M46
Grrr! Why do couples think being rude is ok, just because they are couples!
September 24 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
You should have sprayed them with your come then gone home! 😛
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RHP User
11 years ago
For telling it how you felt. Your a good looking guy, I wonder why they did thatIts not like you were some old dude in a rain coat with a sunken chest, and thick glasses and whacking off yelling GERONIMO.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
I mean you were out having a bush walk, enjoying the day and playing with your pecker when a rude couple just started fucking right in front of you! So like any normal person you stop to watch. Still say you should have sprayed them with your come. Or pissed on them maybe? if you were standing back and observing in a well known dogging area I say the couple were being pretty unreasonable. Hopefully someone hosed them down to cool them off. 😀
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RHP User
11 years ago
Or did they just start without you and wouldn't play tag or twister?If you were trying to get their attention you needed to have a whistle, not just stand patiently by waving your dick,hoping that they would notice you.But I suspect some pertinent details have been left out of this scenario Bad, c'mon spill.ps bet ya get heaps of invites after this post
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Perhaps they did not want a 3 some? Perhaps they were merely wanting to enjoy one another and were unhappy with being interrupted? Have you considered that? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bad_Habit
11 years ago
Yep, it was a very well known dogging site, and no, I wasn't holding my dick in my hand.
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RHP User
11 years ago
posts like this.I keep spitting tea on my keyboard, gotta use protection !
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Bad_Habit
11 years ago
Even if they were not, interested, a polite 'no thank you' would suffice. Why be nasty. Thought about that?
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
We often get " pestered " by " single males" at parties who want and sometimes demand, a piece if the action. Some of them are bold enough to even try to open the locked door to a private room at Attunga for example . Whilst others have tried to climb over, or look over the partition. It's those guys that give all guys a bad reputation and that is why couples sometimes get fed up with the meerkats and flies. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe they were waiting for a Unicorn . GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
it is still a little unclear as to just what you said and what they were doing when you said it.I just love the porn star scene from the film Love Actually...tooo funny....somehow your story just reminded me of that..or Mimi and Zac Make a Porn Movie.And I must admit, just thinking about your interaction with this couple is making me ...well Bad I would nevah laff at you..titter politely ,just a little.Mr.Green that is what made them a little snakey perhaps...wrong horn
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RHP User
11 years ago
At dogging sites couples like to go fuck and assumedly go so that people can watch them or join in. You often get single guys lurking around pulling their pecker and watching. If they are at a discreet distance, say pissing distance, I don't think the couple can complain. Sounds like Bad was observing and hoping the couple would give him the nod to join in. Some single guys get a bit bold and try and touch the couple without an invitation or try interrupt hence the anger some couples display. I mean nothing like being lost in the moment only to open yours and instead of looking into your lovers eyes a strange cock is hovering inches from your face. 😳 Ermm.... So I have heard. Jason_Leslie the same thing has happened to me at a Sydney club.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meeks,there is a dogging site not far from where I live.I have actually had an interesting chat with a man who frequents it......I think the couple may have been rude because they were perhaps rudely interrupted OP...
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RHP User
11 years ago
For all we know, the couple in question might not know it was a well known dogging area, and just thought it was a nice secluded piece of scrub! Mooks
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RHP User
11 years ago
Could have been the grand final for all we know! But public is public no matter how secluded you think it is.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Did you tell them this before your thoughts vis this thread??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bloody fingers..... Did you say to them what you've just posted??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
WTF does this have to do with us.Mado
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RHP User
11 years ago
Couples are rude. 😛
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madotara69
11 years ago
wtf
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
Not everyone plays nice...
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are a bit puzzled with this.Do you know this couple are members of this site?If not I don't see the point of your rant unless you are just venting in general.As a couple we always try to be polite to single guys but honestly some don't take no very graciously so I can understand why some couples just snap 'fuck off'.I'm sure it's sometimes just rude people as well so your mileage may vary when tryingto join a couple 'dogging' in a public place.Good luck out there
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Bad_HabitFurther to your "outburst" above, I Leslie, would like to comment further.Firstly it would appear that you are very angry with what has happened as is evident by your choice of words and the way you put them together [ fuckheads being one example]Just because the couple, who were making love, happened to be [in your opinion] in a well known "dogging spot" does not mean that (a) they knew it was a dogging spot (b) they were wanting a single male to watch and or join in (c) they were wanting a couple to watch and or join in. The only one will will know what they really thought, and wanted, would be the couple who "chased" you off.We have been on RHP and another site SH, for several months now, and in this regard our "Profile Wording" is very specific as to what we want and what we are looking for. We have made it very clear to the "single" males, on both sites, that we are not looking for a male to join us in a 3 some, and that we are also not looking to engage in "cybersex or dirty talk or even webcam fun" with a "single" male. We have made this very clear in easy to understand English. Despite this we get dozens of unsolicited messages and private "whispers" ever day, from "single" and even "married" males, wanting to get down and dirty with us. To be honest one does get a little fed up with it as clearly these guys either cannot read, or simply lose all "reason" after looking at a photo or two and then just try their luck.When we say "NO" they bitch and moan and ask "Why" and simply dont understand that we are not interested in a 3 some with them. Possibly they dont like rejection. Possibly they think we are being nasty and personal, but at the end of the day No means No and its about our choice and what we want.We have been to Attunga around 16 times now, on a Saturday night. They have a couples only evening, once a month. All other Saturdays they allow in a small number of single males. On each and every "mixed night" we have found ourselves in a situation where I am followed to the toilets by a few single males. Some of them have been so bold as to actually come into the toilets and solicit a 3 some from me. They hang around in the passageways and then should we, and another couple be walking to one of the private rooms, then they follow us and try to get inside with us. Luckily the doors have locks, but we literally have to ask them to step out of the doorway so that we can close and lock it.On our first time at Attunga, we had a 4 some in one of the "public" rooms. Within 2 minutes there were 10 men standing around us, their dicks being thrust into our faces, whilst loudly they started directing " do this do that" , just like they do here on RHP and SH when one turns on ones webcam. For us this becomes a distraction and interruption and to be honest a bloody nuisance. We said nothing and pretended that we were not there, but eventually the other couple, who were seasoned swingers, told them to F off. We then moved to a private room which we locked, but still the "Meerkats" followed us. Because of the problem with these "single" guys, we now only go to Attunga on a night where they dont let in any single guys. Our friends feel exactly the same way about guys who cant take no as an answer and who try to push in on the action.Back to you experience with the "rude couple" . Who says that 10 minutes before you came on the scene, that they had not been "harassed" by another guy, or a few other guys ? And your arrival was thus the final "nail in the coffin" ?How did you approach them ? Did you first lurk in the bushes playing with yourself for a few minutes and then creep up on them and say " hello wanna fuck ?" Or did you walk up to them and start watching whilst at the same time "directing" and or trying to get their attention (coughing, humming, stamping your feet on the ground?) You must have done something to upset them. Have you ever thought about that ?The problem with so many "guys" on these sites and I imagine at dogging areas too, is that they assume that just because we have profiles on here, that we are loose, are sluts and are waiting with open legs, for them to come and 'fuck' and or 'root' us, and that they can wave their dicks around, and send us photos of their dicks and that we will be instantly turned into ranging nymphomaniacs, just waiting for them to service us wildly. I am not saying that ALL guys are like that, just that there are so many in here that pester us, and I am sure many others, on a daily basis and that the "few" bad ones spoil it for the genuine, polite ones.Your nickname "Bad_Habit" I suppose says it all and it may be an indication that you perhaps have a bad habit and are aware of it - whatever it may be. Perhaps next time you should try to be polite. Try not to take out your frustration, at not getting lucky, or not scoring, on the couple that turned you down. You have chosen to bring your complaint onto RHP. I can only assume that you probably feel that "all couples" are probably rude and will treat you in a bad manner. You need to remember that swinging is generally about "wife swapping" and historically its more of a couples thing that a single male thing. But singles males, do see it as an opportunity to score and get some action. That said there are of course some couples that are looking for a 3 some with another guy, but generally this is a minority. Most are looking for other couples or females. Its for this reason that generally "single" guys pay a lot more to get into a swingers club than a couple. Attunga charges $55 for a couple and $85 for a single guy . We have heard that WOW charged a single guy $350 to be let in. So there must be the perception that single guys are more of a nuisance than an asset - why else charge so much for them ?I am not being mean to you, I am merely telling you how I feel about your post, from my perspective and limited experience (we started swinging in January this year) It would have been nice if the couple who was "rude" to you were able to respond to this post and explain to you, and all of us, just what you did to offend them.I can only talk with regards my and our experience with "single" guys on this site and RHP and the majority of them have had the same attitude that you seem to have.That to me, is the main negative aspect about swinging and I know that it has chased many genuine couples away from this site and others.In closing, I do hope that you learn from this and that next time you are more tactful. Perhaps a dogging spot is not the ideal place for you. Perhaps you should rather pay $85 and go to a swingers club where your chances of getting laid, may be a bit better ?
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Fantasyplus
11 years ago
Seriously, we move to the other side of Australia and then our home town becomes interesting!!! Now I want to know where you were?If it was in the said suburb of your profile then.....I expected nothing better from the people from there, hence why we moved, they are nothing but rude arrogant pricks! Venture further up the coast, heaps of great couples on the coast, good luck :)Mrs Fantasy
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RHP User
11 years ago
but the approach can be everything, and just because people are having sex somewhere within sight doesn't mean you're invited. Always let the couple initiate, and understand that horny single guys are often a lot creepier and more intimidating then they realize.
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Bad_Habit
11 years ago
Jason_leslie I think you are seriously over analysing the situation and making HUGE assumptions. Here is the simple reason for my rant, to no one in particular I might add! Couples always complain about the rudeness of single males, but it's a hypocritical stance as there are just as many rude couples. And no, for the final time, I did not do anything that warranted the outburst I received. I may only be a single male, but I know how to behave. Your last post seems to indicate that couples are somewhat superior in your view, and that myself, as a single male, is the obviously in the wrong. Somewhat insulting don't you think?
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Bad_Habit, I was just talking from experience mate.Couples are not superior in my opinion. Its a pity that you however think that they are, or that they may be arrogant snobs.Just because we are only looking for a couple does not mean we think that we and or couples are superior in any way. Its just the way swinging is - couples are more in demand that single males. Thats the way the cookie crumbles. There is an over supply of single males, all looking for a piece of the pie.
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