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June 25 2014

Men, how do women rate when giving a handjob? I have heard a few stories that women can often be a little overeager and too harsh in this department. Any horror stories, or maybe the best handy ever?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I personaly do like a woman to take mix it up a bit but at the same time not think she is at a f1 or melbourne cup day. Caring for the nob more than the shaft and not trying to choke or want to rip it out as most women seen too do.

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    11 years ago

    I've lost skin from overenthusiastic handjobs in the past! Bloody hell, some girls seem to take inspiration from the paint shakers at Bunnings! A LITTLE bit of speeding up before the money shot is cool, though.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I thought you were supposed to choke that chicken till it spewed?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've only had one girl give me a hand job better then I give myself :) the rest have been good but she was stand out ;),,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Not many females give good handjobs.. There are the exceptions though. Just as you females baulk at a guy attacking your pussy at speed, us guys are the same. The female who takes the time to make love to a erected cock wins hands down.. Tip.. dont grab onto it and assault it.. stroke it lightly all over , specially the glands around the head. Think about how you liked to be stroked yourself.. we might like it harder and faster at some time but we will tell you when.. No big secret really.. just understanding

  • Tart_Du_Jour

    Tart_Du_Jour

    11 years ago

    I thought you were supposed to remove it at the base so you can study it for a later date? I am clearly wrong :(

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    I have been told mine are exceptional

  • spaparty

    spaparty

    11 years ago

    when someone else gives you a hand . they need to know speed and pressure to get it just right .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have heard that you need to spit on it and call it dirty names. Is that true?

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    11 years ago

    I could give you some assistance with that.

  • HereToPlease77

    HereToPlease77

    11 years ago

    Any girl willing to give me one, I'll tell her she's exceptional too....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You can spit on it, bite it as much as you want. Just as long as it still works. LOL.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' I have been told mine are exceptional Now if a fella said similar about his oral skills he'd get shouted down with a heavy dose of "all guys say that". :P

  • Bendigoman

    Bendigoman

    11 years ago

    Have always found it to be beneficial to tell the lady how I like it, I also listen to what I am told when reciprocating

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I have heard that you need to spit on it and call it dirty names. Is that true? Only if it spits in your eye firstET xox

  • Way2go70

    Way2go70

    11 years ago

    Hahahaha Meeka, Be careful tho... It just might spit back lol

  • Way2go70

    Way2go70

    11 years ago

    Seriously tho, if God had intended for us to not play with it he would have put it in the middle of our backs.. Mind you I'd have still found a way to reach it lol.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yep that works for me !! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • CaptMoonlite

    CaptMoonlite

    11 years ago

    You certainly need to speak to him.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    correct, alternately an aggressive grip, use nails.... if all else fails a dry mouth should do the trick...

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    11 years ago

    Just listen to the noises to know if your doing it right. And yes, Meeka to an extent too true.

  • Dryphuz

    Dryphuz

    11 years ago

    and she was already good at it, so i cant give any pointers except do what she was doing which i cant really describe... Basically don't choke it, dont go too fast and a little lube goes a long way...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Way2go70' Seriously tho, if God had intended for us to not play with it he would have put it in the middle of our backs.. Mind you I'd have still found a way to reach it lol....... I think some guys think it is located in the middle of their forehead

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'SaveFerris73' Quoting 'Missb72' I have been told mine are exceptional Now if a fella said similar about his oral skills he'd get shouted down with a heavy dose of "all guys say that". :P yes he would and they do in forums regularly...so shout me down...but I stand by my statement...I didn't say mine are exceptional, I said I have been told mine are exceptional...LOLI think if you really love doing something that shines through and makes it so much better.I also follow instructions well and am fluent in the male moan and groan language.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Could never understand this.? Surely its not for lubrication cause in my experience it drys after a few strokes ? But it looks good.. Maybe thats it ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yeah one of my ex's was always way too eager and rough!! Thought that she would cause some damage but all good haha ;). Always use a bit of lube or spit always good ha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • spaparty

    spaparty

    11 years ago

    offer for Missb

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have used spit but yes Jay_Me, spit dries out pretty quickly. Try a lube or massage oil. I have found that going nice - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm told that going nice and slow is good for him. He likes the head of it played with ever so gently. I treat it how I want my clit treated. He seems to enjoy it and it prolongs his erection, and at times I think he orgasms without ejaculating, if that is possible but it sure is arousing to watch his reactions and what my hands can do :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What woman doesn't love giving a hand job,we are very good at multi-tasking it frees up time to also read a good book:-) xQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Treating it with tender loving care will result in a larger fatter erection and for the male more ejaculate. No different to stroking your clit , steady as it goes.. Your accurate description was spot on.... gave me movement, so must say something.. lol. And you're right, a male can orgasm without ejaculate if done right..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I absolutely love hand jobs especially if the woman really shows my cock lots of attention by using both hands and her boobs. I do believe you need to tell her what you like so you can both really enjoy it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Plenty of variation for me change hands ,boobs all options,probably mundane for the ladies But there is a surprise at the end,it's like rubbing a lamp but no 3 wishes lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    that's also what i thought....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    don't want to have him crying like a mummies boy about it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That comment was so cold. .. ? I luv a woman who can give a nice handjob... If any woman attacked my cock like a peice of meat that needed tenderising , I'd remove her hand and let her know she has no idea what she's doing. THAT ' is not crying. That is educating.. Bottom line is : If you are patient enough and care enough to give as well as receive. You wouldnt think like that. Nice pic btw..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me' That comment was so cold. .. ? I luv a woman who can give a nice handjob... If any woman attacked my cock like a peice of meat that needed tenderising , I'd remove her hand and let her know she has no idea what she's doing. THAT ' is not crying. That is educating.. Bottom line is : If you are patient enough and care enough to give as well as receive. You wouldnt think like that. Nice pic btw.. Get it??? so many serious men on here!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I thought you were supposed to choke that chicken till it spewed? Yup!!!! it seems balls have been forgotten - the balls ladies - don't forget the balls, you have 2 hands , may as well keep 'em both busy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'tulips4u' I'm told that going nice and slow is good for him. He likes the head of it played with ever so gently. I treat it how I want my clit treated. He seems to enjoy it and it prolongs his erection, and at times I think he orgasms without ejaculating, if that is possible but it sure is arousing to watch his reactions and what my hands can do :) - Posted from rhpmobile Tulips is definitely right, don't be eager from the get go, close to ejaculation go for your life but ease into it and mix up the technique as you go.

  • Tart_Du_Jour

    Tart_Du_Jour

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' correct, alternately an aggressive grip, use nails.... if all else fails a dry mouth should do the trick... Sometimes I like to put some course sand in the palm of my hand as well. Gives it that nice gritty feeling. And I always make sure to wipe the inside of my mouth with a tissue if the need calls for it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Was it ? I didn't think of it in any other way than the way it came across.. Besides, I agree, better to do it yourself than put up with a bad one. After all, no one knows our bodies like we do our own. Mel babe... I don't take anything too serious on here.. just pass comment.. Cheers..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Look...im not going to say woman are Crap at it as it similar to a man doing the same to a woman, we all know how to exactly please ourselves and hit that spot so for a complete stranger at times to get it right I think we are asking to much. Having said that, a lot of times I have been cut off at the finish line I think by over excitement on the lady's behalf...don't choke it when we are about to cum, relax your grip a tiny bit and let it all flow out... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • licknsuck181

    licknsuck181

    10 years ago

    To me it's the same as a guy going down on a lady, we all do things differently. The best thing is to tell each other what you like. For a handjob why would you put up,with it cutting off circulation is you loved a feather like touch. I've had some really awesome hj with lovely women and it's all about pleasuring who your with.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    spitting on it and talking to it dirty helps a wee bit ;) ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    As the song goes .. You should either suck it, fuck it, or leave it alone. You just cannot do it like we can on our own. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have had some good ones and some really bad ones. I think the key for me is good lubrication and pressure on the head. The one of the bes lubes I have found has been spit, i also find it very sexy :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Seriously do grown men get handjobs? Maybe on a trip to Thailand? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The important thing is she enjoying it,thats the turn on for me and yes dont forget the balls :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    tulips hit it! Lube takes it to a whole 'nother level! She's got the action right, too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When there are so many holes i make available 😝😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    hi yes some woman now how to hand job some are eager most start off slow they now , some grab it hard and quick is good they now when u about to blow . they love to see u explode ....no complaints from both parties

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    you f##king kidding? you have a lady's hand on your cock and you are COMPLAINING? Hey - hurt me, rub me raw, twirl the end and roll me in flour - just keep your hand right there...!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Nice and slow is how you girls should do it - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For those Hetero Men out there that believe the back door is "Out Only", open your sphincter and your mind. If you think you've had good handjobs / blowjobs before, Louise showed me that "you ain't seen nothing yet".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    nothing better getting hand job from a woman ....using sex toy up annul and hand job same time I love it ...you want to try it nothing better than using toys and hand job same time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Consistency is key for me, just the right firmness but consistent speed will make me explode, not many are good at it but have had a few!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yep, I love it that way....release at the right time and its one awesome feeling ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'tulips4u' I have used spit but yes Jay_Me, spit dries out pretty quickly. Try a lube or massage oil. I have found that going nice - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Love to get a handjob of you tart_Du_Jour - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me' Not many females give good handjobs.. There are the exceptions though. Just as you females baulk at a guy attacking your pussy at speed, us guys are the same. The female who takes the time to make love to a erected cock wins hands down.. Tip.. dont grab onto it and assault it.. stroke it lightly all over , specially the glands around the head. Think about how you liked to be stroked yourself.. we might like it harder and faster at some time but we will tell you when.. No big secret really.. just understanding Ive always thought that how a guy treats you is how you treat the guy, so if he touches me lightly then he likes to be touched that way. It is about understanding and a good lover is one that listens and learns from what the other is doing. Their is no secret to a good hand job, every guys likes different things, same with BJ's

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Gulliver111' Seriously do grown men get handjobs? Maybe on a trip to Thailand? - Posted from rhpmobile Its always nice to have lots of different foreplay experiences, and when in public mmmmmmmmmmm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My first handjob left me scarred, both physically and emotionally lol but on the other hand, so to speak, I've had better handies from girls then I give myself - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The secret is movement has to come from the wrist, not the elbow!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Best to communicate what works for you. I've had guys who like it REALLY vigorous, others who like it the opposite... And all the in-betweens. If you're not inside that body how can you know? Nobody can read another persons mind can they folks? ;-))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    All I can say is don't be a shy guy, be prepared to tell the lady who obviously wants to yank your crank how you like it. Like guys if you like it rough let her know, communication Always leads to mutual satisfaction. Even if the only words you mention are this won't take long , did it! May the strength Always be in your drinking arm - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'zappeddancer' Quoting 'Gulliver111' Seriously do grown men get handjobs? Maybe on a trip to Thailand? - Posted from rhpmobile Its always nice to have lots of different foreplay experiences, and when in public mmmmmmmmmmm I knew there was a reason I liked you Dancing Girl...the hj is perfect when you're out and about. Thanks for reminding me of some very sexy train rides. I've also been lucky enough to have an expert show me what could be done with oil and both hands. We're talking massage here so there's more techniques to this that just pump and squirt.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    …But just as a woman knows best how to wield a vibrator on herself, I think a man is best qualified to handle himself.Despite their best intentions, ladies are often a little rough in this department!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Havong moist hands as well as holdong the balls with the other hand helps with his excitement.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My wife gives an amazing handjob. When i am close she quickens the pace but only uses her thumb and forefinger on my shaft only.She also licks,bites and sucks one of my nipples as well. She has given me some of the most mind blowing orgasms this way. Almost to the point of me passing out. My body stiffens as a rush of heat flows right through me as i let out completely involuntary moans and groans. She has had me so close to having a second orgasm just as the first starts to subside on most occasions.She is an amazing woman. Its that good i almost feel guilty not sharing her. Ok. Well she is that good i want to show her off.Why should i have all the fun????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I've never had a complaint about giving hand ;) quite the opposite actually. Little bit of lube while giving hand can help a lot too. I personally like the feel of it, and stops chaffing for the guy :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Look I'm willing to be a ginnee pig if someone want to practice - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Most women Ive been with need assitance.Most women Ive been with dont really know how to do it properly.The only time I ever cum when being wanked by a woman is when I put my hands around theirs and take some control.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    In public is terrific,