like nice casual. I wear a little mascara and tiny eyeshadow and dress casual and flirty. I dont want people to think Im something Im not, and I want them to clearly see my face/body so theres no suprises....and then we usually look like we know eachother, so people dont think we just met off the net for sex! lol

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Whatever feels comfortable, I know some are uncomfortable completley smooth..so if you are going to be nervous and naked without something than just well groomed is great. Anything that shows you care...1 about your own parts, but 2. That you care to impress the intended recipent. Smooth all over is great, but on some people a well manicured welcome strip looks fantastic....and points people to the right direction.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    nice casual/flirty is very nice :) if he hasnt put any effort in? well i know what he thinks of himself already..yes yes shave wax which eva, its worth it in my opinion, sexy, smooth, more sensation..etc and it gives u that lill kick of confidence, sexy aura.. about yourself.i love the 'knowin im goin to get laid' ritual of shower, gettin all smooth in all the right places, little bit of make up, sexy lingerie, then casual clothes hehe, feeling sexy and confident = looking hot!good on u 4 gettin into workin out, might b a bit cliche but i really think its important to make those lil changes for yourself not for what others like... if exercising and removing the 'patch' makes u feel better about yourself then guaranteed thats what others will like.lol about "and then we usually look like we know eachother, so people dont think we just met off the net for sex!" haha i worry about that 2! i chickened out of meeting a couple at a local bar recently because of that, im in hospitality and knew i would run into sum1 i know, and there i would of been chatting and drinking away with some random professional couple haha townsville is just 2 small sumtimes!! oh the woes of being a kinky single chiccy and dating online ;)p.s. great profile kinksncurves xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    "How do people like other people to 'look' at their first meet?" ...who cares what other people like or not other people to look like? You should present yourself the way you like to see yourself, and compatible people will be attracted to you the way you are. You can never please everybody all the time and trying to do so may wreak havoc on your self esteem. What you think of/about you is far more important than what unknown others might or not. The sexier you see yourself, and feel within yourself, the sexier you appear to others :) xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If you study and practice a variety of massage curvy woman can be immensely captivated and benefit by a sensual touch especially as it will help their peripheral circulation and not to mention being touched also helps their self esteem, if your working out it will also help break down the lactic acid, massage is so over rated.What do people like?, hmm k well it comes from a diversity of experiences and awareness,, each will have their own life influences based on the empirical (and sum sadly incorrect conditioning and assumptions).But i think your after the general consensus. when it comes to  having a bikini "line" and not having a "short story" instead (LOL) most men will be turned on (and some woman) by nothing there, but having some there well groomed does have character and send a message that you make an effort to be particular, hygienic etc and or as personality It might be a bit hard to tell what they like until you communicate they will get an impression regardless tho, perhaps its best to communicate that you are willing to make it the way they want to impress them so they know how adorable you are :)what do people look for, well each will have their discriminative in built conditioning,(magazine and consensus reality image is the most popular etc) this old fashioned boy goes on the way it felt lol, but that's not helping here. I think most men an woman will notice that you are looking laid back and relaxed that way an not trying to be some thing your not, that leaves an impression with me personally, i cannot speak for others tho.I always ask girls i meet to be them selves and feel casual, you sound like a very cool chicky, glad you added me as a mate :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi Kinks..I agree with all..be true to yourself !.. by being yourself, doing what makes you ! feel good about you!and when one is comfortable with themselves..it can attract the right people.As we know we cant please everyone..and trying to doesn't make us happy or content..I wish you  all the bestxoxoxheymumma

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    for you then it will be good for him/her whateveras you'll feel confident and thats what you'll ooze.(probably not a good choise of word for this site)have fun baby and live it up.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahaOld Earl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    nice cuffsEarl