M44

Help! I can't fin where I fit in

June 20 2020

bi curious

bondage

bukkake

cum

Hi everyone. I'm a bi curious guy with a weird set of conditions haha. I don't find men attractive nor do I want to have sex with them. I find women more attractive generally. However I have this really strong penis and cum fetish. I'm sure I'm.not alone there. But on top of that I like to be humiliated and restrained. I also like a mistress but honestly more cock is preferred. A forced deepthroat and bukkake is probably the goal. I'd also like to video it to relive the humiliation later. But that's not a deal breaker. I am really struggling to find somewhere to meet my needs. Grindr is full of guys just wanting hookups, which I'm not down for as it needs to be fun and safe and less aggressive, except when in character.. Venues can provide the environment but often their male options are limited. And it's a case of the more the better for me. Strangers also present inherent risk. Wondering if there's any one out there who has had similar challenges in having their desires met and how they went about solving it. Looking for pointers and advice or, ultimately, good people who share enjoyment in fulfilling fantasies safely and openly.

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FeistyFatty

4 years ago

Fetlife👍

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SpicyKale

4 years ago

Yep, fetlife! Don't expect to find what you're looking for for free though. The amount of time and effort you'll put into searching, you might be better off contemplating a really good pro dom. Since you've got a really set fantasy in your mind, you might get a better end result heading in that direction.

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teamaj2

4 years ago

As the lovely ladies suggested, I have agree , Fetlife .

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RHP User

4 years ago

Check out Curious Creatures too. Sex positive and inclusive set of kinksters where your desires are celebrated

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teamaj2

4 years ago

I have to agree sorry

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RHP User

4 years ago

Fetlife is like Facebook for kinsters, it’s not a pickup site like RHP more a community. The most important thing is to learn that you are not abnormal, lots of people out there that have way kinkier sex of all sorts. Learn the language of kink, understand that aspect of humiliation and power exchange is quite usual. There is no value judgement about it other than what you assign it. Try it, let yourself drop into the sub space that you feel comfortable to explore, you may never know where you will end up. With any luck it will be delicious.

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LoveBiBoysNGirls

4 years ago

Fetlife is *definitely* what you're looking for so don't despair! There are women on there and in the BDSM community who'd love to have you as their submissive/slave, either in a platonic, purely sexual and/or romantic Dominant/submissive dynamic. I would suggest initially going to a professional Domme/Domina/Dominatrix/Mistress to find out whether these are just fantasies which dont hold up in the light of day or something that you 100% NEED in your life...then you might need to determine whether you want to live this dynamic 24/7 or just in the bedroom. Either way, you will need to do a lot of self-study/reading up on submissive training and How to Successfully Approach a Domme before hoping to catch the eye of a non-proDomme. Fetlife has a multitude of groups you can join which can help guide you in these tasks. Just remember not to approach any Domme 'dick in hand' as at best they will block you. In this world reputation is by word of mouth and paramount to your success, so approach everyone with caution and respect. Men with no experience can expect their first submissive role to be a (platonic?) domestic sub or slave to 'get a foot in the door', so to speak. Hope this was somewhat useful to the OP or to anyone else reading it who is interested in the BDSM world. Everything written above should be taken as just my personal experience and knowledge obtained through extensive research, and not by any hard and fast rules...more just rule of thumb 👍🏻

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RHP User

4 years ago

Fetlife has helped me discover what I enjoy, who I am and has helped me form the friendships I never dreamed of.

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