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"Guest" male RHP Members with No Photos whatsoever !!!
November 28 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
..I have lost count of the number of 'Guest" female profiles with no pics who cannot be bothered to fill in their profiles with their own lines other than generic ones that basically say : ....' I Like going shopping, meeting friends and having coffee " ! So perhaps you are a little hasty making such an assumption that it's just males who have such profiles !.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I guess they like to window shop... well until their wives tell them there's only one place he can buy ;)
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6exxy
10 years ago
However do we need to conflict about it? It's not your taste that is ok, leave them be. There are numourus ladies with the same? I'm guessing that both men/women get some degree of attention as people are looking here. Do we have to understand? No we don't. I do concur that it would be nice to have some pic for all members. I did have someone contact me the other day and asked to see my pics. She had no pics in her profile at all. I replied happy to show you my face pics but ladies first. If I may ask? Does this make you angry?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am a guest! Why am I here? Friends, fun, interest, forums, boredom, and a lack of a real life. What do I hope to achieve? World peace, an end to poverty, and the occasional belly laugh. Do I expect other members to contact me? I would say there is no expectations, just a little hope. It does happen, I have been back here only a month and have had many first contact messages, with a few developing into ongoing conversations and who knows maybe even friendships. Have I ever contacted a guest? When I was a member, I would be more likely to contact a guest members that showed interest or interested me because I know that they can not contact me, full members have the option to use there own initiative so I was less inclined to contact them first. You sound a little peeved and frustrated OP. Dating site like RHP need to attract new members to make money, they know full well that they will not get paying customers if they did not have an option to try before you buy. They understand the guest members also provide the numbers that are needed to attract new members, so they carefully balance the amount of accessibility guest members have to keep them here. Every customer paid or guest has value to RHP, I find the guest membership more that suits my needs, even if I had the money to pay, I would remain a guest for now. Now if they suddenly denied guest members access to the forums I would shed a solitary tear, but quickly move on to the slightly less greener pastures of the site next door.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've sent first message if there are pics and they have a well written profile. If no pics and used templates to fill out everything I don't. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Too much, that they're actually real people who own them.... The other possibility is that they've taken their pics down - if they even had any - while their spending time with someone they met.... Or.... They're just cunty cunts!!! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
we would never respond to an empty (pictureless) profile, particularly if they are guests. These men need to do some research and take a look at their competition on this site....those who do give a shit and do put a picture up and pay membership to make contact.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Perhaps we should broaden the subject and take out the sex to cover all scenarios. It also baffles me OP why RHP allow such profiles because at the end of the day it's their call and shouldn't be just a numbers game. Friends have only been discussing European sotes such as RHP where the members MUST BE VERIFIED and have a factual gallery before the profile is accepted by the moderators. It may knock the numbers down but it'll raise the standard in other areas I believe. Kudos to RHP though, I joined 27mths ago and there were only 840,000 members and in 2yrs it's grown to what 2.4 million? Perhaps the Management could look to improve the experience for all others by only accepting VERIFIED memberships and charge a small fee to be here, would certainly separate the chaff from the wheat. And reduce the number of under aged, inept and dubious characters out there from bothering? Just my 2 bobs worth.....Indy On Safari
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RHP User
10 years ago
there are so many of them?? I think it is a reflection of their personality, they are dull and boring and don't care if they put a half arsed effort into the things they do.
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RHP User
10 years ago
have more than one profile ,actually be a woman,a teenager,an octogenarian,MARRIED and wifey doesn't know they are here...there are a million stories in the Naked City Amy,and this is just one. xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are the Platinum members with two lines of template profile and a couple of pics...Why not make more of an effort if you are going to pay for that?Or are you convinced that if you pay,they will come regardless of your laziness?...curious me
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RHP User
10 years ago
they might be like me, when my ex cut off financial assistance I had to prioritise. $40 a month now goes towards bills rather than membership. So it could be some cash strapped guys? On the other hand, i think everyone should be verifired, it costs nothing, and also have pics up, whether public or in private galleries.
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RedHotCoast
10 years ago
Most of those unpaid single males profiles are fakes. They are really hot chicks pretending to be fat middle aged blokes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
unfortunately... i love that there are so many male profiles with no pictures.... it just makes my profile look so much more appealing... likewise i dislike all the trillions of paid male members, you guys suck...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just assume they like to live the fantasy but aren't game to deal with the real thing for whatever reason. These members might be a different sex, married, shy, unsure about the whole adult dating thing, not physically what they say they are or want to be, etc. etc. I've never contacted a male grey ghost and I wouldn't. Men who contact me without any pics (public or private) get an instant "no thank you" response as generally I doubt they are genuine. I put myself out there and expect the same.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, I have contacted guests before if they had pics and a well-written profile ... and were active forum members.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am a guest I have considered paying a few times but get so many messages with out it and think the guy should contact me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
As I am a woman, I view male RHP Member photos. So my questions is about the male Profiles and not the women's ones. However, you are justified in asking about "female Profiles" as you have done. Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am not "peeved". I am just questioning. The topic is "Guest" male RHP Members with no photos whatsoever !!! The emphasis is on "no photos whatsoever !!!" and not on just "Guest" . I was a "Guest" myself for close to 13 months before I decided to become a "paying Member". I admit that I too, don't show my face in any of my photos on RHP but I have personal reasons for that. It is not because I'm "fugly" !!! I have met RHP Members who can attest to that !!! If I am interested in a RHP Member, I give him/her or them, my private email address where facial photos may be exchanged. In my opinion, "Guest" RHP Members of both sexes with photos will still get attention. More so than if they didn't have any photos at all !!! When I see any RHP Member Profile which has a "Grey Ghost", I do understand the need for "privacy" but I do expect their private collections to have at least a photo or two. Seeing "no photos" there as well, baffles me !!! I can only assume that these Members expect you to "like" them, just on their words alone. Unfortunately, humans are "visual" creatures. We do like to see some part of a person; preferably body and/or face !!! Blindman67, you may be a "Guest" but you do have photos. Kindest regards, Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meander explains it well for me. I tend not to bother contacting RHP Members that possess no Profile photos and no private album photos as well !!! Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
"Guest" female RHP Members with photos, have a very good chance of being contacted by the men. I say this from my previous experience as a "Guest". I became a "paying Member" so that I can be proactive !!! Now it's me that contacts the "Guests" !!! Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
When I said married I meant married but pretending to be single.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who cares? Perhaps some should be proactive enough to start their own site, with lots and lots of rules and regulations, so those that want to think and behave as free independant men and women... wont join. Just sayin ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
People hide for all sorts of reason, mostly are just curious or troll asking for you pics... I was using craigslist for a while, 99.99% are gay guys collecting pics :(
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RHP User
10 years ago
...I'm cheap.Have any female members messaged me??? ...Yep. (A couple of males too.)
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6exxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'RedHotCoast' Most of those unpaid single males profiles are fakes. They are really hot chicks pretending to be fat middle aged blokes. That's funny love it! lmao
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6exxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'amylee2000' "Guest" female RHP Members with photos, have a very good chance of being contacted by the men. I say this from my previous experience as a "Guest". I became a "paying Member" so that I can be proactive !!! Now it's me that contacts the "Guests" !!! Amy Love it, it can work because you are being the hunter now. I think it takes a bit of crafting and understanding. You can be part of the crowd yet........ stand alone. This is why I cancelled my membership. I'm not looking for half a dozen just one good one will do me fine.
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