Has the swinging scene changed for you?

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  ElectricDreamers

  6 years ago

  You've gotten older, less interest from you or in you? Or both? We've simply found it takes more to stimulate or shock these days. That back in the day, it was a bit 'ooo' if folks were fucking nearby but now we might simply carry on a conversation undistracted... I think that is more about us, and exposure than about the scene changing.

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  The_Antichrist

  6 years ago

  Have you tried skydiving ?

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Over the last 3 years, we’ve definitely seen a lot of changes we like, and don’t like, with clubs, parties, other couples’ interactions with each other, and attitudes. For the most part, time seems to be the biggest limiting factor for everyone and the biggest driver for the negative, pun intended, swing of some of these things. However new, fresh and inclusive attitudes have been the driver for a lot of the good. Ultimately it comes down to perspective, experience, personal attitude, and ultimately what you want out of the lifestyle. You’ve probably seen some pretty big changes since you began your exploration but I’m pretty positive at least some of that comes from looking at situations with more mature eyes (read - less interest in putting up with stupid stuff/bullshit you probably would have accepted earlier on). Lady

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