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Has anyone met used this site to find long term relationship or marriage?
June 18 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
... but I think you're about to get more offers of true love and romance than you can imagine. Like many things, it's a means to an end. Best of luck.......
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RHP User
9 years ago
Especially when youre not looking. Was on AMM having a blast after a marriage finished, and ended up in an 8yr monogamous relationship. Go figure!!
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
People go to other sites to find LTR and may never find one. People come here not looking for a LTR and have found one. Maybe it's when you least expect it. And the good thing here, at least there are no sexual surprises later if a LTR evolves.
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Mr_MrsAraps
9 years ago
Despite what people say, sexual compatability matters, especially in a LTR. That goes for both ends of the spectrum for people leaning towards the asexual / not very interested in sex to the other end of people wanting it a lot. At least on RHP and other like sites it's all out in the open about what your looking for such as a connected hot manogomous sex or opening up you relationship to include others. The flip side on here is you wont get as much info as to what sort of things personality wise they are after apart from sex. On vanilla dating sites it's a bit of a pot luck in terms sexual chemistry and comparability though you can be lucky .... I know I was ;-) . A lot of people I know have set up accounts on both sites (vanilla and non vanilla) and then they can have a bet each way. What I don't get is people who are of the mindset that RHP is only for casual sex but there is no way I could find a nice person on here for LTR that I could take to meet my mum. Since when are the two (hot sex and relationship material) mutually exclusive only to be found one site or the other.
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RHP User
9 years ago
To find exactly that (speaking long term). HOWEVER... I have needs and desires and fantasies, and willingness to learn/teach and be a mutually beneficial addition to other people's lives in other intimate ways, short term or otherwise. Some or all of this acquired knowledge may help me in the future when an extra special person comes my way. As for Araps query about dates/partners meeting family: I am normally very excited (and nervous) when I find someone with long term potential, via vanilla dating/sites or wherever. So I will normally mention this (ie that I am dating/meeting someone) to selected family members (not to mention I am typically very proud of having someone that has such interest in myself). However, I have kept my activities via these sites essentially a secret, not just to avoid opening a can of worms at family question time, but also because I believe someone with real long term potential will have an interest in being a part of my life in all extents, including socialising with friends/family. While I have had some ongoing contacts here, the situation with them does not extend that far, and therefor there is no point in anyone else knowing. But yes, I do agree that there is no reason why (in my case) a long term girlfriend can't be someone who I can both take home to meet mum & dad, and have an amazing, naughty, and perhaps non-exclusive sex life. I can't vouch for people finding love via rhp etc, I'm sure it's happened and I have read similar such stories (within the adult/swinging scene if not solely via the one site). I have had the one relationship and that was via rsvp. But anecdotally, some people (like me) are on both types of site, perhaps looking for different things on both types of site, but hoping for a special someone who combines their interests from both sites.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' I haven't as I'm not currently looking for a relationship, but I certainly wouldn't rule out finding a long-term partner here in the future. Ears of the Cat. Just pricked up... . . . . To topic.I don't see why this site can't be used to find whatever I like...I am paying for the privilege. And I don't imagine people here are any different under the blanket to the ones on eHarmony. I mean, the weirdo's here might have more toes...but really, does anyone care about these things..?
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PatchworkGirl
9 years ago
I wasn't looking, but I found myself falling madly in love with a wonderful man I met on here. I know of a few people who have found wonderful long term relationships. I think this site works as well as any form of online dating, with the exception that on here, people tend to be able to be more open about their sexual preferences and desires - which makes finding someone compatible in that area a little easier!
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BONKHER
9 years ago
Yes. Been together 9 years - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm not actively looking for a serious relationship, but that doesn't mean that if the right person came along that I wouldn't be willing to give them a chance. I've become very fond of my freedom, though. So they would have to be pretty amazing for me to give that up.
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RHP User
9 years ago
In a galaxy far far away I met my ex husband from here and neither of us were looking for a LTR Sure we did split but it had nothing to do with RHP, sex or any significant others To be honest, I would prefer to meet someone from here for a LTR for all the reasons that Mr _Mrs Araps stated Could it happen twice ?. Maybe
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inspirit
9 years ago
When you least expect it. ❤ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Another site designed for the same purpose as RHP. We are still together after 5yrs and having as much fun as we did when we first met.
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RHP User
9 years ago
looking for a relationship now or anytime in the near future....but considering I've decided that monogamy isn't really my thing I would most definitely be open to meeting a partner on a site like RHP. Sex and sexuality is very important to me so finding someone compatible in that respect is a must for me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
If something longer term developed i wouldn't complain.
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Kampalina
8 years ago
Instead of searching the kingdom with the glass slipper she left at the ball......RHP Prince Charming hunts the owner of the glass beaded g string that Cinderella left at the sultry soiree...for she could be "the one"..... hahaha a litte Walt Disney with a twist.... Princess Celeste - Great Post! I was half expecting some aggressive comments on the post, like some messages in my inbox, after i responded with a "no thanks" to their abrupt message about an instant "hook up".... lots of gals are nodding their head now relating to those types of messages. It is great to see so many open minds on the taboo subject of "relationship", from both male, female and couple perspective. I agree with what he said, she said and they commented on. I have made good friendships with people on site, male, female & couples (and no, have not "hooked up" with them all), just from being like minded people and respect for each other's different interests. There is such a variety of reasons why people join the site, which is why it is always important to read the profiles you are viewing .....and respect that there could be different reasons that insprire them. I even changed what I had previously written in my profile , just to deter those wanting/needing an NSA/FWB/FB instant dial-a-fuck/drive thru roots, as that just isn't how I roll personally, but am sure there are suitable people for them with the same interests too. Although not actively looking for a LTR, if that Prince Charming is out there with my beaded thong......he can find me. I'm not afraid to use the 'C' word......and won't stutter 'cccccccommittment', but at the same time I don't want to feel suffocated or pinned down either. Just love having contact or friendships with people that share similar interests. Anything is possible
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Mooche' Could it happen twice? Maybe ....never know, M I've fallen madly in love at the supermarket near the frozen food section on a hot summer's day. Love or something like it... adaptive at the very least.
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lovman8
8 years ago
but if you try sometime you may just find you get what you need????
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes I found a long term relationship from this site but it's now burnt and gone to dust - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
Sure have! They have been in my life for a few years now. Finding a soulmate from this site, is very special, unique I think. We just know, we feel it, we just get each other. Our souls are truely aglined. For those out there searching, I wish you all the best. Ms Foxy x
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RHP User
8 years ago
I sure do know someone who has found a LTR here. And he is very happy. I did on another site a few years ago. It ran for a couple of years - which seems to be about the norm for moi. Ysa 😚 - Posted from rhpmobile
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LittleGiant
8 years ago
Because I wasn't 'looking' for one, but my last two LTRs have been through RHP (Miss here). I think sexual preference - for me, anyway - isn't just important, it's one of the most important things! I did try other sites but I wasn't looking for a relationship and I found that RHP was the same people, only much more upfront about what they were into sexually, which was very refreshing. In fact I was skeptical of meeting someone compatible through other avenues or those that approached in clubs and such because I was always of the mind that they'd never be into what I was into. I love hearing all the 'success stories' on here that are much like mine, finding something/someone where it was least expected. Miss Little x
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ive been on and off this site for the last 10 years. Not long after i first joined i wasnt looking for a LTR but ended up with a guy i had met on here for 4 years. Same thing on another site a few years back. Joining back up on here just recently im far from looking for a LTR but open to it if the right person came along - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
With this site, as opposed to even most of the other adult/swinging sites, there is no category for children ie having them/wanting them. That generally comes into the picture when looking for an ongoing relationship, but perhaps more so in the prime of life and less so when people are either quite young, or older. That, and perhaps some other category types, is why more people would see this as a "sex" site (or sex positive site) and less of one that covers the variety of interests and intentions of consenting adults, and that includes looking for a relationship (even if it is an alternate relationship - swinging, open, sub/dom etc, not likely found via eharmony). Having said that, this site has a more of a community feel due a combination of more meet & greets (member run or otherwise), the forums, datefinder etc, as ways of connecting/matching people as opposed to just browsing profiles and attempting contact via messages. It gets said that if you are looking for a relationship to use other sites (eg rsvp), and as it happens, in my browsing, most (say 90%) of the profiles there have fairly complete profiles, while quite a larger proportion of women's profiles here have little to no detail (and may still have many listed friends). This is for singles, that is. So I wonder if those on here *open to* relationships are also more likely to have longer written details in their profile? (Of course, sexual needs can be varied and complex requiring longer descriptions as well, but often they are simpler to express, than the needs you have with a view to a relationship).
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