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Groovy Delicious Bar Hop Meet & Greet
February 01 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Most guys think it will be a sausage fest and that young dudes with no shirt and 6 packs will be there. Therefore they don't come. One memorable comment from a regular poster was that he wouldn't attend M&G nights because he didn't want to be pressured into sex! What the?
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Dimeshreds
10 years ago
I was at the Casino last night and I saw the event when I was getting a beer, I didn't bother going into it because one assumes that single guys are usually unwanted as a majority of couples only look for single women and women get enough attention on sites like these from keyboard warriors. You look at every event and it states single guys are limited so most would not bother and I especially don't want to put my name in the hat and not be selected, not out of fear of being rejected but as a matter of pride. I have refused to do this on some occasions and I know it is my loss...Our own fault I guess bloody horny men harass women and couples and shoot ourselves in the foot.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well I would agree with your first paragraph for sure Meeks. When I first joined I messaged many of the locals, many of whom were regulars at the meet and greets, silence. The no response is a response response. Further, couples regard single men as a nuisance. So Fuck it. Reap what you sow. Who wants to turn up to be ignored.
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RHP User
10 years ago
i was working - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
10 years ago
Show more titties!!!! Simples. Lol. Good luck though and have lots of fun (we want to hear abiut the dirty details. Hehe)
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6exxy
10 years ago
That is so funny lmao yeah I'm sure they will like that! Things is I don't know if they know, what they are missing? ( . ) ( . ) Gotta love it! Will that work? ๐
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john60
10 years ago
Its the venue. I went to one and the music was so loud I couldn't hear anyone. Some of the meet and greets are held in the wrong venues so I don't go anymore, I prefer private parties, they are usually a little easier to talk to people without the loud music. And yes I know if it is too loud I am too old.
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inspirit
10 years ago
The organisers are a couple and there is a age limit on there attendance criteria. I couldnt even register. Boo hoo ... I have noticed at these previous events the same thing, personally I dont go anymore. Also the Casino is a shit hole in my opinion. Sure there are lots of bars but people get lost in them too. One event I went to I foind RHP people in 4 different areas in their own groups. My suggestion......Organise an event at a pub with live music or at lease some music....like we use to and advertise it. If your smart, marketing on here is not hard. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
10 years ago
Having an age limit definitely gives a different vibe to the meet. If you are banned to attend because you are over 50 just doesn't seem palatable to me. I think having an open age is great. Seen lots of hot 50+ yo men that is enough to bring on an early onset of menopausal-like hot flushes to any woman.... ahhhh.... pass tge smelling salts sweetie...
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Seachange
10 years ago
( @ ) ( @ )...... or ( โ ) ( โ ) for those into nipple bling... that'll drag them in ;-)
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inspirit
10 years ago
People just whine in WA and do nothing about it .. Just Sayin. - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
10 years ago
I will take the lead and do another event :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You can't "ban" anyone from a public venue. I wasn't aware the Smiths had an age limit (theoretically), is this new ? Inspirit, I'll keep my eye out for your event, sounds cool
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Seachange
10 years ago
come to our next melbourne meet and greet!!! I dont know when but you sure are going to be a hoot and Melbourne is a party town (not that I party, lol) !!!! I have to say though that WA men are just searing hot.... When you hit town, the melbourne men wont know what hit them. We'll have to forewarn them...
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precious142
10 years ago
can make or break a Meet & Greet night......I have been to a few at different venues and I agree inspirit.......casino is a shithole.St_John......I agree with you...its very difficult to chat when the music is too loud...and its not about being old either.And having a host that will introduce you to people helps too, especially if you go solo......
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' The organisers are a couple and there is a age limit on there attendance criteria. I couldnt even register. Boo hoo ... Wonder if it would have made a difference in attendance if the event was organized by single people? I wonder if there are some presumptions surrounding this as I get the impression from posts above that meets organized by couples has the stigma that only couples and single women are welcome. Maybe I am reading it incorrectly? Personally, I am not fussed who organizes it as long as I fit in into the criteria so I feel welcome. the meet and greets in melbourne has so far been open from what I remember and there were lots of single men, single women and couples. We mingled, I chatted and joked around with the single men standing around in the corner on their own and invited them to join other groups in the mingling.
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6exxy
10 years ago
I know I was there earlier and I got introduced to people no problem. I was also outside the age range but made an effort to go anyway. I think there are some great suggestions and hopefully Inspirit will also organise a meet and greet. Lillyorchid hmmm maybe the next meet and greet should happen on your next trip ๐ to WA. Venue, age range and hey guys there was me and more than 15 single ladies I'm just saying. So while there were couples and it was organised by a couple the ladies were there so we can be there to make a party too ๐
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Seachange
10 years ago
your manly chest heaving under your tight wet sweat-soaked singlet would be enough to entice me to the WA meet and greet. [ . ] [ . ] [-- | -- ] [-- | -- ] [-- | -- ]
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6exxy
10 years ago
Still my beating heart๐ You are cheeky, adventurous and dangerous too ๐ That would be AWESOME if you did attend ๐
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6exxy
10 years ago
We can take action and do something about it. It won't change until people step up to help facilitate change? I'm up for it โ๏ธ
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inspirit
10 years ago
To be honest tho I am time poor these days. Why don't you 6exxy. Have I met you at the greets? - Posted from rhpmobile
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6exxy
10 years ago
Three meet and greets since last August I think. No I have not as I arrived late for the The Empire M&G. But I look forward to meeting you โบ๏ธ
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RHP User
10 years ago
I attended even though I was older than the age limit. Had a great time, although I agree, it was a bit loud for having a conversation. Met some friends and new faces, I love the meets, try and attend as many as I can. Some single guys are just a bit shy to rock up on their own?
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zoe69r
10 years ago
I was supposed to attend but unfortunately I was working at the farm on the day and got kicked in the leg by a cow so was a bit sore and didn't go , but I have been to quite a few M n G's that the smiths have put on and ive loved everyone of them and thanks for arranging and inviting me xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dirtytease are having a meet and greet this Saturday night at Devilles Pad. Its in the events section. No age limit. No excuses not to attend. Also having a pre/post hotel party for those they wish to attend. Should be a good night, so get odwn there lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
See you there xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ms Koko ;)
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inspirit
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Dimeshreds' I was at the Casino last night and I saw the event when I was getting a beer, I didn't bother going into it because one assumes that single guys are usually unwanted as a majority of couples only look for single women and women get enough attention on sites like these from keyboard warriors. You look at every event and it states single guys are limited so most would not bother and I especially don't want to put my name in the hat and not be selected, not out of fear of being rejected but as a matter of pride. I have refused to do this on some occasions and I know it is my loss...Our own fault I guess bloody horny men harass women and couples and shoot ourselves in the foot. Hey there Dime, you would have been very welcome, could have introduced you to a fair few people who are looking for single guys - including us! As regards the OP, Thanks dude! we like holding things where people come, have a great time and meet lots of folk they thought they might like to get it on with - no better way to decide whether you want to get to know someone better. We always try to make all who come very welcome, and make sure to introduce people around if they'd like a leg up (over!) as it were. I'm surprised at the people who DON'T come up and say hello. And always i'm surprised at the folk that think there will be pressure to do anything other than smile a little and have a drink! Thanks so much to all who came - we really enjoyed meeting you all, and having you there, look out for the next one :D (and do keep an eye pout - i cant remember to personally invite EVERYONE xxx)
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RHP User
10 years ago
at the casino. Im a guy, and single.... Good on IndianaSmith for organising it. I appreciate that its a fair chunk of work and sometimes money for people to hold events, and that you cant keep everyone happy all the time. As fas as single guys not showing up as they think its more a couples/ single female thing.....well people should learn to stop assuming things. I had a great night always good to put faces to the names and catch up with people Ive met previously. Ill also be making an apprearance at Devilles Sat night, should be fun :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well I attended and I had a great time catching up with friends. I thought the band was fantastic and enjoyed a few dances as well. The other bars are quieter so you can have a chat too. The couples do tend to stick with couples and singles with singles. But hey everyone is friendly and out to enjoy a social night. Those single men who dont attend are just missing out on meeting some great people in a safe social environment. Which is so much a better option then to meet someone one on one. Just my thoughts
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was keen to attend, a great choice of venues, however I'm 49, you can only see a couple of my abs after I've done a lot of work on the house, or when I haven't had time to feed myself properly. I just thought I would feel as welcome as Homer Simpson turning up for a Chippendales audition. Maybe next time
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6exxy
10 years ago
Thanks for your comments ๐ So guys what do you say? Up to meet some ladies, couples or just good people with like minded interest? There is a good time to to had so don't let RHP life pass you by ๐
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Two_Tarts
10 years ago
IndianaSmith are the most completely awesome couple and they are always so welcoming to everyone. Saturday at Crown was great and we always go to their events because we love that they get such a diverse crowd. It costs us nothing more than our time (and a couple of bottles of cheap bubbles...) and gives us a chance to meet people that might not have previously been on our radar in terms of arranging a specific date, and you just never know what the possibilities might be from there. It is a surprise to have anyone talking about not feeling welcome, or not fitting the right age or criteria, or not being able to register, since IndianaSmith are always pretty clear in the event description where it is, that everyone is welcome, and not to wait for an invite. Thanks for another fun night guys! It gave us the chance to talk to some really lovely new couples, some sexy singles, and to catch up with loads of our friends. You guys are the best ! Xxxxxxx
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6exxy
10 years ago
Yes I am going to make an appearance ๐
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