Happily married

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  But it's always worth remembering that every profile is written by an individual (or in the case of a couple's profile 2 individuals (or 1 weird individual for reasons known only to himself, but I digress), and as such it's pretty hard to draw any generalized conclusion from anything written in one. One person might write happily married because it's true, and they think it'll be appealing to their target demographic or will deter people they're not interested in, other people might write it because they're trying to convince themselves that it's true, others maybe for some other reason. There's no way of knowing, so my policy is to take anything people write at face value unless something else they write contradicts it.

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  MsJonesy

  8 years ago

  I've often wondered the same.....and why the need to declare they are deeply in love? I'd hope so! I'll be interested in what the couples have to say.

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  PurePeony

  8 years ago

  I suppose since the couple is looking for a 3rd party to accept into their fold for intimate fun, they might be trying to issue a subtle warning to the single male or female to not try to make any advances towards their partner? It's like making a declaration that the marriage is solid so don't try anything funny. The common assumption for people new to the swinging scene might be that one or both parties must be dissatisfied or unfulfilled with the marriage, hence they are "looking outwards". That term, "happily married" is perhaps used to state upfront that it isn't the case with their marriage and to put forth a united front. It could be a veiled attempt to dissuade anyone from approaching either the husband or the wife covertly. It's the couple declaring in a way that they are in this swinging fun together and it isn't a panacea for a marriage in trouble. I suppose they are defining the scenario and setting clear boundaries. The last reason I could think of is that "happily married" isn't the real scenario but they are trying to delude themselves. Maybe one is more "happily married" than the other and guess who's the one writing the couple's profile? Ooh... conspiracy theories, covert action, veiled intentions, etc...me like plenty much! Hehe! ;)

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  'We're happily married' translation 'I'm soooooooooo bored and disgusted by him, I have to tell him (and everyone else) I'm happy so I can fuck other men 😀

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  😇

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  other women 😉

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  chamelions

  8 years ago

  Hi there r, yes my wife and I have thought the same thing but like others have said its a description filler, we are happily married but we both enjoy the extra curricular activity to keep our School room active and exiting, It's the best few hours as you can talk about how much fun you had as a couple in a private way for many months, as long as honesty is always present and a couple like what's happening they are happily married , our thoughts only May be and sometimes are wrong. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  NudesRus

  8 years ago

  I wouldn't read too much into it although I do like a good conspiracy theory. It was many years ago when we wrote our profile but I think it was part of the template profile that is there. You can delete parts and leave what you want. That's why so many have that " I think I'm attractive but you can judge for yourself " line. I think it would probably mean " we are not going to have a punch up if you touch my husbands cock/ wife's pussy " 🍆✊🏻💦

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  boobsandbusted

  8 years ago

  2nd assumption by p,p for us ,couldn't word it better ,good call Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Quoting 'PurePeony'Ooh... conspiracy theories, covert action, veiled intentions, etc...me like plenty much! Hehe! ;) It could well be another ''red flag''....happily married and deeply in love may translate to ''Hey I'm really just looking to cop a root outside of my marriage and don't want her/him to find out''. Make sure you speak with both members of the incredibly happy marriage! Naaaaa, not here on this site. Yeah right!

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  We are all on these "swinger" sites for different reasons. We also have the "happily married" phrase within our profile wording. Why? Because after more than 20 years together, two children, and a change of continents, we are still as close, and in love with one another, as when we got married 20 years ago. Our relationship is strong, and our saying that we are happily married is there to make this known, that we are a stable team, that we are doing this for us, for our relationship, to take things to a new level of intimacy and that we will never play alone. It's a subtle message to those who attempt to get one partner alone ....that it will not work with us, nor will it be tolerated by us. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I wouldn't say happily married. I'm on here. More hopefully wanting to experience more sex, with more ladies In our time together, we have been through a lot. Separated for six months after 8 years together. Three kids, now four grandkids. I do sometimes wonder, why we re still together. Have we become institionlised with one another. I do know, I don't want to live without her. We have a dream. It's happening Am I cheating since nothing's happened yet. I feel I am. Maybe it's own thread that comment. Yet in saying that. I wouldn't know a bloke that asnt looked t nother women and Sid or thought. Yes please. Is that cheating

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  madotara69

  8 years ago

  But we are happily married. Mado Mado Tara xx

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  madotara69

  8 years ago

  What anyone else thinks it means, is their thoughts not ours, hmmmmm

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Happily Married, I just assume its an affirmation that they play together and not alone.

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  rupamohan

  8 years ago

  ---message to those who attempt to get one partner alone. I gather the most popular reason is to ward off partner stealers on prowl? Sounds dreadful Well in that case we feel lucky they haven't approached us finding the happy declaration missing I still wonder will they care for such a declaration?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Quoting 'rupamohan' I still wonder will they care for such a declaration? I suspect that the type of person who would be willing to try and break up a partnership wouldn't necessarily care about declarations of love and commitment in a profile.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I just have - that hubby knows I'm on the site which is true. Another reason I know the 'happily married' phrase is used is to attract singles or couples that want a casual situation and don't want jealousy creeping in. So if they are 'happily married' it implies they won't try and steal someone else's partner, or become jealous of your other FWB, stalk you etc. Trying to attract people that don't want any baggage.

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