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Hands Up!
January 21 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I hear what you're saying . I don't go into detail about my sexual interests on my Profile , despite the fact that my interests are wide & varied . What I get up to in the bedroom will depend on the person I am with. Once again , RHP supplies limited responses in this field that can't adequately describe my interests . Mutual respect & trust with my partner will allow us to explore our fantasies.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not really sure what you're getting at there. Are you saying that you're sick of random sex? Are you sick of having to show people all the goods before you meet in person? Are you saying that you actually want a relationship? Or are you saying that the lead-up to a meet feels fake due to insincere compliments?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Friendship is what we look for and sex is just something that happen when we are ready...... One nighter or sex meets dont do a lot for us at all..... No sex does not have to be distastefull......... GT
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think part of what you are feeling Teasegoddess is the staleness that comes when the same questions are asked, as if you are responding to a sexual survey... TEN Frequently Asked Questions 1 Do you squirt? 2Do you like fisting? 3Do you do anal? 4Will you play with my arse? 5What's your favourite position.? 6Can I fck those big titties? 8Do you like to have your pussy licked.? 9 Have you ever had a 3some,4some,moresome? 10Have you ever had sex with a woman? Spank me,wank me,tie me up ,tie me down. After awhile the questioning about the mechanics of sexual encounters becomes just plain boring and a version of cybersexing. Most women are more than the sum of our parts, engage our minds,engage our emotions,and discover the rest.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes! I've been in that place for some time. I've been pondering something lately - if, as so many say, men want a lady in the street and a freak in bed, why start a new connection with a woman by treating her like a freak?! How about treating her like a lady and letting the rest unfold in its own good time. If she's on here there's a fair chance she's got more than vanilla to offer in the bedroom so why the fixation?! A man's inability to control his own urges for indecency is a major turn off for me. Yes, we all think filthy thoughts but since when did they become the way we introduce ourselves to others?! The loss of grace, manners, effort, class etc frustrates me. Apologies - minor rant, perhaps off topic :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
When they don't know how to make conversation..~shrugs~
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RHP User
12 years ago
Actually....I'm totally with you on this one. I'd rather meet as soon as possible, it's really the only way to find out for sure if there is a connection with someone, even if it is just a physical I-want-to-rip-your-clothes-off-and-fuck-you-senseless one. I'm not into endless messaging and if there's one cyber question guaranteed to put me off it's the dreaded "So tell me about yourself". To be honest if someone says that in a message to me I pretty much lose interest straight away. Just a couple days ago I was contacted by a guy on another site similar to this one, as I usually do I asked to see a face pic, as it clearly states in my profile that I won't communicate before seeing one (and for those ready to jump on me for being superficial, yes I am interested in how they look but there are other reasons for it as well....but essentially my argument is that you don't go around in real life with a bag over your head and I see no difference when you're meeting people online, it's courtesy to show the other person who they are talking to). This guy said that he'd rather get to know me first before showing me his face pic, and proceeded to ask the 'tell me about yourself' question and the 'what would you like to know about me' question. I could already see this was just going to turn into an endless message fest with a headless torso on a computer screen, not my scene at all and I put an end to it straight away. He wasn't happy and of course told me his opinion of me, and I in turn told him to grow up and not be so ignorant (he was only 23....I thought he might be worth breaking my lower age limit but alas not so). There are reasons that I am on this site, which are pretty clear from my profile. I am not looking for or expecting a relationship from it, and I don't want or have the time to exchange a thousand messages to get to know every detail of someone's life. I know fairly quickly after meeting someone if I want to take things to the bedroom so let's just meet and find out for sure. And actually, even if I'm using a more conventional dating site and not just looking for sex per se, I still much prefer meeting sooner rather than later (unless there is a good reason such as them living a fair distance away). The problem with online sites is it lets people hide behind a screen and never actually meet anyone face to face.....they may have a good reason for that and that's fine, it's their business. I'm not interested in those people though, I'm interested in the ones who also want 'real life' liaisons....sweaty bodies rubbing together, tongues in mouths, mouths on cocks.....hmm I might stop there I'm getting myself all worked up now....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry OP I just realised you were talking more about initial 'sexting' and the like....but it's still the same for me, I'm not going to exchange dirty messages with someone before I've even met them....what if I meet them and have no attraction to them?? It's a different story if we've met and established that we would like to see / already have seen each other naked, then all bets are off and a bit of sexting is all part of the foreplay
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess my profile is pretty direct and like a heat seeking missile I can see where your coming from as , the flattery is overwhelming at times and women need to get in in perspective. The men are fishing the compliments are the bait, every one on the planet has an ego that likes to be stroked. It feeds self esteem The dialogue on RHP is limited guys are out to have sex, women are often out to have more than sex. Most guys will just say they like my pictures it gets them hard and they like to wank looking at them That’s fine with me, nice to know that I am turning on a few guys even an old chook like me. My circumstance on rhp is very different from a lot of women, so I do not need any emotional connection except the man has to have a few clues and there needs to be chemistry. My needs are primal not cerebral I can see why single women or even couples get well and truly over it all, as most sexual encounters are of the, its new its exciting and where is the next warm hole? Not all are like that but most are, and women get very disappointed when the sweetie you think is into you is just getting his rocks off between real girlfriends. Or he is married and lied to you. The psychology of sexuality is still very antiquated If you want more then the only way is off-line social situations and if a man cant get into your pants right away he gets the chase syndrome. He thinks there is something special in a cunt that does not open up like a clam when its cooked. Sad but true. Men are deliciously crass at times and graphic and vocal in the raw need of desire, and that’s what I love about them They can put on the veneer of care factor but underneath all that they are Men, not women and their style of communication is a lot different than our own. I always say to my girlfriends take a break from the bakery now and again if you get sick of the same o same o As I do not do the death by ten thousand messages I cut to the chase, meet, fuck, leave. its the grown up version of eat , pray , love
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playful4u
12 years ago
We cannot be accused of over complimenting a random, we (well Mrs P more so) seems to be on the receiving end. Yes, we are over it, but I guess everyone thinks they are being original with their chosen words. From what I am reading here it would seem that a single girl profile may cop more vulgarity. Manners open doors.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Where someone has made a real concerted effort on their profilel - its appealing, funny,witty - it ticks your boxes and fulfill your selection criteria..you think wow great this person could be so interesting... Contact is made and you anticipate that the person is just as their profile portrays - thats theres something between the ears and its not all about the something between their legs.... yet thye comeback with a first message like this How are you going What are you doing today, or tomorrow? I am always horny and love to lick ;-) and Id luv to fuck you up the ass my number is ****** Yeah.............classy and always make me want to reach for my phone !!! Seriously though - do people find that kind of first message appealing ? Am I missing something here ? Does this kind of message work ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think most women get to a point where mindless sex with lots of people gets a bit boring. You want a deeper connection, and I don't mean the one or marriage. Just deeper friendships where it's not all about sex all the time. Like I have said before. I don't want to be someone's sexual experiment or experience. I want people that are interested in me as a person. I have a lot more to offer than a enormous pair of knockers and what's between my legs. Maybe TeaseGoddess you are ready for a relationship? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen'I hear what you're saying . I don't go into detail about my sexual interests on my Profile , despite the fact that my interests are wide & varied . What I get up to in the bedroom will depend on the person I am with. Once again , RHP supplies limited responses in this field that can't adequately describe my interests . Mutual respect & trust with my partner will allow us to explore our fantasies.- Posted from rhpmobile Thanks fo the reply nice to kniw there is gentleman out there!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am over mindless sex,I am looking for a regular Partener,dosen't have to be the livein each others pockets,a single guy,not a NSA sort of guy. I want a Gentleman on The street, and a Naughty boy in the bedroom,BUT i want to enjoy him step by step,not tell him everything I enjoy straight up. The fun is in holding hands and enjoying the journey together. See nothing makes me more then happy seeing a surprised look on my mans face when I have shared something beautiful,be it vanilla or kinky or hardcore. Let secrets be shared. I have been on my own personal journey and I know what I like So far. I want to know body language and personality a bit before I tell you what my desires are,as I find even if it is a random guy they miss the build up and get let down because all was none before meeting!Not to mention if you say you squirt or they can cum on you they want that all and now. Better to ask a guy when he least expects it to cum on me baby,Don't we agree? Once again thanks everyone :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
that version is Love Eat Prey
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hmmm i kinda agree ....this is an adult site with adult content so sexual desires will always stray into conversation and really there is nothing essentually wrong with that but what most people lack is the ability to make it fun or intelctually stimulating if you can apeal to somebodys humor or intelectual side then one friendships develope then the naughty stuff genrally follows and nobody is left feeli g used at the end - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh man I really missed the whole point of the original post *facepalm*......RHP why you no let us edit comments??!So....to actually answer the question.....I agree that a guy getting all explicit straight away and wanting to know all your 'tricks' like you're some sort of performing seal is a complete turn off. And even worse are the ones that assume that because you're on a site like this you're a) automatically going to shag them and b) you're going to act like a porn star. And yes, even when you're in just a casual, NSA arrangement it's still much more exciting and fulfilling to learn about each other's talents, preferences, and turns ons over a period of time, not just putting it all out there first go. A bit of mystery and anticipation at what could lie ahead is a big turn on and is one of the things that keeps someone coming back for more
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'that version is Love Eat Prey well I hear some of them saying OHHHH GOD and they do eat but love..only that I am a naughty naughty woman they all love that If I was looking for a man for more than sex. I would not be looking on here or any other internet date site I would be down the park or beach with my dog, I have had three guys pick me up that way on the beach I would be going to dance classes or any other activity that gave me the chance to interact over a long slow process. thats when you watch a man and he gives you that lil light globe moments in the things he does or says
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'eatallday' Hmmm i kinda agree ....this is an adult site with adult content so sexual desires will always stray into conversation and really there is nothing essentually wrong with that but what most people lack is the ability to make it fun or intelctually stimulating if you can apeal to somebodys humor or intelectual side then one friendships develope then the naughty stuff genrally follows and nobody is left feeli g used at the end More bewilded then used. All talk and no action,then onto their next person to do the same. Either wankers or have something to hide.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'teasegoddess' I am over mindless sex,I am looking for a regular Partener,dosen't have to be the livein each others pockets,a single guy,not a NSA sort of guy. I want a Gentleman on The street, and a Naughty boy in the bedroom,BUT i want to enjoy him step by step,not tell him everything I enjoy straight up. The fun is in holding hands and enjoying the journey together. See nothing makes me more then happy seeing a surprised look on my mans face when I have shared something beautiful,be it vanilla or kinky or hardcore. Let secrets be shared. I have been on my own personal journey and I know what I like So far. I want to know body language and personality a bit before I tell you what my desires are,as I find even if it is a random guy they miss the build up and get let down because all was none before meeting!Not to mention if you say you squirt or they can cum on you they want that all and now. Better to ask a guy when he least expects it to cum on me baby,Don't we agree? Once again thanks everyone :) I'm so incredibly bored with RHP right now... the mindless messages with no class asking for a fuck or the 'hi how are you' messages... There is a lack of effort and very little respect... but you gotta be in it to win it right? So i guess I shall persevere....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I thought this might be where someone needed to say 'Put your money, wallets, watches and jewellery in the bag' and make a run for the border. Never mind, I call you from Mexico.
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