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Guys, how do we know if you are into us?
December 15 2013
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Simple answer....... we're talking to you...... more than a stranger would.
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RHP User
11 years ago
So if a man talks to me he wants to get into my panties?
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RHP User
11 years ago
As most guys would simply turn up. It's apparently in how we drive the attraction. It's in our 10" cocks. It's also in the fact that we spend 8.5 days at the gym to work off that low fat muesli bar and yoghurt. It's the fact that we get dressed up, style our hair... Yeah ok... We just turn up!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
11 years ago
I mean really.... most lie anyway as many of you ladies have pointed out. In all seriousness though... THEY JUST WANT TOO FUCK, LIKE YOU AND I. If something develops further .... get a puppy We seem to forget we are on a fucking sex site. Though of late I am not so sure. You mention respect... lol....I respect who I fuck or I wouldn't go there.. They may not respect me in the morning.. but.. meh.... tra la la la.............. Flawed, 50 and Fabulous here
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was about to change my profile a little to say I would prefer to meet someone on a regular basis, FWB type thing as I am not into ONS,s. I'd rather know if a guy doesn't want to come back, if it's just another notch on his belt type meet, conversely, if he doesn't do it for me he won't be asked back,
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'll take a seat on the couch and watch with interest...
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Going to sit back and follow this one...... Because I need to know, the answers, especially to # 6... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
There are lots of posts about men being too direct eg 'wanna root', but just curious to know if there are many men who are too polite or too respectful or lack confidence to make the first move and stay in chit chat mode when messaging, where talk of sex is off limits and there is no suggestion of meeting until it feels safe enough to do so. My interest is normally shown as ongoing curiosity about the person, and wanting to know more about them, so I ask lots of questions, find points of interest to talk about and once there is a rapport and mutual interest in doing so, a meeting would flow naturally from there. By then, there is plenty to talk about at a meet, and sex likewise shouldn't be too much of a leap from the mutual interest shown.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry OP, I didn't answer your questions. Holding out? All is good for a meet first, play later, but unless I am looking for a lover, I would probably assume the interest wasnt there if it took 3 dates. The difference between a shag and a lover to me is someone you might meet up with for recreational activities versus someone who you have a personal interest in their life and their wellbeing, and want to be part of that. As for what I really want, someone I can relate to in conversation and sexually, and definately not someone I have sex with that I can not relate to.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Given they first have to wade through women's cynicism. Just once I'd really like to see a topic that is directed to men remain unanswered by women.
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RHP User
11 years ago
From a bloke... I was talking to an attractive young lass in here the other week who said that she lacked confidence and wasn't sure when guys were interested in her... Hp says the short answer is, if their heart is beating they will be interested in her !! 😍💞 I went on to say: "Hehe, I'll let you in on another "secret" ... as for "hints" to spot interested guys... Geez ! Umm "hello", "hi" or any monosyllabic grunting noise, guys standing in front of you dribbling, drooling, stuttering, or just looking goofy and tongue tied and embarrassed... Or guys who are staring nervously at upside down magazines, or their own feet (particularly if they are in the process of falling over) THATS INTEREST OK ? 😄😄💋💋 You can take that to the bank... 😉 " She later went to the supermarket with her eyes now open... And came home very excited about future possibilities... Lol. Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are we talking about how do you know if a guys is interested in you for a bit of rumpy pumpy here?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do hope she went to the fresh meat section and not the old fruit and veg bins.... Miss Kay ,you need to leave the lights on dear,then you wont have to wonder any more
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RHP User
11 years ago
Always assume it's a shag unless he tells you otherwise and when in doubt ask and take what he says at face value. He says it's casual... Then it is. This always works for me. There are guys that tell women they want more and they are interest in a relationship but then you don't hear from them. I don't know. If you are meeting lots of guys like that, I think it would be the woman attracting a certain type of car salesman dude. Or he really is interested in those things, but after the shag he decided you were not the one.
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RHP User
11 years ago
DG, that is bull. I meet plenty of married guys, colleagues, gay men and others who talk to me more than a stranger would, because I'm actually fun to have a conversation with, not because they want me naked..We're talking about how do we know a guy fancies us, not likes us.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Yes Inspirit this is a sex site it's also an adult dating site. I could pick up a random fuck everyday of the week but that's not what I'm lookind for here. I seek sexual companions, men not boys who'll enjoy me, enjoy spending time with me making love and fucking (or the odd couple I can share myself with). Ideally I want a guy I can see multiple tines and enjoy sex and outings like Neeka does with hers. Fucks are a dime a dozen here, companions are an entirely other matter! Miss Kay my approach weeds out the "fuckstix" everytime. And HP darling your description is for genuine gentlemen such as yourself seeking a deeper interest, unfortunately you lot only make up about 5% of the huge male population here. If I can comment on what I think a guy does, yes DG regular contact via message until meeting, not all sexual innuendo. doesn't use the words "fun" and "play" everytime the chat to you. when meeting they smile broadly and stand a little taller. their smiles remain, the conversation is animated, they appraise you and look you in the eye during the conversation, they look interested in what you are saying. the topics do not venture toward sex, though tou may both giggle about RHP. Coming to the end of the meet you will sense that they don't want to end the moment and more often they'll suggest another meet if you don't do it first. They'll maintain contact and actually say they liked meeting you and are looking forward to the next time. that's what I've observed anyway. if a man is interested he WILL let you know beyond the shallow "Let's have a coffee and see if we have fun or play" bullshit . I also notice the boys are being quiet on giving away their interested signals, even you "pussy whisperer". Come on guys, play fair..... (Sits up wanting to know) ~ Indy would like a "real" man.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You make it sound like a guy has to be constantly complimenting you. You have nice hair, you have nice legs, I really like the way you pick your nose..... Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ask a serious question, get a somewhat serious answer... after all tits the season to get the jollies 1. How do we know if you are into us? (I personally feel follow up dialogue and subsequent catch ups is a dead give away, same as deadly silence is just as telling) - BINGO!If we exchange numbers and I text you then I'm somewhat interested (same goes for PMs)... if I try to get you to go out for dinner/drinks then I'm very interested in you... if I kiss you then you are in trouble. 2. But prior to that, how do we know? You don't have hair to flick! LOL. - What is hair???I will stare into your eyes... some women find this a little disturbing but I love a woman's eyes and smile. So the more I like her the more I look. 3. Do we mis read you gents? Is the advertising real? Are you offering something you will never deliver on? I personally feel false promises regularly ; ( - Open book policyI never offer anything that I'm not willing to give. If I feel you want something that I'm not offering I will say so. Problem is I have a hard time with the reverse... asking is the issue. 4. Do you REALLY care if we hold out or sleep with you on the first date? Do we gain respect by waiting? Is the 3 date rule true? - No pressure... No means No with No exceptions!There are plenty of threads about shy guys an who makes the first move... I almost never make the first move out of respect, shyness and never really knowing if you are actually that into me. If you want some on the first, third or thirteenth date, I leave that decision for you and won't feel slighted if you want to hold off nor will I feel strange if you want it on the first meet. I respect the person I am with and their decisions no matter what I may want.There is the caveat that I don't like or want one night stands so this becomes a conundrum quite often but sometimes the hormones kick in and there goes actual thought... just don't be surprised if I try to get you out again because I really do like you. 5. What is it that determines the difference between a 'shag' and a 'lover'? - I don't shag.If I'm with a woman I always try to make love... nerves may get in the way and silly fumbling but it is always the same... you want to have sex with me, I want to have sex with you, and whilst there is always an element of lust (mmmmm lust) there is also passion and consideration for the other persons enjoyment and happiness and thus to me that is physical love (to be differentiated from emotional love). 6. WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU REALLY WANT????? - Read my profile.If it isn't clear enough message me and we'll talk in private
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mado.... hair flick or no? SG
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Thank you, interesting and honest....hope you don't get into to much trouble for letting out some of the secret men's business.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
So where's the difference? A guy is talking to you..... how do you know he's not interested? Guys offering answers was after all, the point of asking...... But I thank you for your ongoing interest in my comments. ;-) DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If he takes you to bed and doesnt run afterwards lol plus communication openess that helps - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's just sex man....noone's after marriage my man.. It feels good to bump uglies then bump into the door as you leave... No complications, no stresses, and no getting my credit card number :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
You and I have had lengthy discussions TRUST ME the men I am interested in also know I LOATHE meaningless compliments!! FFS I am the last woman on earth who values shallow god your sexy/beautiful bullshit!! Grrrrrr -.- seriously I know what I am and beautiful or pretty are NEVER words I would use or swoon over. And yes you cast and I bit.....fckg fisherman!! I'm me nothing more nothing less. That comment just made me effing cranky thanks mate.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
2 other words I'm not!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' So where's the difference? A guy is talking to you..... how do you know he's not interested? Ehh... Because he's happily married? Family? Gay? A patient? I'm not his type, but he likes my sense of humour? Need I go on?
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Because we're not talking about the platonic kind of 'like'.... are we. I thought that inference within the topic was pretty...... obvious. :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
How many single guy profiles in here claim to be "happily married/and not looking to change that"?!! ..... but they're still looking with 'interest'.... regardless of 'type'.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' Thank you, interesting and honest....hope you don't get into to much trouble for letting out some of the secret men's business.... - Posted from rhpmobile You don't want to see what goes on back there... it'll send you a little bit loopy. SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its really simple. On RHP: If there's continued contact and requests to meet up, INTERESTED. If there's limited contact and extended time between replies, with no effort on his part and unusually short replies, INTERESTED. If you get hardly any reply at all, MAYBE INTERESTED BUT NOT REALLY. In RealWorld(TM): (AwkwardGuy) If he is leaning toward you, he is interested. If he is pressing his lips together while you talk, and hesitates slightly before replying, he is non-confidently calculating risk factors of replies so as not to send you running, therefore interested. If he looks everywhere but at you, he is not interested.(ConfidentGuy) If he laughs at your stupid jokes and tells you stories, he is interested. If he calmly lays his hands on you in appropriate manner during conversation, he is interested. If there is a pause, and his easy smile and twinkly eyes are subtly searching yours with a non-verbal question, he is interested. If he startles when you meet, leans away from you or vomits into his hands, he is probably not interested. On the street: If he is looking in your direction, he is interested. End of line. RA
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RHP User
11 years ago
1.Cause we pester you with text,asking you to go out to dinner or just hang out!If you pay us no attention we get CrAzY LocO! 2.We look at your tit's ,bum and legs and drool ! 3.Always do your due diligence and follow your gut feelings ! 4.Would rather have a lady be comfortable and decide if she wants to go further and when.No one likes a pushie guy its such a turn off! 5.Kissing sensually and hugging after ! 6.A best mate and lover who dose not judge us and lets us live life! The views expressed in the above text are not to be held against me !
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RHP User
11 years ago
If we want the men's opinion we will give it to them. 😁
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RHP User
11 years ago
Listen to amicus... Every bloke in this place was ok before he went into the room marked SMB1... I was in there last night, would you like me to text you a pic of my cock ? 😎 One on one... For me... if you're relaxed and comfortable with me then I'd like you to be closer to me... I'll try a touch or two, to your hand, arm or the small of your back... If I'm feeling that we are in tune, I might even lean in and whisper something in your ear... maybe my lips might graze your ear as I do so... Mmmm... I find group situations a little harder to read personally... And it's a little harder to be as personal and intimate... But it's essentially the same... Failing that I just tell her that my precum has dribbled down my leg and is currently running past my knee... And that the longer we are clothed the less there will be for her to enjoy... 😛 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
#6 for me is simple honesty with a true open mind to what I want... I want a coffee buddy for just coffee n chats I want a fuk buddy for g u know what for I want a friend that doesn't want anything other then the above no bull shit no hassle just the above I want the coffee buddy to be my fuck buddy n a friend Yet that seems all way 2 hard lol Anyway she knows how she is n yes she is on here in the forums now ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Cuffs n twist of kink ;),,
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Chillymofo
11 years ago
1. How do we know if you are into us? (I personally feel follow up dialogue and subsequent catch ups is a dead give away, same as deadly silence is just as telling)We will be interested in what you say, our attention will be devoted to you 2. But prior to that, how do we know? You don't have hair to flick! LOL.You dont know - thats half the fun - finding out! 3. Do we mis read you gents? Is the advertising real? Are you offering something you will never deliver on? I personally feel false promises regularly ; (Wrong blokes - there are some nice blokes out there! 4. Do you REALLY care if we hold out or sleep with you on the first date? Do we gain respect by waiting? Is the 3 date rule true?Absolutely - if you just want a notch on the belt yourself, then sleep on first date. If you want to sift the players from the stayers - hold off for a few dates - the players will piss off when they realise they have to put effort in. 5. What is it that determines the difference between a 'shag' and a 'lover'?As above - shag is on the first night - a lover has taken the time to get to know you first, and is planning the first time to be awesome! Yes, the first time, as in their heads it will be amazing, and they will want more. Make it too easy for the blokes and they move on, just another shag, you want a lover, then make them wait! 6. WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU REALLY WANT?????Believe it or not, most of the time, we want the same thing as you ladies do!Its just that you ladies are so damn difficult to work out
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madotara69
11 years ago
I may give my hair a little flick, for the animated slow motion scene (special effects) to enhance the state of dreaminess attraction. The knight in shinning armour, to amuse a playful dame in distress, to the feel nothing other than rescued. I feel that may help Indi, to see that in order for a lady to feel comfortable to the point of battering the eyelids, a cheeky smile, a slight lift to the breasts, rising to the ball of the foot and pouting the lips. It is likely a better chance that being a reality, if the bloke sees himself as an object in playful courting. Then the lady may feel less to being treated as an object, more to playing the distressed dame and that is a look.......unmistakable for those dreamy moments. Very much interested and sooner than better (Whatever fashion) the want to have a root, and express her animated thoughts towards the dream sex is supposed to be. The object, playful and friendly is expressed through and received by smiling eyes. (there is a lot more animations for dreams to the reality with love though) this is just about attractions, and honouring the few Romeos that are talking about rooting, not plain old boring meaningless sex. All for one and one for all, good chaps. Mado Mado Taraxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I joint RHP to skip the so called bullshit of a dating site... If I'm not attracted to you or you work within minutes of my work no I won't respond to your constant flirts or messages.. I like to meet talk a little and get down to business if I have felt some sort of chemistry with a person .. I'm definatly not attracted to a gym junkie or a hairless man (have to say thou I liked shaved pubs hate pulling hair off my tongue while giving head) I'm not counting on finding my Prince Charming on rhp but hoping to have some bloody enjoyable sex :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Wild song If we want the men's opinion we will give it to them. 😁 It's MissKay that's asking?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'luvitruf' 4. Do you REALLY care if we hold out or sleep with you on the first date? Do we gain respect by waiting? Is the 3 date rule true?Absolutely - if you just want a notch on the belt yourself, then sleep on first date. If you want to sift the players from the stayers - hold off for a few dates - the players will piss off when they realise they have to put effort in. 5. What is it that determines the difference between a 'shag' and a 'lover'?As above - shag is on the first night - a lover has taken the time to get to know you first, and is planning the first time to be awesome! Yes, the first time, as in their heads it will be amazing, and they will want more. Make it too easy for the blokes and they move on, just another shag, you want a lover, then make them wait! What a load of codswallop and ridiculous perpetuation of gender stereotypes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' From a bloke... I was talking to an attractive young lass in here the other week who said that she lacked confidence and wasn't sure when guys were interested in her... Hp says the short answer is, if their heart is beating they will be interested in her !! 😍💞 I went on to say: "Hehe, I'll let you in on another "secret" ... as for "hints" to spot interested guys... Geez ! Umm "hello", "hi" or any monosyllabic grunting noise, guys standing in front of you dribbling, drooling, stuttering, or just looking goofy and tongue tied and embarrassed... Or guys who are staring nervously at upside down magazines, or their own feet (particularly if they are in the process of falling over) THATS INTEREST OK ? 😄😄💋💋 You can take that to the bank... 😉 " She later went to the supermarket with her eyes now open... And came home very excited about future possibilities... Lol. Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... There are plenty of guys who are just like that naturally though, how can I tell the dumb from the dumbstruck?
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madotara69
11 years ago
Dame being Damsel, respectively if there is differences in question.
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RHP User
11 years ago
1.Most of the time the hard on is a dead give away. 2. We fidget and get sweaty palms. 3. No delivery mmmm don't promise what you can't give 4.this rule went out in the last shower, however holding out is hot as it adds to the spice. 5. Shag is one off, lover is regular. 6. I like sex and also like to make friends who are on my level. This site is or was a swingers site so meeting new like minded people is what I want. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wild song, I wasn't being cynical... I really am a bit clueless about such things usually and am interested in the men's response... It comes from being in a relationship for so long... I was monogamous for 19yrs and you really do close yourself off to any advances when you're in that space. I'm getting better over time but still can be unaware. I was so surprised that a man kissed me a little while ago that I blushed like a schoolgirl and couldn't speak for a whole...5 seconds at least 😊 A 42 yo innocent!! Gawd!!
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Awesome71' Wild song, I wasn't being cynical... I really am a bit clueless about such things usually and am interested in the men's response... It comes from being in a relationship for so long... I was monogamous for 19yrs and you really do close yourself off to any advances when you're in that space. I'm getting better over time but still can be unaware. I was so surprised that a man kissed me a little while ago that I blushed like a schoolgirl and couldn't speak for a whole...5 seconds at least 😊 A 42 yo innocent!! Gawd!! Started thinking it a forgotten thing, all that complication that can be discussed during a simpler for words, kiss.
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Violetincredible
11 years ago
I don't know if this will offend anyone... But I just go on this site to pick up... I don't actually worry about if the guy is into me or not. In fact if he does appear to be too into me after sex I run and stop responding. the thought of a relationship scares me... If you are asking if a guy is into you for sex... I guess he is if he responds to my message lol :D Xxviolet
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RHP User
11 years ago
1) Follow up,Msgs/Texts/Conversation. If I'm keen and dont hear back from you for a couple of days I'll try to make contact, if i dont hear back again I'll move on, nothing worse than being labelled a stalker. 2) Conversation and Contact. If I'm interested I'll ask questions about you and not talk about me. I'll also make innocent/incidental contact to see how you react. :P 3)PLLLLLEEEEASE. The ratio on here is so skewed its not funny. Once you get past the BS artists, time wasters and fakes the real number of single females would be maybe 20%(max) of those registered. Then you have to deal with the cold feet. Talk to someone for a while before you meet them, but then try to make the first meet short notice/spontaneous. 4)No. Definitely not. Is anyone actually looking for a virgin or claiming innocence on this site? I'd much rather meet someone that was confident and knew what they wanted. Especially if previous messages have been erotic or sexual in nature. There are always going to be times when the chemistry is missing and you walk away, or the meet has been pre organised in a public place as just a chat and drinks. If you're keen make sure I know before we say goodbye, or get in contact asap (a msg after the meet isnt needy, its honest). If we talk about sex online or via text and the subject isnt broached face to face, i'll assume you are not interested. 5)Shag/FB is someone you're attracted to and have fun with, but wouldnt meet out socially. A lover is someone you could see yourself having a relationship with. A shag can become a lover under the right circumstances. 6) I'll let you know when I do.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When a guy calls you hot, he's looking at your body. When a guy calls you pretty he's looking at your face. When a guy calls you beautiful he's looking at your heart All three want to fuck you though.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A kiss... Just says it sometimes, no need for all those silly ... Words (it wasn't even a toungy! Just a nice firm, lingering kiss on the lips, I really did nearly faint!! Such intent in that kiss.)
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' What a load of codswallop and ridiculous perpetuation of gender stereotypes. I was thinking same... but then... Im starting to think that I know what he's trying to say .... he just didnt take the necessary time to say it how he wanted to.
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Missb4u
11 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' Failing that I just tell her that my precum has dribbled down my leg and is currently running past my knee... And that the longer we are clothed the less there will be for her to enjoy... 😛 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... love this...LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are all the bloody same.... This is based on my experience only so if I say anything you don't agree with please don't crawl up my ass and get all mad. Men are conquest creatures.....in the world of manhood we have a saying" gotta slay a lot of dragons before you get to the princess" this could mean...we gotta fuck a lot of fat chicks to get to the one we want....this is true because we need to make sure our sexual game is tight and solid so that when a lady we really want comes along (big or small) we have to make sure we can fuck like champions in order to see the lady again.... What I have found is that women do not like giving away the pussy for something that's going to be mediocre....women want a hard cock a good fuck session and then a lovely cuddle afterwards....women never like on night stands because the feel cheap afterwards.....this is something that I always struggle with....what is the big deal? I give you cock you give me pussy its a fair trade....the problem is that the womans repuatation is at stake....if she fucks around she's a slut....if she fucks select few she's a decent lady....I personally belive that is all fucking bullshit... What I have always thought is that pussy and cock can only come together on a case by case basis....you cannot ask what men want because we all want different things....
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Is a lovely trick designed by nature to fill the void when speech becomes superflous. And yes HP rhat made me giggle too. Lover often complains of precum soaking through his pants when I sext him and he's at work ..... I luuuuurve a glistening man!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am into you if I take the time out of my busy schedule toes sage you to initiate contact. I am into you if we meet and I stumble my words. I am into you if you leave me with a hard on with the anticipation of taking things further. I am into you if I keep making eye contact when talking at that first meet. I am into you if I organize a second meet. I am into you if I truly do try to make a effort to keep you interested in me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' So if a man talks to me he wants to get into my panties? In the last 6 month, I have read a lot of profiles and wrote to too many which matched what they wanted and I wanted.From that too many, I have have a few answers, leading to a few chats, 4 meets and 2 sex sessions.I don't really believe that there are people interested in genuine people.What I understood from ladies in this website is that: You must be tall (taller than what? anyway more than 6ft, why? who knows)You must be rich!!!Handsome,Having ABS is a MUST, but they mostly say we are proud with what we are!!!I got a list to write but I let other people write it down.Sick of writing and getting nowhere. LOL
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Thank you lol, I think I'm beginning to understand more.....lol 💋💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
Message me and I'll tell you straight up! Isn't that what we all want? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
lol it can also be a precursor to an AVO ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If the profile does not have what I'm looking for then I just don't bother, if it does and my spidey senses tell me it's worth it then I'm into it and it's pretty obvious. Talking is the key engage the mind and everything else falls into place, if I'm not talking to you I'm not interested. S&T - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Reggie010' I joint RHP to skip the so called bullshit of a dating site... If I'm not attracted to you or you work within minutes of my work no I won't respond to your constant flirts or messages.. I like to meet talk a little and get down to business if I have felt some sort of chemistry with a person .. I'm definatly not attracted to a gym junkie or a hairless man (have to say thou I liked shaved pubs hate pulling hair off my tongue while giving head) I'm not counting on finding my Prince Charming on rhp but hoping to have some bloody enjoyable sex :) - Posted from rhpmobile If not your prince charming, then what is it, this chemistry? Surely a sense of adventure for it to be bloody enjoyable sex. Whatever it may be, fantasy plays a big part with what sex means to us. Isn't the fantasy what we find in others attractive, the chemistry taking us to la la land and blurring sense of logic, all so we can have some imagination be part of something real for a moment. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Where not all the same and some people just don't know how to be real! Some live in the fantasy that porn movies are real or that a smile is an invite to stalk you ! Women have to know what they want to really have a good judgement in the person they are trying to read, otherwise you end up second guessing yourself and missing the real answer! Me , I just want to have a good time and if a connection is really there you both feel it !(that corner of you mouth you feel when your really smiling!) Games are for liars and superiority Complexes ! Life's a lot easier with truth! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Chillymofo
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Luckdragon23' What a load of codswallop and ridiculous perpetuation of gender stereotypes. I was thinking same... but then... Im starting to think that I know what he's trying to say .... he just didnt take the necessary time to say it how he wanted to. My case in point - Read what Bartender has mentioned!It is NOT a stereotype.There are a HEAP of guys out there who are interested in "Dicking Chicks"No romance, no dates, minimal talking just the quickest line to your knickers- its just about the conquest!These guys will not waste their time on a date let alone 3 of them - so if you want to filter and minimise exposure to the players - yes hold outIf you want a fuck - then go for it! Luckdragon - if you really think i am stereotyping, then thats your call!All i know is what i see and hear, and believe me, you get a group of players together, and they are NOT reminiscing on how cool the chicks were!
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RHP User
11 years ago
A guy will do anything fir a girl they truely want to keep.
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inspirit
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Are we talking about how do you know if a guys is interested in you for a bit of rumpy pumpy here? I thought I answered it willingly BUT....if he says ello wanna fuk then I am sure he is ....RIGHT
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inspirit
11 years ago
if he is 6"s in.. I would say he is is into you
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. How do we know if you are into us? I Don't know about other guys ... Pre Meet via email. If I email a few times after seeing pics I want to meet!! In a meet, if I'm interested in the woman. Intense eye contact, I rarely talk about myself tell a few stories more report building focusing on what they enjoy talking about. Challenging, teasing, smirking, leaning backwards. & most importantly I WILL TOUCH YOU!! If I'm not interested, I'll just talk about myself - at least then you wont be interested either. 4. Do you REALLY care if we hold out or sleep with you on the first date? Do we gain respect by waiting? Is the 3 date rule true? I definitely feel stronger, become more invested towards girls that make me wait... Unfortunately the reverse is not true. I've made a habit of getting girls to bed same night, first, second date. My ex-wife of 10 years second date. Not once have I ever slept with someone after the 3 date. Usually because the girl becomes less interested due to my confusion, not sure what role to play, am pushing harder or moving slower, I start to become indecisive, knowing that past experience tells me this aint going to happen... Not very attractive. 5. What is it that determines the difference between a 'shag' and a 'lover'? You seem them multiple times.... Always looking for a lover will settle for a shag
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' Going to sit back and follow this one...... Because I need to know, the answers, especially to # 6... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Unrushed1' All is good for a meet first, play later, but unless I am looking for a lover, I would probably assume the interest wasnt there if it took 3 dates. Interesting indeed, and I'm liable to agree, I'm the type that meets you, shags you and moves in next Wednesday. Don't freak, I'm not a bunny boiler, if it clicks, it clicks. I'm there on your invitation.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ask !! Communication!! Talk ok get that cock out of your mouth ladies !!! Now talk!! Remember the answer is easy !! It is the question that most often is the most difficult to ask!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Amicus75' Ask a serious question, get a somewhat serious answer... after all tits the season to get the jollies 1. How do we know if you are into us? (I personally feel follow up dialogue and subsequent catch ups is a dead give away, same as deadly silence is just as telling) - BINGO!If we exchange numbers and I text you then I'm somewhat interested (same goes for PMs)... if I try to get you to go out for dinner/drinks then I'm very interested in you... if I kiss you then you are in trouble. 2. But prior to that, how do we know? You don't have hair to flick! LOL. - What is hair???I will stare into your eyes... some women find this a little disturbing but I love a woman's eyes and smile. So the more I like her the more I look. 3. Do we mis read you gents? Is the advertising real? Are you offering something you will never deliver on? I personally feel false promises regularly ; ( - Open book policyI never offer anything that I'm not willing to give. If I feel you want something that I'm not offering I will say so. Problem is I have a hard time with the reverse... asking is the issue. 4. Do you REALLY care if we hold out or sleep with you on the first date? Do we gain respect by waiting? Is the 3 date rule true? - No pressure... No means No with No exceptions!There are plenty of threads about shy guys an who makes the first move... I almost never make the first move out of respect, shyness and never really knowing if you are actually that into me. If you want some on the first, third or thirteenth date, I leave that decision for you and won't feel slighted if you want to hold off nor will I feel strange if you want it on the first meet. I respect the person I am with and their decisions no matter what I may want.There is the caveat that I don't like or want one night stands so this becomes a conundrum quite often but sometimes the hormones kick in and there goes actual thought... just don't be surprised if I try to get you out again because I really do like you. 5. What is it that determines the difference between a 'shag' and a 'lover'? - I don't shag.If I'm with a woman I always try to make love... nerves may get in the way and silly fumbling but it is always the same... you want to have sex with me, I want to have sex with you, and whilst there is always an element of lust (mmmmm lust) there is also passion and consideration for the other persons enjoyment and happiness and thus to me that is physical love (to be differentiated from emotional love). 6. WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU REALLY WANT????? - Read my profile.If it isn't clear enough message me and we'll talk in private Thank you for your well thought out and balanced response, I really appreciated it. Hope you're not excluded from the man club now due to divulging secrets. Your response to #4 made me think, your response to #6 made I larf!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Warning69' #6 for me is simple honesty with a true open mind to what I want... I want a coffee buddy for just coffee n chats I want a fuk buddy for g u know what for I want a friend that doesn't want anything other then the above no bull shit no hassle just the above I want the coffee buddy to be my fuck buddy n a friend Yet that seems all way 2 hard Don't forget your laughter buddy too....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' if he is 6"s in.. I would say he is is into you I just spat wine EVERYWHERE. What a waste...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' Listen to amicus... Failing that I just tell her that my precum has dribbled down my leg and is currently running past my knee... And that the longer we are clothed the less there will be for her to enjoy... 😛 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... An approach is an approach, it might work? How's it working for you so far? Not sure how I'd react to that yet? But knot ruling it out HP - Because you're worth it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
easy.... if its me, i'll be the one wearing the neon sign that says 'into you'....at least, i would be...if it didnt already say..'into my wife'.... I tell a gal, very plainly, and show her,clearly, what my intentions are, Shel 'got it' very early days, and still gets it...daily.... no misunderstandings here, they only lead to disappointments...
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inspirit
11 years ago
Quoting 'MissKay' Quoting 'inspirit' if he is 6"s in.. I would say he is is into you I just spat wine EVERYWHERE. What a waste... I do try too be serious.....really I do.
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RHP User
11 years ago
RIGHT ON THE MO..MO...MONEY respect is always given in the mornings, if I catch you going down on me before I get to go down on you Quoting 'inspirit' I mean really.... most lie anyway as many of you ladies have pointed out. In all seriousness though... THEY JUST WANT TOO FUCK, LIKE YOU AND I. If something develops further .... get a puppy We seem to forget we are on a fucking sex site. Though of late I am not so sure. You mention respect... lol....I respect who I fuck or I wouldn't go there.. They may not respect me in the morning.. but.. meh.... tra la la la.............. Flawed, 50 and Fabulous here
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sungf1t
11 years ago
1. Some guys will try an hold your attention so your focus is on him an you slowly forget about who else is around. Others may go the polite way about things, ( get you another drink etc) but this can also be mistaken as he is just generally like this. He'll tend to show his interests towards you when comfortable.. If your getting along better than you thought it's a good sign that he's interested an will show it by making sure he's either sitting next to you or will slip between people to be next to you to carry on where you left off..a guy will reply the next day if he's really interested an thank ya for a great time then usually an lead with a follow up..unless your the type of women that will ride him that nite an make your intentions clear. 3. Haha we are always offering an sometimes is just to have your attention an nothing else our advertising only becomes real if you take us seriously or through some sort of connection 4. Not all guys care if you wait if we've come this far we know it's gona be good.. Or bloody well better be as it's like sealing the deal..you've meet a good women an she's great in bed..bang!!! Happy man.. If is dead n the bed he could lose interest..as for the 3 date rule it better be good sex!! 5. A shag is spontaneous hot sex that leaves you breath less an is good for something casual.. A lover is more emotional based ,deep feelings of lust an passion an connect on a deeper level.. 6. Ha we want a women that is perfect for us! For me i believe in being equal it should be easy like good mates have each other's backs..it just works.. Phew You may now pick it to pieces lady's ....
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RHP User
11 years ago
They want a nice easy going woman who will not give them a hard time, who will let them watch sport and go out with their mates occasionally without complaining, they want sex most days and maybe anal sex on a Sunday and a few beers. Easy!
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I like your uptake on #6, and makes complete sense to me....💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Wnt2tango' .as for the 3 date rule it better be good sex!! Yes it better be!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Although there are some blokes who like some of the more intimate/emotional aspects of a m/f "relationship" whether that is a fb, fwb, etc.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your hair will curl and toes will stand on end.
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madotara69
11 years ago
At least you won't get a hemorrhoid thrown at you, for that piece of information, or notion suggested. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well said and I agree wholeheartedly - have shagged maybe twice in my life - felt bad on the way home both times...
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zoe69r
11 years ago
im probably going to b laughed at here but I would prefer not to shag on the 1st or 2nd date would rather know the person , and wots in there brain not just wots btween ther legs , we can both find that out later . as for what do I want sum1 who is open and honest with me and not bullshitting me everyday as im finding things out from my mums x about how much deep shit she is really in and the fucwit she is with now has vro out against him from his x and she is still with him . oh well her stupidity
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