Ground rules

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  gazpacho

  11 years ago

  Winding back or stopping is up to the individual involved, however, as a couple, it pays to keep an eye on your lover to make sure they are having as much fn as you are... it's pretty near impossible to know, when you're going gangbusters, how your partner is feeling about it if you don't keep an eye on each other. First and foremost is how you each feel about each other as a couple.. so don't jeopardise it for the sake of the circumstances. You've no need for excuses. Just speak plainly. All this can be done on the fly and need not be discussed with the other couple, I guess... but make sure between you, you have an escape signal. As for who is going to be doing what, this is something you would discuss with the other couple... especially with respect to limitations... establish from the outset that only girls play... or whatever it is you fancy... if that's your thing. Personally I think that as few rules as possible makes for more fun.... provided you note the comments in the paragraph above. There is no etiquette as such... its all about human relations... e.g. how would you like to be treated that way? This doesn't mean you do something you do not wish to do. It means that you remain civil, whatever you choose to do, or not do. HugsGazpacho

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  If they say, have you played old Mac Donald had a farm, then then run Forrest Run but other than that, don't drinkI have seen things go to hell in a hand basket when people drink too much. signal can be like a Muppet, hands over your head, wave em about and scream out, something innocuous, like start the car! start the car!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You should have discussed what you expect with your partner and with the people you are meeting before the event happens. Only go through with things you have chosen and don't be pushed into things.....there's always next time. Have a safety word or something with your partner if things get uncomfortable. Stay sober and be carefull of drink spiking...it does happen. If you are both happy with the way the meet is going ENJOY. Good luck Jellies. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Before you meet, you should set your own ground rules, and stick with them...Always be yourself, like you are around your friends, as you will feel more relaxed.. As you settle into your meet n greet, bring up in general conversation, "So, what do you guys like and don't like in a play session?" This will allow you and them a better understanding of what you all like.. Regarding safe sex practices, that's your choice of how far you practice it.. Enjoy your journey guys!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Rules are great idea to lay down with u n ur partner before heading if to any meet :) but don't over do the rules with others ?? As 2 many rules can become a turn off ? I had a couple that had alms of every rule set in stone ? No to this no to taht it was nothing more then a breathing dildo in the end ? I wld have had more fun jacking off alone ?? So yeh set your rules for mutual fun for all n respct ur own (partnership) just don't forget playmates have feelings of desires aswell:)) if u lay ur rules down clear from the start u will have so much respectful fun :))

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I would be such a failure as a Swinger...I could never remember all of that...are there training courses? xx Q

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  It all looks mute now anyway, the couple have gone quiet, we sent a hi, how are you, any ideas of timings for Tuesday? mail, got read that day but no reply (been 3 days) and we are up there tomorrow. Bit disappointing, but I guess people change their minds and such, but a heads up would be nice. Bit late to find another date it seems, we have tried... Maybe next time! We'll still have plenty of fun together :)

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