M43
Groped in public
July 19 2018
Comments
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
Sounds ridiculously complicated.... good luck with it dude - Posted from rhpmobile
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tonycerva7
6 years ago
Wow - Posted from rhpmobile
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mango69er
6 years ago
Made sence to some of us. Sneeky public play is a turn on for alot of people . From what i have read on the forams. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
The subject of wearing a wrist band, a black ring on the right hand, and a pendant with a special logo on it (to identify one as swingers to other swingers ) has cropped up in many past forum posts, and been debated “Ad Nauseam” on here. The general consensus was that how would one know , 100%, that the person wearing the ring (or other subtle sign) really is a swinger, and simply not just a vanilla person wearing a black ring ? And that if one approached that person, thinking that they were a swinger, when they were not, it could clearly result in an unpleasant reaction. The other potential problem was that whilst it might remain “secret” for a while, it would not take long before the “vanilla muggle crowd” got wind of it and the cover would then be blown and the whole point of the exercise would be defeated. One may as well then wear a sign around ones neck that said SWINGERS. Your coloured armband idea, takes it a step further onto very dangerous ground. Being groped in public and having ones personal space physically invaded, might sound like fun to you, but there are many people out there that would feel offended and violated by it. You need only read the papers to hear stories of women being groped on trams & trains, to realise that the groper will face the full force of the law as a result. The problem with your fantasy, is that whilst it may work for some, how will one ever know 100% that the person wearing a coloured armband (a) wants to be groped (b) wants to be groped by you (c) is even aware that wearing the armband is an invitation to be groped. What if the person wearing the armband is a “vanilla person” who simply likes armbands? So if you see a woman wearing a mini skirt it’s a sign that she is promiscuous and open to being sexually abused? A way to avoid anything unpleasant / unsolicited from happening , would perhaps be to wear an armband that said “ grope me”. That would avoid possible confusion and misunderstanding. Even then, should one we wearing a clearly labelled armband, one should still have the choice if one wants to be groped by the groper who has approached one. If one attends a swingers club, this does not mean one is going to get sex. Nor does it mean you are open to having sex with others. Whilst RHP is an adult site, it does not mean that all women on here are sluts, who will say YES and open their legs on your command. Nor does it mean we have to accept (and enjoy) lewd and disrespectful messsges. Back to your “armband fantasy” . Lewd sexual acts in public , are unlawful. And for very good reason. What if children were witness to this groping? Would it be fair on them , and other members of pubic to have to witness the groping taking place ? Would you want your children to witness this in public ? No. And for that reason it’s illegal. Best you return back to the bushes, dunes and public toilets at Sunnyside beach. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetnsensual
6 years ago
Please do t do this in public. It sends the wrong message to kids who see this. If my partner saw you doing this you would be on the ground in handcuffs so quickly. Do you realise women work hard to be treated with respect and not to be treated as sexual objects. What you do in your own bedroom great bring it to the public space with kids around and you are over stepping the social norms and laws. Touch me in public and expect a slap in the face. Jesus you guys don’t not what’s appropriate and what’s not. In a line in coles their will be kids around and I don’t give a shit if the person you are griping says it’s ok it’s not so stop thinking about doing it. That’s not negative that’s the law - Posted from rhpmobile
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mango69er
6 years ago
Thinking he said it was between two consenting adults. Not that its my thing at all. Alot of things will put you in behind bars if you dont have two consenting adults. Think whiping and caining someones backside will. Most bondage will. Making a slave out of someone will. Watch out all you masters out there. F sake - Posted from rhpmobile
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twowithnolimits
6 years ago
@OP perhaps you should realise that the majority on rhp are not overly liberal, a common misconception to be sure, most are only 1% right of vanilla. Just because a person wants to fuck someone different for a change does not it seems make them particularly adventurous or liberal. Perhaps if you were to approach with more prior organisation some of the fears expressed might be mitigated?
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Dirtyandfriendly
6 years ago
I don't mind people responses I just find it interesting where people are assuming this was about going up to a complete stranger and grope them in front of everyone. I said you wouldn't do it in a line at Coles if you actually read it correctly. I never said I would DO IT I said I liked the idea of it, OBVIOUSLY with someone who wanted to do it as well. I ALSO said you wouldn't do it with people around. What really annoys me is I said about 2 consenting people, I don't like that a few on here spoke about respecting women, at what point was any of my post about disrespecting women??? I SAID it was for consenting people, possibly an organised meet? (yes I know about the legalities). I feel for a lot of women who have particular fantasies that go against the grain of society and have to lock it up as a secret and not allowed to share because of judgemental people. Why I posted it was to get a discussion, an open discussion with responses that were on topic and relevant. Most were negative which gave me an indication of where RHP people were at, but mostly it was replies without actually reading it properly, getting offended as I did make the mistake as it is of 2018 (yes was offended in a response too, so you don't need to quote me there). A few things I notice on these forums People get offended easilyPeople get on their soapbox a lotPeople can't stay on topic.People who don't read. I use to have some great conversations with people on here, but most have left due to bullying and judgement, I can see why.
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mango69er
6 years ago
No . He said not in a line at coles. You may be able to spell. But sure as fuck cant read. Not that i find want he wants a turn on at all. To me he means doing it in public on the sly. And who hasnt dont that to a partner. Hell i did it just a few weeks ago. Some of you are way to fast to find the worse in people. Says more about yourselfs than him.. Hope we get this reaction next time two consenting adults ask about dogging. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
I get your post especially your last post explaining more in detail of your fantasy. Consenting adults, a bit of public play, a Bit of mischievous fun. I do understand where you’re coming from However These are very sensitive times and I think the problem here as I see and feel it, is that women are fighting so hard for rights, for respect, for equality, for safety, for many issues and rights that men take for granted and your post has not taken this into account. I think you are not reading the mood of women, of society, or of the times, especially here in Melbourne which as you know has had some terrible recents experiences of women being abused, assaulted, raped and murdered. It has never been easy being a woman, and it no easier now. We are trying to instigate change and educate and highlight our plight with the support of many wonderful men but your post as you can see, is regarded as being out of touch with the mood right now I understand but I don’t support your idea. Yes I know it’s between 2 consenting adults but define consenting, a arm band ? I see this fraught with danger I’ve been groped twice in broad light on the tram going to work from Nth Melbourne to the CBD , a 7 minute journey. The first time, I was so shocked I didn’t say or do anything. I was frozen and disgusted and it happened so quickly and then he was gone The second time I announced it loudly and the driver of the tram stopped and confronted the young man, who did it but he pissed off. I didn’t report it to the police but the driver was lovely and so was everyone on board. It shook me and upset me great,y that someone could what they wanted to me for their pleasure. I was wearing my uniform not that what I wore should matter That tram is the no 57. A few months ago on that same tram route in broad daylight, a female was sexually assaulted on the tram. Google this. And I felt sick when I heard this on the news. This route is always a crowded tram route, very easy for one to prey on another, as our bodies are pressed together I live in Brunnie now and I catch a different tram where most days I get a seat and I’m no longer pressed up against other bods and being a double tram, people aren’t as packed in, like sardines, but this is irrespective Groping as you can see is a no no. It’s just a little off. Yes I know you’ve stated between two consenting adults but I guess for me , this is juvenile behaviour. Whatever happened to just meeting one for a drink, a flirt, a wink and a suggestive smile and going from there ?
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The_Antichrist
6 years ago
About armbands/rings/etc, is that you still need to gain the consent... So in reality it’s of no real use as you still need to be an engaging person and seduce them into the idea in order to gain the consent.... Part of thrill of any hunt in my view is to rely on ones senses and instincts not a neon sign that says “over here” - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
The OP did say NOT in a line like Coles, and he did say there needs to be set guidelines and rules, but I do agree those weren't introduced, so the public can understand what the heck. However... the 2 things I don't get, and which worry me, is that firstly, the OP starts with 'armband' being the choice, and then ends with 'wristband', making it now confusing and dangerous as it leaves his fantasy sceptical and unclear (as mentioned above, failed to indicate rules & guidelines) because many people every day wear both. Many wear them to social sporting activities and also on their runs to keep fit. Secondly, why would the OP change the rules and guidelines to what he read, instead of forward them on for all to understand it. If there's a made group, it means this idea is working somewhere. Would one not prefer to follow those set guidelines and rules, which seem to be already in place? I think the OP should have provided what was read, or where he read it. In the end... for me it would be a no. Groping to me sounds like when I started attending my first high school parties and played truth or dare, where most dares were to grope a breast or ass, or cup a pussy, or pash for a minute or so. If that's the case, it's no different than organising something online for daytime fun. I just can't imagine someone putting on an armband or wristband to go out and be fondled. Anyways that's my thought on it. Sounds better in theory than prac. I find too many wrong turns with it. All the best OP, but the fantasy needs major tinkering. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Up4HankyPanky
6 years ago
Pipsqueak, you said it best!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Eschatasus5156
6 years ago
we are so up for it, she loves the idea and l would love to sit back and watch it happen
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Swingingnudist
6 years ago
Lots of videos out there regarding this play so it's not uncommon.... Now i wonder what the reaction would have been if the OP had a female profile. ?? Cracking another beer - Posted from rhpmobile
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Supernova
6 years ago
...That's just some weird and creepy shit. leave these public groping wristband weirdos to each other! 😬 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Swingingnudist
6 years ago
Ffs the OP is talking consenting adults and everyone has got on their high horse and talking about being groped on trams by a stranger, respecting women, womens rights yada yada, heelllooo 2 people with armbands that want the same thing is consenting not a random stranger knuckleheads. I work mate was telling me about 1 of his play friends who said she had a fantasy of being pulled into bushes and 'raped', so they arranged a scenario where he saw her on a track and pulled her into the bush and fucked her....it was consensual. Yes rape is so fooking wrong but it was her fantasy, no different from the OPs forum topic. - Posted from rhpmobile
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technologic
6 years ago
I imagine it would be feasible as an organised event? Just like how people arrange a domination/submission/kink event I suppose. - Posted from rhpmobile
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technologic
6 years ago
I wouldn't mind going to such an event. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Swingingnudist
6 years ago
There ya go , referencing girls going out and groping guys in public...i said imagine if the OPs profile was a female..i can imagine the posts on here...you go girl if thats what you like. There was a couple a few years ago who organized huge parties in Melbourne and they had a grope box thete for the ladies to get in with access points for peoples hands and the ladies loved it...they never knew whose hands were groping them...and yup it was consensual
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
that had a room called “The Dark Room”. One ventured in there at ones own risk as it was completely pitch dark. No one knew who was groping whom .... and a lot more went on in that room than just groping. - Posted from rhpmobile
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cccouple8
6 years ago
Just like black panther. And a secret handshake. Then and only then can you grope me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
6 years ago
Quoting 'swinger007' There ya go , referencing girls going out and groping guys in public...i said imagine if the OPs profile was a female..i can imagine the posts on here...you go girl if thats what you like. There was a couple a few years ago who organized huge parties in Melbourne and they had a grope box thete for the ladies to get in with access points for peoples hands and the ladies loved it...they never knew whose hands were groping them...and yup it was consensual That actually sounds like a lot of fun. But from the sounds of it on here consenting adults going into the box would be wrong, how dare they organise something where consenting adults grope each other.
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Dirtyandfriendly
6 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' that had a room called “The Dark Room”. One ventured in there at ones own risk as it was completely pitch dark. No one knew who was groping whom .... and a lot more went on in that room than just groping. - Posted from rhpmobile Where you ate in the dark. Did they see anyone before they went into the room?
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Dirtyandfriendly
6 years ago
Quoting 'dickfullalove' The OP did say NOT in a line like Coles, and he did say there needs to be set guidelines and rules, but I do agree those weren't introduced, so the public can understand what the heck. However... the 2 things I don't get, and which worry me, is that firstly, the OP starts with 'armband' being the choice, and then ends with 'wristband', making it now confusing and dangerous as it leaves his fantasy sceptical and unclear (as mentioned above, failed to indicate rules & guidelines) because many people every day wear both. Many wear them to social sporting activities and also on their runs to keep fit. Secondly, why would the OP change the rules and guidelines to what he read, instead of forward them on for all to understand it. If there's a made group, it means this idea is working somewhere. Would one not prefer to follow those set guidelines and rules, which seem to be already in place? I think the OP should have provided what was read, or where he read it. In the end... for me it would be a no. Groping to me sounds like when I started attending my first high school parties and played truth or dare, where most dares were to grope a breast or ass, or cup a pussy, or pash for a minute or so. If that's the case, it's no different than organising something online for daytime fun. I just can't imagine someone putting on an armband or wristband to go out and be fondled. Anyways that's my thought on it. Sounds better in theory than prac. I find too many wrong turns with it. All the best OP, but the fantasy needs major tinkering. - Posted from rhpmobile Thank you for a good reply, yes I agree it sounds good on paper, but practice might be too difficult. Possibly the woman has a couple of male friends who she is comfortable to do this with and lets them know she will be somewhere for this. I have done a lot of public play and it's a risky thing to do, but I find it exciting especially with someone who enjoys it too. I've never and would never grope a stranger in public and actually have never even thought of doing it. I have one it with a girlfriend and both enjoyed it. Major tinkering you'd even have to have a seminar for it or something :P
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Phantom16
6 years ago
I like the thought, but it does lead to exploitation from weirdos. - Posted from rhpmobile
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couplakiwis
6 years ago
My girl gropes me in public all the time and I hate it 🤣 So does she when I do it back.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Well!! I didn't vote for Trump. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Swingingnudist
6 years ago
Redmustang read the OPs subject properly and stop making inflammatory words because you can't comprehend the English language. The OP wrote about a pre arranged sign such as the armband. CONSENSUAL adults having some fun, it is no different from doggers that sit in their car with the interior light on as their signal for other doggers that they are interested. If you can't comment on the topic at hand without bringing your make believe BS into it don't comment. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
6 years ago
I think is a struggle on this site. Also the ability to read. I think those whos nerve was hit black out every word I said except the word "grope". - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
The Ops post properly before they jump down his throat. So many people can't seem to read. To me between consenting adults its fine and exciting. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
You clearly asked for people’s thoughts on this issue. You must therefore accept that there will be both positive & negative responses to your fantasy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Including myself did read the OPs post and didn’t agree with it Consensual or not Perhaps all those that favour the OPs view, should learn to read as well and not select passages that suits their agendas and also be open to the fact that people have differing opinions, not wrong just different and that belittling others is poor form OP as I said I get where you’re coming from, however as you can see timing is everything I think perhaps it’s best if you post a subject in the future you are more open minded to the fact that not everyone will agree, no matter what your subject If you can’t grow and accept others views and opinions even if you don’t agree , then perhaps posting is not for you
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