He smoker she straight....

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  as for the smoking...i (female) used to be a smoker...quit a year ago, but do sneak in the very very occasional ciggie when i am with friends who smoke...even though i don't do it anymore, it still doesn't bother me, if others around me do...my husband never smoked, but married a smoker...so fair to say he is not that fussed either...loli was told however, by many friends, who never smoked, that they can smell it on someone, no matter the efforts that the person put into getting rid of it...i think your best bet is to meet smokers...makes it simple.. as for being a straight woman...most couples enjoy the whole "four people in bed" thing...and often the ladies break the ice by starting to flirt/play with each other...then the guys slowly join in...i am bi, and i know , that playing with the female half is just as much the allure of swinging for me, as playing with the male..i would imagine though, that lot of couples would be happy with just swapping partners, and get off on that, and the excitement of watching their loved ones pleasuring/being pleasured by another...so don't give up.. at the end, you are who you are...there are so many couples on this site...there are out to be a perfect match for everyone...just got to be patient, i think :)

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  cougar4fun

  11 years ago

  But you aren't the only ones swimming in it. If you are honest about both, you will eventually find people that are like minded. I don't smoke, prefer non smoker, but will play with smokers (with good hygiene and consideration for others). Good luck, I hope you find the couple that's right for you.

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  erotictouch4u

  11 years ago

  The lengths you go to out of respect to other couples to ensure your smoking is not a bother for them is extremely commendable and I applaud you for it.Personally if a smoker had on their profile a description similar to that in your post of what they do to mask or otherwise make sure the taste or smell from it was not obvious then I would have no hesitation to meet them.You can get much worse with BO in some people and that can be just as offensive.ET xox

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I've changed onto a different way of getting nicotine. Evapebuddy..... You get your nicotine as normal, but the delivery is water vapour. No smell, no carcinogenic smoke. You draw back on it like you're smoking and feels the same but cheaper. And it's a good transition to non-smoking. If you want more info on the cost savings and other benefits, you know how to contact me :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  We are both straight and yes it does appear to limit the interest from other couples but there are others out there who find the opposite sex is plenty and exciting enough without going for same sex play. Its interesting the recent threads Bi ladies complaining about other Bi ladies pretending to be Bi. This makes us think there is some justification that Female Bi play is at their husbands request and he is insecure about another male screwing his wife...he just wants yours. Hang in there it will happen for you guys heaps of times. Smoking would not worry us, I believe some it would. We look for, similiar age, looks, body shape, committed relationship, couples only. Single females even hit on us and we say no thankyou. Its swapping partners for sex....that is the opposite sex.

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  Taby_DK

  11 years ago

  Neither of us smokes, we both find it turn off if someone was to smoke in our presence. However if the person was to take measures so that smokers breathe could not be noticed we would not mind. One the subject of straight women in couples we have found that A LOT of women in couples have bi-sexual or bi-curious or experimental as their orientation but are not actually interested in women at all! They simply put this orientation up on their profile so that they an appease their partner or appear more attractive to other couples or guys. My advice is to simply state that you are not into girls when contacting a couple who has a female with those orientations. You will either:A) Get turned down as the female is genuinely bi and only plays with couples with bi girls, B) have a girl who is interested in girls but can play without involving you in girl on girl play or C) get a girl who isn't actually interested in girls and will most likely ignore you the whole night & focus on your partner. Don't rule out couples simply because the females orientation is not straight you might be surprised by what you find. Simply be straight up from the start & say you are not into girls is that a problem for you? Most likely you will find at least half the couples you contact will not have an issue with this :)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Mrs Madmanx is definitely bi. However she is also extremely self conscious of it. She will never even show a hint of interest in a girl unless she is 15% certain the interest is mutual so yes playing with straight girls has been fine in the past. The smoking thing can be difficult because so many say they do it right but don't so unfortunately that's probably a bigger challenge. In saying that we have found couples who are decent with it so never say never. lol

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  When we read profiles (we are both straight) we do not rule out Bi girls or men. We will look if the couple is seeking another couple only .....big tick...Go If they are seeking another couple and a single lady ....ummmm lets read more, if their profile is worded all about the woman's touch and about another lady we then know, the couple is a second choice and we don't want to go there...its a stop. If they are seeking ladies, couples, men and they talk about themselves likes dislikes interacting with another couple ...that's good....but caution. You have to read between the lines if its Bi compulsory there must be same sex play or I am happy to play with the opposite sex just as much as same sex. No one likes being turned down, we find once we are turned down we will never return there even if they forget or you have changed your profile name and they approach you years later. So use their profile wording to get the odds up.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Despite your best efforts to disguise your smoking it still sleeps through your pores and lungs I have met couples who say are non smokers only to discover they are No amount of gum or teeth cleaning will fix that! As for straight women there are lots out there The smoking will be more of an issue

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  eurotwous

  6 years ago

  No point trying to disguise it, there are couples out there (like us ;)) who couldnt care less whether you guys smoke or not, as long as you are in good shape, clean and attractive. And, funnily enough, some people of euro continental background may still find it sexy - Givenchy little black dress, a long thin cig stick in her manicured hand.. once again, if you guys are str8 as nails (same here), there are takers for that too. Genuinely bi- or les- ladies won't be interested, but who cares. Your F isnt interested in them either, so its mutual. Make it bold & clear on your profile and if still in doubt, rase it in your F2F meet-n-greet to level set mutual expectations. In the end, swinging started as a straight game , couple swap/keys in a bowl parties. Wonder if anyone running these, we'll put our hand up

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