RHP

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Have you ever ....

December 30 2012

had the hots so bad for someone that as a last resort you tried to offer them some form of incentive just so they would be with you? Or have you ever been on the receiving end?   Happened to me not that long ago. I dated a guy for 3 months then broke it off. Over the next 8 years he would call and invite me out to coffee, etc. even while I was living with someone else at the time. He finally offered to buy me a car if we got back together. As much as I needed a new car back then .... it really was never going to happen!   Interested to hear any similar experiences.   SFxx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Eight years!!! Thats dedication.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It goes back to that movie years ago-cant remember the title with Demi Moore when her bf was offered a million dollars for a night with her. They battled the whole moral side of it. I guess in one sense it could be a massive turn on that someone wants you so badly that they would make such a gesture...but then again you would feel obliged then maybe?? tricky question

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    So then what happened to this guy ? ..after you politely declined his (outrageous) offer ??     And in answer to your question.....I dont attract generous long termn stalkers at all....   Just the run of the mill, "Cant accept no means nobut they keep harrassing you because they have something to say which apparently you soooooo need to hear" kind of stalkers............must lift my game !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' So then what happened to this guy ? ..after you politely declined his (outrageous) offer ??     And in answer to your question.....I dont attract generous long termn stalkers at all....   Just the run of the mill, "Cant accept no means nobut they keep harrassing you because they have something to say which apparently you soooooo need to hear" kind of stalkers............must lift my game !!! You're not still attracting nutters are you???   Sick the police onto him.....they'll soon fix the little one up

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    YET

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    But those I have met off here, have truly been the nicest people. Not stalkerish, not clingy, lol they even understand and accept my moods that can be quite challenging to overcome. Lol and yes they still even talk to me lol. Wow though, 8 years is a long time.

  • smo669

    smo669

    12 years ago

    Eight years? That's called stalking

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    No I haven't.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' So then what happened to this guy ? ..after you politely declined his (outrageous) offer ??     And in answer to your question.....I dont attract generous long termn stalkers at all....   Just the run of the mill, "Cant accept no means nobut they keep harrassing you because they have something to say which apparently you soooooo need to hear" kind of stalkers............must lift my game !!! Well after calls to my mobile from "unknown" that finally slowed down I moved house. Have an unlisted home phone number and changed my mob number, which because of my work was freely available on the internet. Oh I changed jobs too!   I met this guy on RSVP. He was very well off and couldnt understand that money does NOT buy everything.   Happily living anonymously now and enjoying all the people I meet here instead.   SFxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have just re-read my last post and it sounds like I was on the run from this admirer. I call him an admirer and not a stalker because even though this went on for 8 yrs, I didn't change jobs, my address and phone numbers because of him. It was a natural progression in life as you move on to new things. It was the reason why we lost contact.   He didn't harrass me and sometimes it was a couple of years between contacts. He would just check in every now and then to see how my life was going and if there was any chance of rekindling things.   The car thing was a surprise and so was the marriage proposal that came with it and the offer to travel around the world with his business ventures. I just wished him well.   Is there a lover that always brings a smile to your face and the "I wonder what could have been?" question in your mind. Maybe this is a whole new thread! LOL     SFxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've had a few...Have one now (not RHP), 26 text messages, 4 calls & emails over a 2 hour period, then sporadic, mass texting every now & then, always at about 10pm... last night, 11 texts in less than an hour...My last ex, his offer was, almost in these words...A European holidayWealth beyond my imaginationSecurityA houseI said no.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Does this include wanting them SOOOOO VERY bad..... you drag them into your cave and hold them there untill they relent and tell you they LOVE you more then anything???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Of course you could hold them in your cave and have you way with them and they would fall madly in love with you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' Does this include wanting them SOOOOO VERY bad..... you drag them into your cave and hold them there untill they relent and tell you they LOVE you more then anything???     Torture devices may extricate the confession quicker ya know :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    But Karma is a Bitch! Hope to have you back soon.