M42
Having a vent
February 15 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Intelligence is always sexy. Never dumb yourself down for the sake of someone else. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
What an introduction. Good way to get notice. Because... Getting noticed is the name of the game. May suggest something? If you are not already, occasionally go into the chatrooms and meet some people online. Contribute to the forum, as you have done. There are the occasional drinks and lots of us have met each other... And one thing leads to another and I suspect there are forum members that are bonking each other! Shock horror!! ;-) The events are good as well. Because of doing the things above I have met almost 70 people from RHP, and yes I have bonked the odd few, I have made some really great friends and met some great lovers I have known for a few years now. Now I am getting all mushy but this site is great for more than just finding a root, if used wisely it is a lot more than that. Too me anyway. Forget the messages! Waste of time. Come to the forum and be friends with us all. xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Darlink, no one likes a wah wah, well if I am spanking your bottom. ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Clearly I would not get past your screening process.... I should learn to self edit my posts before hitting send!! :'(
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RHP User
12 years ago
and I suspect there are forum members that are bonking each other SERIOUSLY ?????????......... Meeka ??? OP..this is just one avenue for meeting women......its no the be all or end all..however I understand your disheartened...apparently there is someone for everyone (dont quote me...Im just repeating what Ive been told)...but as Meeks sadi..hang around the sandpit or the chat rooms.................................you just never know and as Wantingathird stated..never dumb down for anyone..always be yourself.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've had this same discussion with a few men that have been persistent in finding out why it won't go any further.So I'll share, take what you will, or won't.I've had close to now 900 messages & I joined in December.There are only a handful that stood out & they know who they are.Their profile lived up to the message.One thing most had in common were:They were verified.Their profile pic was interesting (not with a cropped off woman :)Their pics looked like the same person, yours doesn't...They know who they're looking for, you wrote more about yourself & one line about what you were looking for. Why would a woman bother when she has so much choice & there are men out there who are describing them in their profiles??There are other things that stood out too.Should I call the Wambulance??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Really, is that a serious question? You are pulling my third plastic leg aren't you? :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
so I am closing my profile, a woman can have just so much sex and I want to stop sex for a while back to being a nun for me rhp is good for women but shit for many men,so I hear you sunshine nice guys dont even finish last here, they dont get to finish at all any woman can get laid on rhp you can be as ugly as a hat full of arseholes , a total bitch and punch way above your weight its the nature of the beast good luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well your title even though you think is funny would have stopped me reading further. However for the exercise I continued to read. It is somewhat sincere and also telling woman like most profiles just looking for NSA fun. There is only so much that can be gained from a profile. Some of us just are not appealing enough for some this way. Thus your little to no responses.Some people need to met in person to really appreciate a cheeky grin or to make them laugh. My advice get away from the keyboard and go to some social events and be a real person that woman can talk to and appreciate the person your are.Good Luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
I get replies to more than half all of my messages. Looking at your post above, you could have edited that down by about half and still got your point across.I usually refer to something in their profile in the subject line of the message I send too.Pick who you send messages too. If someone’s put no effort into writing a profile and taking interesting pics. They are hardly going to be bothered reading/replying your message. This is actually a good thing ~smiles~
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RHP User
12 years ago
to me that men with even a modicum of intelligence and physical attractiveness ,who post here on a regular basis,do extremely well with the laydies. So OP,post more in the forums and tweak your profile.Change the face pic to the other one,the current one does make you appear to be slightly demented,take out the''big deal'' header.Not everyone gets self deprecating humour,and showcase your smarts and talents...ps I am having a deja vu moment here...it's the check shirt.
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RHP User
12 years ago
who has piqued my interest with witty and insightful comments in the forums. In fact there's a few I'd like to bonk on the forums ... (including the ones I already have!!!)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'I get replies to more than half all of my messages. Looking at your post above, you could have edited that down by about half and still got your point across.I usually refer to something in their profile in the subject line of the message I send too.Pick who you send messages too. If someone’s put no effort into writing a profile and taking interesting pics. They are hardly going to be bothered reading/replying your message. This is actually a good thing ~smiles~Being a LITTLE cheeky can help too ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' who has piqued my interest with witty and insightful comments in the forums. In fact there's a few I'd like to bonk on the forums ... (including the ones I already have!!!) I always have a good laugh at your comments PNow what was the topic again?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' any woman can get laid on rhp you can be as ugly as a hat full of arseholes , a total bitch and punch way above your weight I don't know if that is true, but I think I have way too much respect for myself to actually sleep with anyone I don't like and would not consider a friend in real life. When I look at ugly I tend to look at personality rather than looks. Ok, then I look at looks but at the end, personality wins out. If you have a great personality, looks are secondary. @Deviousbassman - I can be cheeky, but I don't try it with a total stranger. It can very easily backfire (speaking from experience). The problem I have is differentiating between a little and a lot of cheekiness :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh yeah, another thing innerwest. I used to regret doing (or not doing) things when younger (very much younger). Now, I just take responsibility for it and do not regret. Sometimes it works out great. Other times it doesn't. You learn from it and move on. Once you stop regretting your actions or lack of it, you will find life becomes more enjoyable and relaxed. As for your profil, I am a guy, and if a lady puts that heading on their profile, I would not even bother visiting the profile...well maybe as a last resort. After all, some guys don't seem to get a lot of opportunities here. The busy is a bit superfluous. I am sure the women here are very free and have nothing better to do with their time :P They would be so impressed with a busy man. You mention all the activities you like doing. Perhaps indicate that you are looking for someone who would like to join you in some of them (that is if you really want them to). That is just my 2 cents worth, which in this day and age gets rounded down to zero. So, take it as you like. The problem is you might be a great guy, and people do have the occasional rant. However, you make impressions by those rants and most will not give you a second chance. Good luck.
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RHP User
12 years ago
After reading my own profile a few times over, I made a few changes to the 'I am looking for' section...the first was to swap the word 'desperate' out for 'adventurous', that seemed to help and a few took notice.The other was humbling, carefully contextually constructed...then to appeal to some of the ladies, I even dressed in a suitAnd finally I just asked them for...a 'mercy root'.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Innerwest, did you spend time on here before you became a paid up member? Or did you believe the sales pitch and think that just because you joined you are guaranteed to get laid? That is a serious question by the way: a lot of men here think that because a woman is on this site then she is willing to screw anyone who approaches her. That is of course a misconception of the highest order. As others have alluded to, you have to find out a way to stand out in the crowd. For some it is being cheeky, for some, being deep, for some it is as simple as flashing a monster of a cock. The thing is it makes then a little unique from the 1000's of other profiles on here. You have to find what that uniqueness is as it applies to you, don't fake it, most women here have industrial strength bull shit meters. You have to realise that not only do you have to contend with men your own age for the competition to stand out, you have to compete with couples, younger or older men (depending on what the woman wants), other women - we are so far behind the eightball that we aren't even on the same damn pool table.... TUSCANRED: thank you dear lady for voicing, well typing what I have thought for a long long time. Due to the imbalance between the genders, some women here have started to believe the bullshit being fed to them by one handed typists and put on airs and graces that frankly are not warranted. Yes they may wake up each morning to find their inbox overflowing but in reality, the type of guys they think they deserve would probably cross a busy road to avoid them. Unfortunately there are men here who would screw anything resembling a female with little thought or consequence...!
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RHP User
12 years ago
The suit is a winner, just sayin ... ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'DontLookDown' After reading my own profile a few times over, I made a few changes to the 'I am looking for' section...the first was to swap the word 'desperate' out for 'adventurous', that seemed to help and a few took notice.The other was humbling, carefully contextually constructed...then to appeal to some of the ladies, I even dressed in a suitAnd finally I just asked them for...a 'mercy root'. Does a 'mercy or sympathy root' work? A suit is a good idea actually. Might give that try. How about a sports jacket..with braces and a bow tie? Ok, sounds too much like Doctor Who. I might just use the sports jacket and a shirt though. Not too formal.
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RHP User
12 years ago
ugh, jesus. Do not drink and forum post, kids. That's the lesson for today.My apologies for this total self-indulgent piece of whiny crap.Thanks for the responses, and the honest and friendly feedback. Much appreciated. Will work on profile a little more, now.Have a great night, all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm hearing you my brother. Previously I would not have said anything but because I see you as some kind of mirror image of me.( Same age, same sence of humor, same respect for women etc etc) Ifeel some kind of brotherly love, like we are brothers at arms in the war against wading our way through the sea of morononic, dumb ass losers so that we can shine between a beautiful womans legs. Fuck I can talk some shit when Im drunk. Ok here we go. Observation is a powerful tool of understanding my frined. Just sit back, read the forums, and LEARN what women want. Ok fine I'll just tell you what they want. Its not men like us my frined. I shall explain. Istarted reading the forums and started read ing complaints about men from the woman. I think it was Hand maiden that said men offer oral sex for hours and then don't do it. Tuskan red mentioned about some points for dates. I at first thought, "I want to read this, this lady always wrights good stuff", when I read it, I was pissing myself laughing. She said shit like, make sure you brush your teeth before a date, and shower properly and shit like that. Then there was Funloving stating how many guys don't wear condoms. Oh, then there is that guy (forgot hos name) That was sexually bulling a womean and was sooooo self absorbed he couldent even see it. Then when we all pointed it out, complained that we wre not anwwering his queastion. My point. All of these complains (and there are many more) are things that REAL MEN don't do. these are things that little boys do. At first I used to laught, then I had an appofiny. THESE ARE THE GUYS THAT ARE GETTING LAID!!!!! WTF!!!! So I cold be wrong and drawing incorrect conclusions but I could hazzard a guess, these behaviouse are the result of an imature mind. Simply Put, women are going for young men who have no responsibility and have all the time in the worlkd to work on their abs and guns and look good. They say that they admire intellegence. Its all bullshit I tells ya. I love it when women think that saying shit like "your a really nice respectable guy" is some kind of concellation prize. So I can't suck your sweet little clittie then?? RHP makes a LOT of money out of stupid men like us that think we have a chance of metting someone. Maybe its just the Jack Daniels talking, fuck knows. I get ignored, told Im too married, or rejected. Its just how it is bro. Shit loads of cocks, fuck all pussy. the rules of supply and demand apply here mate. you know what i reckon man, if you can't beat em, join em. You watch what heppends next man. Im goin gto have women and men having a go at me now. YOu watch. The women that like to fuck young men will attack me know. Like they way, what makes the you angriest is the truth. They wont like it. I'm also going to be attacked by loser men. who think that if the defend women on here and suck up womens asses, they are gunna score. So fucking sad. On here, the women have all the power. Most men are too pussy to be real and spek their truth. Im no pussy, I say what I want and I always speak my truth. I think its call alcoholic courage LOL. We are just two cocks in a sea of cock heads, how could we ever be noticed?? I wonder if I will remember posting this lol. Laters bro secrets XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am always surprised when guys tell me that no one responds. The last guy I hooked up with hadn't had a response in months until I replied. I would say I reply to 90% of messages and not always super quickly. OP I like your profile I think the heading is catchy and you have enough info without being too much. I would reply to you- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not getting noticed???? Lmfao what happened to the chick that wanted to watch the cricket with you?? Not getting noticed...PFFFFT
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StookyAndChooky
12 years ago
Good question for this site to be honest with you we have send out heaps on messages on here too have learnt a thing or two along the way ok let me give you some advice keep profile simple not over the top keep it real honest literally say what you are looking for if you don't want no games etc say that as for messages keep it simple and well spoken eg say you would like to get know them in hope that you can be friends with benefits happy to meet socially down track when comfortable we have good response to those messages but I know it's numbers game you have send 100's even 1000's just to get even 1-3 ppl interested if you are lucky enough so don't give up hope yet if you end up leaving the site don't blame you at all female of relationship here Chooky - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
you made me laff a lot...hic
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RHP User
12 years ago
lmao @ Mick. You've made valid points lol. After a while of being on here and talking to men and women its clear to see there is only one criteria that matters and thats looks. A short list of what men and women have said to me that describes this site: * meat market for women * brothel for women * 40 year old women sleeping with 20 year old guys * 30 year old women sleeping with 20 year old guys lol I've explained my view a zillion times on female and male behaviour in general life in a sensible way with valid content, so i'm not going to be popular again by writing another essay lol. It would be great if personality and substance were considered but the truth is it just isn't. I've also mentioned i have male friends on here that are in the top 5% when it comes to looks and they are having so much sex its off the scale. From a personal point of view i'm not jealous of others getting a lot of sex but more dissappointed in women that personality and substance which is what matters to me is difficult to even get to or have appreciated because the first hurdle can't be jumped.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'innerwest123' ugh, jesus. Do not drink and forum post, kids. That's the lesson for today.My apologies for this total self-indulgent piece of whiny crap.Thanks for the responses, and the honest and friendly feedback. Much appreciated. Will work on profile a little more, now.Have a great night, all. They should have a sobriety test for posting messages on Friday and Saturday nights. Solve the math test and you are sober enough to post messages :) Take care and all the best.
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
Some people find themselves out of work despite looking. Some people write manuscripts that never get picked up. Some people get knocked back trying to pick up. Sometimes people have their reasons.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...appreciated a well-undressed woman, your suit suites. Quoting 'paintme' The suit is a winner, just sayin ... ;-) I'll pick out the ties....thanks.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not meaning to shift focus from you Innerwest, but that was a bloody AWSOME rant Mick! Loved the bit about being 'too married" (a bit like being too old, too young, or too 'dick-photoey'!) Great stuff, but I know what you meant. Take heart though, as there ARE women on here that do indeed like married men (and for a whole range of reasons), so hang in there mate! Innerwest, I would think that there are heaps of guys on this site that feel exactly the same way as both you and Mick do, but they simply haven't voiced it (even the 'young bucks' get ignored or get knock backs!). Good for you for posting your feelings though, as this forum is an open one for all RHPers to express thier experiences regarding this site (both good and bad). It takes courage to put yourself 'out there' even in an on-line medium, and while it IS clear that women DO have the advantage, they do have to put up with a lot of crap from a huge range of wankers. That makes it hard for all. My advice?.. Define your searches, read the profiles, take courage that you are a good fellow, and persevere. Sometimes it may seem to be to no avail, but then someone sends a wink or a message and all is well with the universe for a while. Obi1
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RHP User
12 years ago
The cock's united will never be defeated.We could stop imports of Dildo's and sex toys as most men work on the docks!We could deny women sex till they become compliant to our needs.We could hack the internet and get rid of porn!Who is with me?I regret spending my money on night vision goggles !Its only money live and laugh Women don't even know what they want to wear on a day to day basis Men stop thinking to much ,life is never what it seems !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Obi
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RHP User
12 years ago
there are a number of women here,including myself,who rarely receive messages.I know this is apparently an aberation but it is true.In the twelve months that I have been here I have met four men from this site.This is not a whinge,just my reality.However I am on another so called vanilla site where I am spoilt for choice....go figure.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love your post Mick, was a hoot made me want to rip my clothes of and drive naked to your house and meet the wife. I feel for the men on here, the young the old the wise and the not so wise. Its a pussy lottery and not all the pussy is prime pussy either. But in your minds its avaiable pussy, and that my male friends is the problem. every cock that writes to said pussy wants in. Any guy that contacts me, I know that he just wants to get his end away. its simple math for me. yes I am sixity and my youngest regular lover is 24, shock horror! the odest guy that I would have loved to have bonkied his brains out is 54, but he chose not to have sex with me. yes its a meat market so you can carry on here, trying to work out what women want in the hope of opeing some legs or you can go pay for sex. men your not looking for a relationship, though you may dribble that shit to women to get your end away. and women a way to a mans heart is not through your twat and yes, I did give some advice on here , that is because some guys do not have a clue in the basics, just ask a few women on here, about guys turning up all dirty and stink of smoke or booze and say how about it luv? feel like a root? some guys get more than others, cause yes they are good looking, young hot studs. but if thats all a woman wants, then that is what she picks. All you need on rhp if your a woman, is a hole or two and a pulse, the latter is optional
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RHP User
12 years ago
Innerwest...... Sorry to hear about your current situation. I was in the same situation as you in a similar site. I agree with meeka when she mentions contributing to forums, and hanging out in the chatrooms. People will get an idea of the type of person you are. I have had a fair few people contact me by email after reading my contributions to the forums. whether positive or negative, they make the time to contact me, and from then on its how the situation is handled that could possibly lead to a meet. I checked out your profile....... Coming from a guy, you dress really well, however your face pic, does not really show who you are, you see half a face, which looks a bit uncomfortable. Putting your face up takes guts, and I take my hat off to the people that do, but I would suggest perhaps leaving your face in a private gallery. That way a woman can be interested in your words first and then on request you can give them a face pic. This way you develop a rapport with your potential date, she sees you more than just skin deep, and is then pleasantly surprised when she sees your face. Unfortunately when you have your face pic on display, even if you are the most attractive guy on the planet, it helps the filtering process, because the person viewing them can make inaccurate assumptions about the type of person you are, by your face, whereas if she/he reads your thoughts, feelings etc first, her opinions instantly change, leaving a more positive outcome for when she does see your face pic. Also in your description, try show the cheeky, confident or funny side to you. This site is cruel when it comes to self consciousness and in tern cockiness, so instead discuss the fun side of you, do not mention things like 'I am no supermodel" or go on about pet hates or hobbies you have, rather save that for the emails, when they ask. Try be confident about yourself and your abilities. And lastly keep things short and sweet that says enough about you to raise an interest as most of the girls on here have heaps of emails from guys every day, and do not fancy reading a novel for each. I hope this helps, feel free to contact me if you wanna discuss any strategies.CheersRick
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RHP User
12 years ago
you boys have it tough
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RHP User
12 years ago
A lot of people are here for attention, they love reading messages sent to them but never actually want to meet. They only enjoy attentions. I also have trouble, you're not the only one- so don't feel down.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think I have seen so much blunt honest truth on the one thread than this one !
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RHP User
12 years ago
say a lot on this topic because I have been in your shoes innerwest, but I am going to be judge so badly as i am the only evil around here.... Anyway just have fun with forums and chats and the sun will rise for you also my friend.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I actually find it more annoying when you seem to have a conversation going (via email) and for no apparent reason that person doesn't respond to you anymore yet you can see that they are on line...I find that very rude..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Once again, would just like to apologise for the original post, it's a self-pitying pile of crap! Just to clarify, my expectations of the site are fairly modest. I have a full understanding of the supply-and-demand market forces at play on the site And am perfectly fine with how it works. Anyway, thanks once again for your responses and advice, it's greatly appreciated
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blueballs212
12 years ago
...struth...all the fakes,scammers, frauds, cons, crooks, wierdo's, and fantasists must be ganging up on me!
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RHP User
12 years ago
feign indifference. oops, my secret is out
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On_Safari
12 years ago
There's nothing wrong with your profile it's succinct, maybe throw in a little humour. Your pictures are good.Quoting 'innerwest123' ugh, jesus. Do not drink and forum post, kids. That's the lesson for today.My apologies for this total self-indulgent piece of whiny crap.Thanks for the responses, and the honest and friendly feedback. Much appreciated. Will work on profile a little more, now.Have a great night, all. Oh hell yes, I know about posting when under the influence!! But still the "RHP Brains Trust" do have alot of support and advice to give most of the time. I don't regret the money I spent here, it's paid off in spades!! And being self-indulgent is something we are all finding fun I'm sure....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Holy shit, Mike, that was amazing. If nothing else, this place could really start some bromances. Red Hot Pints, where 'real men' get to cry into their beer together ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do get where you are coming from man It's like going to the pub really you are going to try your best and maybe that's good enough and you meet someone. Generally it's mostly misses for me but then I have to contend with living remotely and the usual response of me being to far away. It's kinda weird tho cause I'd like to meet women that I could say eventually when I'm in town lets have drinks but yeah doesn't work out that way. Man give it a go again you got noticed and lots of advice.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Aparently I don't exist! Aparently the abundance of sex I've been getting from this site is all fictional. Aparently all the replies I send to guys are mythical. Aparently all the numbers on my iPhone speed dial ending in (from RHP) are digital dreams. Pfft. Innerwest - c'mon! Surely you understood when you jointed RHP that for once in your life you have left male dominion behind and this site is a place where women have the upper hand? Suck it up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
How many times have the fellers got pissed and ended up ( I love you mate, because your me mate, and I love you all, because, your all me mates, and were all mates because we etc, etc, and I am not as thunk as you drink I am, mate. I love you mate) Then one at a time, find a rock, shoe, bench top, dog, even mates dog for a pillow, then fall into coma. Wake up, brush the dust of your clobber, pat the dog. And not the worry to what your mates are gonna be thinking, because your there mates. And off you go to anywhere that is quiet, preferably.This time, you and the computer was your mate, you told it your drunken thoughts in complete privacy, and found the keyboard a pillow landing your forehead smack on the send button.Now I have had to listen to your drunken honesty, and be your mate, because that's how it works mate. (thank fuck you didn't do anything stupid)Don't need to look at your profile,cos your me mate. But I can tell you, while sitting with the misses and looking at the messages, flirts from blokes having a crack at it. She stops to look at faces that are smiling, ones with eyes smiling they get her all worked up, and she just has to see what is inside the profile. Or she moves on through the duldrem, some times there is no face pic, and the line written as subject, catches her attention. Usually something funny,cheeky,and definitely if it is a funny cheeky even naughty, respectable Question asked. Again she must know who has noticed something interesting about her,us. So if your pic smiles, big plus. If you pay the lady some compliment to the thoughts from reading her description and all interests listed, as her a question to what you find interesting to the personality she has attempted to describe, and if she senses you are excited and sincere....I don't know of a woman that would not want to know more for a person that finds the truth in them, interesting. (it is getting them to shut up, to all the rest of what they sit in anticipation and long for that infatuating man, to tell her more.) Automatically, if you are that man? You are sexy in their thoughts. Don't fault yourself, you may be wrong. Don't tell them you are sorry to disturb or that you looked at them, they will believe you, thinking so you should be, for whatever you were thinking. Don't tell them anything you don't believe is true about them, they will see through that. Don't forget words can be felt, and emotion is what will have the lady feeling to send a reply message. Let them ask you about you. And be the gentleman.Maybe you did not fuck up, and asked a question that is fair and sincere. (To your discussion with the computer)Mado
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