Have you ever had a good wingman?

August 24 2014

Out to lunch with my long-time monogamously married bestie the other day lamenting having let go of my most favoured fb and she offered to go out with me and be my wingman. I asked her what a wingman actually does and I'm pretty sure she got 'wingman' confused with 'matchmaker trying to get me married off' so I had to turn her down hehe. It got me thinking though, I don't actually know what being a good wingman entails? Have you ever had a good one? What does it take?

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  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    I have one mate... similar age, similar stage of life.... we compliment eachother when we are out for the following reasons: - * we genuinely have fun when we go out* we don't LOOK for women, we look for fun moments* we are both highly sociable and observant* we are both "present" when interacting and engaging with new people* we know when to promote, or create space DG

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    A Wingchick. She has super powers equal to mine. Picks up on all the stuff I don't and together we rattle a few cages. What's it take? Both being gracious in company and open to new experiences or atleast laugh along while it's all happening. Being able to tell each other the blunt honest truth even if we don't like it. Seeing each other at our worst and horrible and still able to back each other up. Incredible racks of cleavage and big smiles don't seem to hurt us either 😄.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    Puts up with my shit! Lol xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Barney and Ted walk up to a girl, Barney says: "Hi, have you met Ted?" and then walks off. Love that! But honestly, I best work alone.

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Barney and Ted walk up to a girl, Barney says: "Hi, have you met Ted?" and then walks off. Love that! But honestly, I best work alone. Same here, I think I fly solo better, I don't honestly think I'd be any good at helping someone else pick up. Saying "Haaaave you met Ted?" is probably the best I could do hehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't really know what to do either, besides being social and looking out for my friend. I was asked to be a wingwoman once, but my friend made me wear a ring on my wedding finger just in case... (She didn't get lucky, served her right!)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Funny luv Hamish and Andy segment on wingman,they take the piss! Back in the day was handy wingman,need to stay as sober as possible be alert! Agree just having a fun night is a big plus,ladies like fun guys in general,not obnoxious ! Dress for success a suit can bring a suitor,more chance of quality! Always felt we put out a scent(on the prowl)therefore try to harness it,be yourself hope for the best,lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yeah... We always hunt in packs don't we. Go to swingers clubs together, etc. One of my mates calls me "cockbait". I draw them in and then he devours them. LMAO.

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    10 years ago

    You both have your eyes on the same person and it becomes competition... Hmm but that's kind of fun too!!😋 Xxviolet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    that I am aware of however I usually do some spotting if I am with someone and I can see people checking them out, even though I have no clue if anyone is checking me out. I would also be there if one of my friends needed me to step in if someone was bothering them. Nor would I interfere if they were getting lucky.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I met a lady on the, we met on the net, I was the first person she chatted to when she joined a site, we met, we didn't hit it off she was flooded with requests from horny men and I got relegated to the friendship zone. She's become a great friend and as we're both married we confide in each other and give each other reality checks...I still want to jump her bones but won't try it on unless I feel the time is right

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    One of my best mates girlfriend is possibly the best "wingman" ever. I had a great night out a few weeks ago, she tended to break the ice and I took it from there. Tips for a good one *Someone who can break the ice *Someone who knows when to leave *A lot of energy *Fun/Sense of Humour *Helps if they know a fair few girls/guys (my mates girlfriend introduced me to about her entire netball team)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Violetincredible' You both have your eyes on the same person and it becomes competition... Hmm but that's kind of fun too!!😋 Xxviolet Miss Sarah is my wing woman. 3 years ago it all started with a kiss and an arm wrestle. Since then, well.I know what you mean Missy Violet :)Poor guy or girl that takes on Sarah and I :P

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    💋💋Yep I'm the other half of indy's wing and chick..... But I'm not her bitch, just want to get that straight. Absolutely no chance of us ever having eyes for the same guy, because her taste in blokes really sucks...... Yep and I put up with her shit, I have the ability of look like I'm listening, but I'm not really listening, shhhhh don't tell her though..and just in case you haven't noticed I'm the funny half... But yes it awesome having her as a wingchick and probably wouldn't have experiences half the stuff I have without her by my side, but she can't do everything with me, that would just be weird, plus she'd probably be a be a little grossed out by some of it anyway......hehe.....😜