Hangups?

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  inspirit

  12 years ago

  That's a new word for coathangers. They prefer dirty fuckers. I thinkThough all the psychs on here will probs tell you otherwise.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hang ups is another word for people with issues, it is what stops that person from being totally free and unable to be totally sexually uninhibited - usually due to upbringing, bad experiences or inexperienced and naive.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  baggage, issues, unfinished argument from dinner about wet towels on the floor, extra toes, third arm (although don't judge, that could come in handy bahahaha), full length PVC suit with a busted zip, lost handcuff keys ..... you know, usual stuff that causes problems when you all get down and dirty.

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  SKF6768

  12 years ago

  From the way I see it, 'hang ups' come in the form of insecurities that people have about themselves. Most usually it is a woman that has the most hang ups (due to societal pressures and expectations), but that is not saying that men do not have them too. Overall the term 'hang up' is quite complex in its nature, so here goes my explanation.....The most usual hang ups people have come in the form of either real or imaged problems with their body. For instance: I'm overweight (yet skinny as a rake handle); my bum is too big (any answer will be wrong); my breasts are - too small, too saggy, too pointy; I hate the way my tummy looks; I hate my scars (battle wounds of life); I'm ugly; etc, etc.. The media and general expectations of society have a lot to answer for the creation of these personal image problems and the impact/damage they have on people. So what truly is the perfect body? The one YOU love and accept, flaws and all.Then there is the psychological aspect of hang ups as a result of years of impact and demands from either self or others to be more perfect than they are. This form of hang up has to do with a persons poor self view of their level of intelligence, wit, charm, or confidence. Converse to this is the person who is always attempting to be someone other than who they really are. Again the media has a lot to answer for, especially the women's magazines who portray the utopian world of what is right/wrong, good/bad, how to dress, how to act, etc..Social hang ups are attached to the amount of money they (or you) have, the job they (or you) do, and perceived status in society. These are also hard people to deal with as again they cannot accept themselves for who they are, nor can they really accept anyone else for that matter as they seem to be always looking for the 'status' comparators for some warped sense of self validation or a plausible (to self) excuse for their rejection.Humans are not perfect despite what we may think or want for such. If we were all perfect then the world would be a dull and boring place to say the least. We all need to learn and accept our flaws (whatever they are) so that we can get on and just enjoy life. Sure there are times when minor flaws can be fixed/hidden, but you need to be sensible about how far you go, don't get worked up, and just accept the simple fact that you are unique in this world.In the end, having any sort of 'hang up' and wanting to play in the world of swinging is going to be very difficult and not an enjoyable experience for either the afflicted person or the other party involved.Hope this helps. Mr SKF

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'SKF6768' From the way I see it, 'hang ups' come in the form of insecurities that people have about themselves. Most usually it is a woman that has the most hang ups (due to societal pressures and expectations), but that is not saying that men do not have them too. Overall the term 'hang up' is quite complex in its nature, so here goes my explanation.....The most usual hang ups people have come in the form of either real or imaged problems with their body. For instance: I'm overweight (yet skinny as a rake handle); my bum is too big (any answer will be wrong); my breasts are - too small, too saggy, too pointy; I hate the way my tummy looks; I hate my scars (battle wounds of life); I'm ugly; etc, etc.. The media and general expectations of society have a lot to answer for the creation of these personal image problems and the impact/damage they have on people. So what truly is the perfect body? The one YOU love and accept, flaws and all.Then there is the psychological aspect of hang ups as a result of years of impact and demands from either self or others to be more perfect than they are. This form of hang up has to do with a persons poor self view of their level of intelligence, wit, charm, or confidence. Converse to this is the person who is always attempting to be someone other than who they really are. Again the media has a lot to answer for, especially the women's magazines who portray the utopian world of what is right/wrong, good/bad, how to dress, how to act, etc..Social hang ups are attached to the amount of money they (or you) have, the job they (or you) do, and perceived status in society. These are also hard people to deal with as again they cannot accept themselves for who they are, nor can they really accept anyone else for that matter as they seem to be always looking for the 'status' comparators for some warped sense of self validation or a plausible (to self) excuse for their rejection.Humans are not perfect despite what we may think or want for such. If we were all perfect then the world would be a dull and boring place to say the least. We all need to learn and accept our flaws (whatever they are) so that we can get on and just enjoy life. Sure there are times when minor flaws can be fixed/hidden, but you need to be sensible about how far you go, don't get worked up, and just accept the simple fact that you are unique in this world.In the end, having any sort of 'hang up' and wanting to play in the world of swinging is going to be very difficult and not an enjoyable experience for either the afflicted person or the other party involved.Hope this helps. Mr SKF That's what I was going to say,

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Thanks for the explainations they were very insightful.

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