F56
Guest Starring
October 22 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
exactly my thoughts too....more so for the guys joining that couple, it reeks of a 'rent a cock' scenario. The disappointing things is, going by what i read in the forums from guys, is that most are happy to take on that role. Fella's ....it's about you too ya know!To me, it's always been a three way street. Mr S
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RHP User
11 years ago
Premature posting! The final sentence should have said...... Thinking that we will be happy to come allow ourselves to be a third wheel is exactly why we turn so many offers down, and have this mythical status. Correct my if I'm wrong....but if there are three in the bed shouldn't it be equally about all three people?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Absolutely. Was just saying that in another thread.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some couples seem to think people are bending over backwards to be with them. I saw one comment a while ago where the F of the couple commented how surprised she was... She thought they were going to be inundated with offers from the women on RHP hoping to join her and her husband for threesomes. She was surprised that they were not having any luck. I just don't get that at all? Why would she think that? I know she was new to the scene and obviously here expectations were unrealistic but I still found that comment really bizarre.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I really should have asked her why she thought that... It's been bugging me ever since! 😆
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wonder if that was her experience in real life???- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can't have a tripod without the third leg... and all legs are just as important as each other!Haven't had the FMF deal yet however in the MFM deals I've been involved in we all made sure each person involved shared equal time and loving. It is only common courtesy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
agree, and I also just commented along those lines in the MFM thread. Seems to me that the belief of some couples - particularly when it comes to playing with single guys - is that it's all about them, and the other person is there simply to facilitate their pleasure, rather than being a person who deserves a pleasurable experience of their own. This comment on the MFM thread is typical of that attitude, and it bugs me: "You're the couple and he's the guest upon your invitation. Your rules at all times." Um...shouldn't everyone have a say in the rules?? Why does the guy not get to have any input at all??? I've actually taken a break from looking for couples because I'm a bit over it, to be honest. I have always had a preference to play with another single guy and girl, but that's not easy for me to find hence looking for couples instead. And I have met and played with some lovely couples who are definitely not selfish and are very considerate of the single/s' pleasure as well as their own. But couples like that are not easy to find, not where I live anyway due to the smaller population, and no swingers club or meet and greets.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The amount of time I have seen a guy write how it's all about the couple and how they feel privileged to be included... I don't get that at all. I think it must be the male vs female way of thinking about sex or something. It just raises my hackles up to even think a couple may think this way (which they probably don't) but obviously a single guy does.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ScratchyandItchy' exactly my thoughts too....more so for the guys joining that couple, it reeks of a 'rent a cock' scenario. The disappointing things is, going by what i read in the forums from guys, is that most are happy to take on that role. Fella's ....it's about you too ya know!To me, it's always been a three way street. Mr S It really bugs me when I see single guys go on about what a privilege it is to play with a couple, and that they know they are only there to please the couple and it's not about their own needs at all.....I don't know if it's because they really believe that, or they think that if they say things like that more couples will contact them....but come on guys don't be doormats!!! You deserve a say as well!!
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wingman2014
11 years ago
I understand what you are saying and that may well be the case for regular players ,but not all MFMs are the same. It has to be discussed before hand just what is the situation. Some couples invite a male to play as a treat for the lady . She is the focus . If every one is happy with that then what is the problem? Remember he has the choice to say no .- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I should put on a skirt
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madotara69
11 years ago
And that is what he was, a playmate and we worked together well, therefore Tara was very happy with us both. And we were both very happy for her. We were all pretty happy, so we did it all again and more for that matter. A work in progress.We could not have done what we done, without our playmate. The more it has to do with him, the more it has to do with us.Mado Tara xx
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
Not playmates but in a relationship, you can't really project how couples play, and mfm's should play out. As a single girl, don't you have rules you expect your playmate to abide by? There's no difference for couples, and again you girls can't talk for the single guys. It's not an even playing field for guys out there and Unicorn play is a different kettle of fish. A straight MFM experience is about 2 men working together to blow a girl's mind, FMF's are a combo of interactions... Believe me girls when it's done right guys love that guest starring role, they're not being used and they are being respected, couples lay out their terms and single guys can pipe in with theirs anytime. But when they start demanding one on one time with wives or any other request which 3rd wheels my husband they can, excuse my French, get fucked, and not in the good way. As individuals we respect people, regardless of their sex, etc. I know a pet unicorn hate is feeling like you're a gift, just being part of someone-else's fantasy etc. You are not objects. Neither are the very spunky guys who have come into our play, but girls you just can't speak for everyone here. I know you're the most prolific posters but sometimes the discussions should stay focused on the opinions of people who have the experience of whatever's the topic. So post away about being female, a third wheel etc and life as a unicorn but don't judge others until you've walked a mile in their shoes... Or heels... and I loves all of ya so don't think I'm trying to troll or start a fight.... mrsP
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RHP User
11 years ago
I most certainly have played as a couple but never to have a straight MFM. How do you become a tangled mess of sweaty bodies all giving each other pleasure in a straight MFM? I don't know why but it's never appealed to me. We aren't saying all couples MrsP, and guys insisting on one on one with the wife isn't on I that is not what the couple want. I personally still find guys saying it's all about the couple personally bizarre. I guess the thing is that alot of single women it would seem would not be happy to do that... To make it all about the husband for example.
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
Is very fun for the lady. Being respectful of the existing relationship is key to the success of the encounter but I think maybe when guys say it's about the couple they mean it's important to keep both halves of the couple feeling comfortable (emotionally). What do single guys get out of straight MFM? Guaranteed head, sex and an opportunity to shine. The people who really run all the risk of having a shit time are the husbands in an MFM or the wives in a FMF when their partners and the guest star connect without thought or consideration for their pleasure.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The reason guys take this line is simple...reinforcement from not only couples but many singles girls who constantly sprout the quote " guys are a dime a dozen, so why should I choose you?". So hence the need to conform and take the role as the invitee. I personally do not even bother with people who use such lines but still understand that I am still a guest being invited into a play situation so manners and treating the couple as a whole is required. This however does not mean that I am then treated as a second class citizen throughout the encounter...usually quite the opposite. Meet the right people and all will be fantastic...I know I have. And that's all that really needs to be said about the whole thing...simple really. Lol.
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wingman2014
11 years ago
Horses for coarses I'm sure every couple is searching for their own kink. You say a straight MFM doesn't appeal to you , fine , that's your prerogative . But when you do play I'll bet all concerned are on the same page? So every one is happy? MFM covers a lot of definitions. One couples yum is another's yuk.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
A 3suk should be just that ? 3 people regardless male or females should all share the same amount of joys :) no one deserves to be used n for the benefit of others :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
This is similar to another thread. Depends on the personalities involved too. I try to go on feel and remain unobtrusive without being passive. Usually before meeting everyone should get an idea of what the course should take in bed. Again, depends on the spirit of things. I took a lot of joy in watching another couple cum together before I did eventually. It was very sweet if my presence could heighten the experience for them on this occasion. No bullshit. Like a kind of Mary Poppins! Mr. Pop-in.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I only EVER comment on that which I know something about. If I comment it means I've experienced it personally.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
but we treat our invited guests with the utmost respect and allow them to join an equal all in experience...we never neglect our guests! In fact we pamper them, make them a major part of the threesome experience.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a couple that enjoys other couples and the occasional single we both agree everyone should be treated equally.The only the proviso with single guys is that the sheer number of them makes deciding on which one is hard work.However once we have a guy we connect with he is our guest in every way and no one leaves feeling unsatisfied (well, we do our utmost anyway).The sheer number of single guys may tempt some couples to treat them like cannon fodder but it's not our way as we prefer to play nice and it has always rewarded us 10 fold.Single ladies..well i won't hold my breathe but we keep an open mind about it.My theory is since ladies usually prefer something ongoing they are nowhere near as likely as guys to chase couples,not that there are no ladies that like a threesome with a couple just not as many as the men,like maybe 1 in 10.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A quote from the MFM Protocol forum: "You're the couple and He's the guest upon your invitation. Your rules at all times." It makes it sound the guy should be bloody thankful for being allowed to be there and should do as he's told. That just makes me shake my head. I like the term "Guest star" as it implies the third person is in a special addition. Whenever someone uses the words "Third wheel" it turns me right off. I've been contacted plenty of times by couples having lines in their profile like "My wife loves to be spoiled by another woman" or "I'd like to watch you please my husband". Once a wife wrote to me saying I could touch her but not her husband, and he would most certainly only fuck her so I'd better not get any ideas. This was a first message. Wow, such fun for me! I actually changed my profile after that. If we can't all participate equally, I'm not interested.
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RHP User
11 years ago
This has been some really good feedback as hubby and I are 'just' starting to explore the idea of inviting another man to join us. We will definitely go through the rules etc before meeting up and making sure to include the gentleman in the experience. Thank you everyone, this is why I love these forums.
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Fantasyplus
11 years ago
We have found that couples want to play but essentially only want to play with me and not Mr Fantasy....not going to happen it's all or none! My understanding of what they are using single men for is the same as "Fluffers" in porno's...they do all the prep but get no reward at the end...pretty sad really. Mrs Fantasy X
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RHP User
11 years ago
StSinner, practically perfect in every way...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think there are some couples on here who act as though playing with them is a privilege that a single guy or girl should be grateful for! Single Guys are in plentiful supply on here,unfortunately I think that they get treated as a bit of a commodity by some, i think some guys see it as the only way they get any action on here and buy into the whole "we must toe the line to get laid" party line that some couples perpetuate..... .......my that bottle of Villa Marie seems to have loosened my tongue 😉.......ahhh fuck it! So hang me for saying what I really think!- Posted from rhpmobile
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