Starlet1

Starlet1

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Has Swinging sexually empowered you?

June 07 2017

Speaking with my wife about a recent play party we went to, she mentioned how sexually empowering swinging is for her. I found this fascinating and asked her what about this world and being in a room of a dozen other attractive, naked people made her more confident about her desires. I'm curious to know what women on RHP think? Does swinging empower you for the good or has your attitude towards sex remained the same? What would you say to other women thinking of giving it a shot to explore themsleves?

Comments

  • sweet_cherry69

    sweet_cherry69

    8 years ago

    Absolutely I have discovered how much I love playing at private parties- it is such a huge thrill to be able to express your hidden sexual desires. I wish I had the courage to involve the gb - aka grumblebum but he's just too vanilla !! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    It's certainly been an empowering experience for us both. As an example, previously we could watch an adult movie and only fantasise about a threesome or MFMF group session. We have now, through swinging, been able to turn that fantasy into a reality. Also being naked in a room with others, and then being intimate with them, sharing ones body with them, certainly gives one confidence on the one hand, and helps rid of only any shyness & inhibitions on the other hand. One grows, learns & develops through the experience & process we think. There have been both positive & negative experiences. Both, we think, make one a better, more empowered person at the end of the day. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    but it has to come from within. Relying on others to make you feel that way I do to an extent, but the inner confidence and empowerment if you like, drive me. I feel like I could just about land anyone haha just dialing Callan Ward as we speak 😀 mmm yum But yes, in RL I exude sex lol or do my very best to 😉 when I'm close to a guy I'm turned on by, everything constricting, breath catching, I use my mind to send that signal, that feeling to him, power of the mind. Few held glances if I see him looking at me, it's intense. Direct approach hasn't worked for me. I just scare them 😂😂 Most guys aren't used to a sexually forward woman. lol few times I've been in the middle of that, supermarket maybe, and the gf joins him 😱 had a few close calls 😇

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It's speeded up my sexual development. Going to various parties has opened my eyes to BDSM, bisexuality, sexual practices I didn't even know about. I am learning! Bondage, suspension, spanking, whipping, sexual toys and strap ons, fisting, water sports, exhibitionism, male on male, group sex, transgender partners, gang bangs, glory holes, women squirting, domination - are some examples that come to mind.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I did enjoy swinging coz i let couples take charge of me without hesitation or resist, i let them do whatever to me coz i like to see how far it can go & most times it goes very far that i can't control my manhood - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Any tips for a couple seeking their first time? We have never played together like this but just can't wait! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Starlet1

    Starlet1

    8 years ago

    Enjoy the exploration and check in with each other! It's an incredible, liberating world once you dive in. The penny dropped for us at our first play party, where half way in we took and a break and went to grab a drink and started chatting to another couple... about 5 minutes into the conversation we realised we were all naked and no one felt self conscious. We loved that feeling of freedom (and the orgasms with the other couple that followed!) (We would also say be open minded and leave jealousy and judgment at the door) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    7 years ago

    I feel that swinging has given me so much confidence and even resilience in all facets of life. Not only am I confident now to enjoy whatever I want sexually and admit that I am bisexual but I do not feel guilty for being a sexual woman. I am comfortable in my body, mind and successes and this carries over into my vanilla life and work. I can laugh at situations that can be embarrassing and think "oh well, who cares!" Swinging and John have given me this self-confidence. Ann