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Growing old gracefully.. No way... It's a state of mind..

November 22 2014

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After reading another post re turning 40 , it prompted me to think about any age and how some people grow old before their time either because of attitude or expectations of others. Personally' I have absolutely no intention to grow old gracefully . After years of looking after myself anyone who suggests different is kidding them self. Occasionly ' I meet up with people who think once they hit 50 its all over rover. They think they are old so this MAKES them old . I'm often told, I look and appear much younger and I tell them its no big secret just a little exercise ' eat right , sleep right , think right and attitude.. There will come a time when I'll turn up my toes 'I know that.. But while I still have plenty to offer , thats the way I'll stay.

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  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    And...? lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I totally agree, its a positive attitude and staying healthy that keeps you young. I was going down the path of thinking Oh, well, Im getting old, maybe should slow down. Then my life took a dramatic change and thank goodness it did, I feel younger than ever now and will continue to do so.....whats that poem by Jenny Joseph? When I am eighty, I will wear purple. Thats me. Love the post , Jay.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I am old, I feel old at times. I do not get on top, it frightens the guys looking up at Fred Basset hound. Too much jowl does not a good bonk make. I eat to much, especially all the wrong things, the only exercise I get is to open the fridge door. I say things like, listen hear sonny...give me a seat on the train young man I think that music is always to bloody loud and you cant whistle to that stuff I have sensible shoes I have hair growing out of my chins It is dangerous to make me laugh if I have had a drink of water I am littered with marks left from old hormone patches. I fart without meaning too, they just fall out those suckers. I fall asleep during sex, star fish position comes naturally to me. I have a huge beer gut, and I don't even drink beer. I write complaints to my local news paper. I have taken up knitting and find it exciting. I have a library card. I bonk young men, so that when they poke me I know I am still alive. I also worry that my kids will find me dead with a smile on my face, and some poor guy in a daze at the horror of sending me to my maker by insisting on doing it twice in an hour.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I find dim lighting in the bedroom irons out a lot of flaws. ; )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    To me means not thinking old and looking after the bod in a way that gives it the capacity to keep up the my very youthful spirit.... Aches and pains sure.. A body transplant would be wonderful but not yet possible so it's exercise, healthy diet and smelling the roses, AND stoking the fires in my very passionate heart. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    what is old......when I close my eyes and stand naked in front of the mirror I am still beautiful......ohh I forgot I have no glasses on my nose.....no wonder I thought my eyes are shut. I turn around and I admire my inner beautity.......yes in my minds eyes .........hardly any wrinkles, round like a fresh apple just fallen from the tree....bite into me and you will see my sweet juices still flowing out of me, yes I have many bodily flows, but you know what................who give a fuck....I am still happy healthy and have sex. I am still enjoying my life so much......my mind is the organ which keeps me young. No way I will behave and be " good" no way I will live like I want to......I celebrate each year I am getting older...................because I AM A LIFE ...................not everybody can say that :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' I find dim lighting in the bedroom irons out a lot of flaws. ; ) does the same thing, when i give the old birthday suit a once over I am a tad kinky so does a blindfold and those black out curtains in five star hotels. If you look at my requirements you will see, must have white cane that's bdsm with a twistblind,deluded,senile,male

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    No big secret, "just a little exercise, eat right , sleep right , think right and attitude... Try , go on try , then you'll find you won't be so fkn NEGATIVE..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Loved what you had to say. It's all about that positive frame of mind and healthy outlook.. We have a choice

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    After all that you still bonk young men even though you prefer starfish.. So things can't be too bad after all... ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What does growing old gracefully mean anyway? I see it as embracing the fact that I'm aging, and not fight it kicking and screaming like I see some people do in my personal life. Bring it on! :-D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I met an 82 year old man yesterday who looked about 48. His attitude was bright, his experience of life, vast and his demeanour cheeky. I asked him what his secret was to keeping young and he said- he's never stopped working, he travels and meets new people every day, he enjoys the company of young people, he loves his kids, grand kids and great grandchildren and has not given up on life. Most importantly, he still has that twinkle in his eye, is witty, charming and surprisingly sexy. Yes, it's definitely an attitude and the good fortune and opportunity of an interesting life. Naughty - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    This can be a touchy one on here,surely Only as young as the woman you feel.xxx We gain more wisdom and know what we want and conversely What we don't! Prefer older woman with some sass and style! Than young know all ,surely like a maccas meal Quenches hunger but not satisfying!!

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Cranky in ya old age ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Well, it's working, you look amazing!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    By two males one who just had to say something and one who just had to respond as well. Poor form fellas

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Some people die at 25 and aren't buried until 75. Life, Be I It !!

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    I was cut off at the pub last night

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Post is fine... Don't be so negative..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When a guy gets old the only thing that hardens is his arteries . When a woman gets old the only squiring she does is with a garden hose. To be honest I do not have the energy for sex, even my hand rolls over and turns it's back on me. Guys message and say, hey baby what do you like in bed? I say a cup of coco and my hot water bottle. My dinner is at. 5 pm. I go to bed by 7. I can't wait for my porridge in the mornings so I make it at night. The only reason guys poke this old star fish is because it's late, the pub has refused them entry, or all the cougars at Murphys are out getting nailed in the car park, by other young studs . Or they are just poking me too see if I am still alive. Or , the odd one that pokes me because he hopes I am not alive and he can tick necrophilia off his bucket list along with his steamers ticket. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The response to no I don't want a root in five minutes time from a horney stranger. And thus was from and Old dude. "Well fuck me hey , your NO glamor queen ,the only thing you hv goin 4 u is that you hv a cunt ,if you didnt hv 1 we wouldnt even talk to u." I think this covers several forum post topics. age, screening, spelling. Thus guy covered it all. My reply was. Yes, darling you are right. But i happen to have CUNT collateral. Goes away whistling, I enjoy being a girl. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Nice to know my reply made him laugh, and now we are having a normal chat. Humour is always a good thing , especially when your closer to the pearly gates. I am working in my browny points for St Peter so he oils the hinges on those gates. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Most often, I feel and act as if I'm 17 !!! I smile and laugh a lot. I try to see the funny side of things. I like having fun. What's the harm in feeling and acting younger than your age ?You are not causing "hurt" to anybody !!! I really dislike it when people say to me "It's time you acted your age". As far as I am concerned, they can all go and get "stuffed" !!! Amy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ...it's the motto of Ulysses motorcycle club.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Exactly what I'm talking about.. Staying positive and living to your full potential..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That some will age like a fine wine.. Others.....like milk.... :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That sounds great ! Keep it up ! Exercise Eat well Sleep Positive attitude ! Couldn't have said it better myself - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Koko. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I too had a radical change when the mother of my children left, but fathering two kids 9 and 12 keeps you in tune, I help coach the footy team make big chocolate messes in the kitchen being hands on in the thick of it rather than absentee and detached like my old man, I think keeps my attitude fresh. That and Nirvana really fuckin' loud.Sexually over 50 has been a revelation, I've had more, better and more adventurous sex than the previous 30 years. A lot of that is attitude, done the breeding thing, not really interested in "proving" anything to the world anymore and don't really give a fuck what anybody thinks anymore, it's very liberating and it feels good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Beauty is only a light switch away - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'virginqueen' The response to no I don't want a root in five minutes time from a horney stranger. And thus was from and Old dude. "Well fuck me hey , your NO glamor queen ,the only thing you hv goin 4 u is that you hv a cunt ,if you didnt hv 1 we wouldnt even talk to u." I think this covers several forum post topics. age, screening, spelling. You missed abuse! Impressive. (BTW: "We"? Is he royalty?)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    was Grace anyway... Why should growing older be graceful?.... Should I wear beige and pearls with a twin set?...Charles Bukowski said. "Sexual intercourse is kicking death in the arse while singing"...Freya Mistress of the choir xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I recently turned 36 and panicked slightly when I realised I was now closer to 40 than 30 😕😯 lol But I have to say after reading the above posts I've decided to not freak and take life by the balls and enjoy myself, your only as old as the guy your feeling right? Where's all the twenty something's ?? Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Wonderful quote I read recently...... "How can I act my age?? I've never been this age before" haha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Amy ' I'm with you sweetheart.... theres no harm in being the person you feel you are... Jay.....