sweetgem

sweetgem

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Gutless or too careful or simply time waster???

April 30 2013

My dear fellows, I'm interested to hear your views about the following scenario: Since I signed up, I have had several male members emailed me indicating their interest in chatting to me and asked to see my pics, BUT they didn't grant me the access to see their photos when they asked. That annoyed me to pieces! I always give access to people to view my pics when I approach them first, so it annoys me to death when people don't give the same courtesy! So, my question is, what do you think their motive is for not giving me access to see their pics when they ask for mine??? Is it because they're being careful about revealing their image because of professional reason? Or do they want to see what I look like first and then decide whether they want to continue or not??? Please note: this is only a general interest of learning yours valuable opinions, not a whinge or attack against anyone :-)

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Prob dont want you to discover the listed 8 to 9 inch penis is actually 5 to 6 :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In all honesty....it honestly could be a range of things. Some might say its due to their cocks being smaller than stated, others may say its due to their marital status. But my question is, do you honestly care why?? I doubt it. So there lay only 1 final question left...what are you willing to accept on first contact?? If you're willing to delve further into contact, then make it quite clear you expect to see their pics as well. If not, then it's simply NEXT!!!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    All of the above. Or maybe they are just pic collectors. It could also be possible that they think your profile is fake, and they want to be sure you're actually a woman. Though since your profile is verified I doubt that would be the main motive in this case.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sometimes there's an nice element in not giving too much away straight up, and I'd say some gentlemen (and gentle women too) may enjoy a request for pictures... It's a confidence booster to know someone wants more in any degree.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I don't hand out my PG until I've conversed for a while to make certain the gentleman is THAT, a gentleman. My 2 bobs worth would be that you hold back a little and ascertain if that person is right for you. I guess the men are doing similar, some may be married, others maintaining a professional persona, others just cautious. Most men end up dodging me in a shot once they see I'm actually a cross-dressing vertically challenged amophrodite with a 12" weapon. (sigh) But I live in hope. All the best OS.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    sweetgem,that this site is the haunt of the rich and infamous, also ASIO operatives,MI5 and 6. ..very important peeps hang out here....I know this because a man called Bob,yep that is his name,told me he couldn't possibly let me see a pic cos he was well known and important.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Maybe u answered it yourself OP.... They are being careful. We always ask for Pics before showing ours, and if none are forthcoming thats the end of proceedings.you should do the same and not give yr pics up to tossers.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    HAHAHA @ "important".Miss sweetgem..... I suspect you answered it when you said they want to see what you look like.And I guess thats fair enough. We like what we like.DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    to tossers all the time   so they have something to toss over

  • subgal_gc

    subgal_gc

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya77' sweetgem,that this site is the haunt of the rich and infamous, also ASIO operatives,MI5 and 6. ..very important peeps hang out here....I know this because a man called Bob,yep that is his name,told me he couldn't possibly let me see a pic cos he was well known and important. They are a dentist. We all keep getting told they can't show their faces!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'submissivegalgc' Quoting 'Freya77' sweetgem,that this site is the haunt of the rich and infamous, also ASIO operatives,MI5 and 6. ..very important peeps hang out here....I know this because a man called Bob,yep that is his name,told me he couldn't possibly let me see a pic cos he was well known and important. They are a dentist. We all keep getting told they can't show their faces!! The button to unlock the gallery pics, has fallen into the Bermuda Triangle along side with David Copperfield. or Maybe they are two-faced and confused which face to show? FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    that reminds me of visiting Sydney,TR,Meeka,and Ms.D....but he was not afraid to show his face.

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    12 years ago

    in to PG1 ... and the balance in to PG2 ... let them have access to PG 1 .. and hold the balance for after you have seen their pics ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I always believe that the person who's asking/initiating first contact should open their photos up first as a common courtesy, however some people I've met have wanted to make sure first that I'm not someone they know before they open up theirs as a precaution.Then there are always those pic collectors lurking around... :/

  • sistolu

    sistolu

    12 years ago

    I usually grant access to my PG when I first message the person I am trying to get in touch with, I don't expect to get access in return thoug and don't usually ask for it espcially at the very beginning. So it is up to them whether they want to show me their R-rated pics or not. As long as I can see Ms_Devious lips I am happy LOL

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred' to tossers all the time so they have something to toss over You are so caring and considerate TR ET xox

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'amuse_bouche' however some people I've met have wanted to make sure first that I'm not someone they know before they open up theirs as a precaution. If you are both on this site does it really matter if you know each other ? You don't have to meet but it would give you something to chat about together. Surely as adults you both could just keep it a secret between yourselves that you know, even if you work together like someone I know who is on here. ET xox

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'mikeandshel' We always ask for Pics before showing ours, and if none are forthcoming thats the end of proceedings. ...do you still share yours for a short time as a courtesy for having seen theirs or only if you like what you see ? ET xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    don't even think about our photos unless someone asks. That said we don't show photos to people that haven't got photos or haven't at least offered to show theirs in exchange.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Love those guys who have no photos and asked for yours or when you tell them your not interested and they say oh well can I see your pics anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Also hard to tell know because your profile is locked...You have been adding to the forums but you dont even have a taster shot offered, so Iwould say then in your case they want to see who they are conversing with.

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'jade63' Prob dont want you to discover the listed 8 to 9 inch penis is actually 5 to 6 :)- Posted from rhpmobile LMAO

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'sirlurkalot' In all honesty....it honestly could be a range of things. Some might say its due to their cocks being smaller than stated, others may say its due to their marital status. But my question is, do you honestly care why?? I doubt it. So there lay only 1 final question left...what are you willing to accept on first contact?? If you're willing to delve further into contact, then make it quite clear you expect to see their pics as well. If not, then it's simply NEXT!!!- Posted from rhpmobile Sir, I think you've missed my point in my question :-) It doesn't matter if I see a contact's pics right from the first email or not as long as he has a good profile and/or not attached/married, then I would further the chat. But what annoys me is when a contact asks to see my pics without revealing his at the same time. That's not a fair act especially coming from a man! So I sometimes feel like saying to members like that to MAN UP!!

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' All of the above. Or maybe they are just pic collectors. It could also be possible that they think your profile is fake, and they want to be sure you're actually a woman. Though since your profile is verified I doubt that would be the main motive in this case.       But as you realised, my profile is verified and I also have validations for people to read, so I really don't know why those men still can't show the necessary courtesy lol here is my most recent experience:I approached (sent email) a man almost a week ago with my PG opened for him to see who he was conversing with, he read my mail, checked out my profile TWICE, but no response for days. Then he replied to say he was interested to chat, but I have already revoked his access to my PG by the time he replied. So, when he responded with a yes, he asked to see my pics again without showing me his pics at the same time! And I was left blind for the whole time didn't know who I was chatting to. Therefore, I politely emailed him back to tell him that I was no longer interested.I think it's simpler to leave it and click NEXT than playing email ping pong back and forth just to see a pic! lol there is plenty of fish in the ocean, I have no time to go and find "Nemo" lol

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya77' sweetgem,that this site is the haunt of the rich and infamous, also ASIO operatives,MI5 and 6. ..very important peeps hang out here....I know this because a man called Bob,yep that is his name,told me he couldn't possibly let me see a pic cos he was well known and important. LOL

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'mikeandshel' Maybe u answered it yourself OP.... They are being careful. We always ask for Pics before showing ours, and if none are forthcoming thats the end of proceedings.you should do the same and not give yr pics up to tossers.- Posted from rhpmobile Good suggestion, I might start doing the same next time when I encounter similar experience. Though I don't mind revealing my pics first if I was the one to initiate the first contact, I would appreciate some courtesy in return. But I accept that everyone is different and it is indeed each to their own :-) So, all I can do is say "thanks, but no thanks"